As a shorter guy, this is something I see quite a lot of: I open a girl, flirt with her, tease her, she’s having a good time.
All of a sudden, a random guy approaches and tries to interrupt me.
I don’t see this happen nearly as often to taller guys 6’0” but for me, it happens just about in any setting, even Parties and Meetup events. Another guy comes up and interrupts the conversation and spits his own version of game.
This was incredibly frustrating for a while and I tried just about everything to try to overcome it. I tried agree and amplify to whatever underhanded insult the other guy threw my way. But that would quickly devolve into the girl losing interest in both me and the other guy since it was just 2 guys trying to one up each other... not good
I tried going on the attack and insulting the other guy’s fashion or comparing him to a dumb movie character... but same thing as before, this would just result in 2 guys fighting over one girl, which means the girl loses interest.
I even tried going the apocalypse route. “You... get the fuck out of here now! Or I’ll fucking murder you!” to try to intimidate them into leaving but unfortunately, this scared the girl off too. Really dumb on my part please don’t do this. I’m lucky I didn’t get killed.
I finally discovered the secret after I tried to interrupt another dude’s set and steal his girl. He didn’t insult me. He didn’t even look my way. And that’s the secret. Total and complete ignoring, like a king would do if a peasant approached him. His girl remained glued to him, and even told me to go away!
This was incredible! I began applying and modifying this new discovery and found that this is by far the most effective way of dealing with guys that try to steal your girl. It demonstrates that the guy is such low value that he’s not even worth your time to notice.
In fact, I made a slight modification after dealing with one too many persistent guys that got angry and kept trying to enter the conversation anyways: apologizing on their behalf!
I still wouldn’t even so much as glance at the other guy. He’s not worthy of my attention. But I would “apologize” to the girl on his behalf. “I’m so sorry, we keep getting interrupted, my apologies”.
What this does is it conveys that not only is the other guy not worthy of attention, but also that his social intelligence is so low, he can’t even recognize that he’s interrupting and thus, I have to “apologize” on his behalf the way a Dad would for his misbehaving son!
At this point, usually the girl will tell the other guy to leave! Same thing that happened to me. Simple, brutally effective strategy to prevent other guys from stealing your girl.
Of course, all this goes out the window if the guy knows the girl. For that you’ll need actual social skills to befriend the guy.
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Could you elaborate on how you did this to different people, like your teachers?
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This kind of thinking is hilarious and truly is a defense mechanism.
The thought of people considering themselves alpha is gold tbh. Considering the amount of semi Intelligent Chads out there that make everything in their lives about that in order to feel some sort of validation screams beta and it’s a self eating ideology.
Like, in your mind you have to rat race and strive to be like the CEO because you wouldn’t be comfortable enough as a unique individual working as a janitor and use that as your example of high value/ low value man. All worth to you is external when for most women it’s completely the opposite and you fail to understand that.. yes even the vain, ultra materialistic women out there (who are usually pretty but dumb and talentless) think that way when you peak their interest even without knowing your profession... The most Beta thing a man can do is work their life away to acquire materials that they believe make them a high value man instead of doing it because you want to for yourself, just to date a woman who looks like a 10, but has to read with her finger guiding her. And has minimal life skills. What a waste of fucking time and energy.
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"Get out of here or I'll murder you"
That'll getcha arrested, bud
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Yes height is a status symbol. So is being jacked, having titanium frame, peacocking etc. Even better is actually having high status, if a girl sees you confidently leading a group she will be interested.
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Literally just got tooled bro
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Hey what if I feel like I’m not interesting enough and the guy is really interesting?
Also what if the guy knows me and tries to flirt with her? Do I do the same? Ignore a friend?
Sorry new to this.
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Will I’ll just give you an example, I’m talking to a girl in school and it’s just her. He just happens to see me and I shake his hand. Then he tries to talk to her.
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He is just an acquaintance. Yeah I kinda don’t like being competitive. Also I don’t really care much but I do get ‘envious’ (not sure if it’s the right word) that makes me feel a little mad. It just hurts because I’m too nervous around her. I guess I am putting her on a pedestal and haven’t tried moving things forward. I have had other girls tell me that I play hard to get when I’m just really nervous lol.
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Tell the guy "excuse me we're in the middle of something"
or
Laugh and tell the girl "lets go somewhere quieter"
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What's to value in some scumbag trying to steal your woman?
Weak as fuck frame you got there, pal.
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