Understand Women, Don't Hate Them 722 upvotes | April 11, 2017 | by bountyhunterdjango ------------------------- So you just realised that the girl you've been texting and talking to 24/7, the one that's only ever dated assholes but is on the cusp of realising what a sexy, sweet, perfect package of a guy you are, is actually: a biological woman. And you've realised that girls, as slaves like all of us to their own biology, actually just want a popular, confident, dominant man (you know, like those ones you hate) to fuck them. Now an obvious reaction to the epiphany that girls operate in this way, is to hate them. Their search for a mate, independent of morality, is an instinctual need to track down specific genes, and it's a great example of our cold, indifferent universe that is completely at odds with the "win the girl by being nice!/yourself!" sentiment the emotional world of movies teaches us as children. This is the thing though, us men are also slaves to our biology. Maybe some of you have had long-running female friends that have been extremely good to you. Now you could pretend you'd rather fuck them than a 10/10 supermodel, but that would be a lie, because attraction, again, can't be negotiated. The trick is to understand and accept the upsetting (but uncontrollable) parts of girl's personalities without tricking yourself into thinking that you're somehow superior to them. This is for a couple of reasons: 1) Easy as it is in the anger stage, this kind of hatred just isn't healthy. Sure, starting off a bit angry might help you with weights, but when that motivation fades it's just a useless emotion holding you back from being the type of stoic man that attracts women. Also, it's stupid. Seriously, they can't control it, let it go. B) If you're on this sub you probably want to fuck girls. Right? Well hating women is going to make that a hell of a lot harder. How are you meant to make interesting/engaging conversation with someone you hate? Adding to that, female friends do a lot for pre-selection and can be good wingmen, and you can't form genuine friendships by hating that entire 50% of the population. If you want to keep hating women you have three options really. 1) Avoid them. Good luck. 2) Be openly hostile with them. Again, good luck. 3) Fake every interaction with women. Which is tiring, weird, and frankly, pretty dumb. So my advice, don't let the things you learn about women make you hate them. It will make your life and your game a lot harder, ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/42550