Maximize your appearance before trying to become the Gandalf of social skills. 1020 upvotes | July 6, 2017 | by kennytrp ------------------------- I'd bet my left nut most people here think reaching savant-tiers of social wizardry is the key to female attention. It sort of reminds me of a self-help forum where deep, analytical theories are being spouted left and right and taking action is delayed for better times. Women are not so intricate and complex as you portray them. You don't need an opener that stimulates some latent biological urge and you don't need to break them down to micro-expressions and tonal shifts. You want to get laid? First of all, upgrade your wardrobe. Follow some Streetfashion accounts on Instagram and imitate their style. Put your own flair on it, but adhere to color schemes and don't wear baggy clothes. It's 2017, looking like you came straight out of a 90s rap video ain't gon' cut it - and FYI, I'm a huge rap fan. The importance of clothes is often overlooked. Depending on the clothes I wear, I can go from looking like an absolute fucking bum to looking fresher than a fashion week in Paris. Get a nice haircut that fits your head shape. Hair and clothes will make up 80% of your looks as a male. Extremely few, IF ANY, men look good with an oily Russian fringe haircut, a dirty wife-beater and oversized pants. For reference: Look at any pussy-wetting actors who transform from jaw-droppingly handsome hunks to ugly ass bums from role to role. Check out hairstyles on Instagram, Pinterest or go to some male hair advice forums on the internet. Clear up your skin, get accutane if your face looks like a field of Pompeii volcanoes mid-eruption. Go to some skincare sub on Reddit for more information. Invest in some physical accessories like bracelets, a nice watch and clean shoes. Also, stay fresh by showering daily, invest in some decent shampoo, some nice brand of perfume, a nail-clipper and some razor blades/electric shaver and maybe whiten your teeth if you've bathed them in coffee and cigarette smoke the past decade. Go to the gym. You don't have to look like Jeff Seid or Big Ramy. Just work out three times a week and eat accordingly. Not that easy, huh? Analyzing and speculating won't give you a nice haircut and a fresh wardrobe. But I can promise you that if you maxed out your physical appearance this week, you'd get laid far more than any sleight-of-hand, psychological hocus-pocus. If you're not gonna be the most genetically gifted man in the room, at least be the freshest man in the room. Everything else will fall into place. Dress nicely and look your best, get more attention from women, more attention from women equals more experience and experience with a tinge of common sense is all you need. No fucking opener in the world is going to net you any significant results if you look like Gollum, trust me. Wanting to use psychological hocus pocus to manipulate womens' brain matter and biological urges is a bitter man's fantasy. It borders on the insane. Get that notion out of your head because it ain't happening. If you can't get laid regularly with 6-8s by maximizing your appearance in the manner stated above, then you probably have autism or suffer from severe social anxiety, because literally all you have to do is act like a normal person and show some interest. For 8+? Still maximize your appearance but also work on your charm, smile a lot, be inviting to all kinds of people and proceed to expand your social circle. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/44498