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So chicks like older guys. Got that. How do kids play into that dynamic? (self.asktrp)

submitted by 1alpha-zach

Single. I’m a good father. Get serious IOI’s from single mothers when I’m with my kids.

How does this play with younger girls? It’s a disqualifier for anything beyond plate if a girl has baggage for me, Same for women?

Even as I’m asking, I’m pretty sure it’s a plus. It’s so crazy how opposite women are.


[–]Terdmuffin7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hit on younger girls and find out.

[–]Tony_Danza_the_boss6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're getting IOI's, then go for it. Fortune favors the bold, not the timid.

[–]yourfriendkarol2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

a lot of 20s women fantasize about being submisive to 40yo guy. when i was 17 i also wanted to fuvk 40 old experienced woman. its normal.

one more thing, they also want such person so they think they are high quality if they could attract older guy, and they also want his resources

TLDR: they are whoring for his quality

[–]2gunsgetsome1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Chad-dad here. When I'm with my kids, we're usually doing something awesome. I play with them at the playground, I get approached by the moms and nannies, single or not. Their aggressiveness is an order of magnitude more intense at the pool (because I lift and it shows).

I date child-free 20-somethings. Always professional women with their shit together. In my post-divorce dating life, only one woman wasn't OK with me having kids. The vast majority find it attractive. I think it must be a common fantasy to be the hot stepmom.

If you're aware of the sexual strategy dynamics and behave appropriately, you can simultaneously be a provider for your kids while actively preventing yourself from being a provider for whoever you're dating. She's the one who has to earn her way into your awesome life.

[–]rivertorain__ 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

You are mistaken, it's absolutely not a plus.

We like older guys with status because we imagine marrying them and having kids of our own.

We assume a single father will not want to have more children and unfortunately we kind of assume something must be wrong with him for the mother to have left in the first place.

Your options are to find an outlier who doesn't care (very rare) or to date single mothers.

[–]somebullshitrp0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Can't even explain how wrong this is. Having a kid is the biggest social proof there is.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I disagree. Social proof that you have beta qualities (RMV) perhaps. Go read all the other posts on here from single dad's struggling because girls consistently ghost them.

Edit: On second thought, maybe most here wouldn't care about that.

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