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Bored of gaming, minimal interest in sex (self.asktrp)

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I was in an LTR for 12 years (yeah, yeah I know), started applying RP for the past two years after separating. I've learned a lot and had decent luck with women. I've fucked about 25 girls, and have had spans of having 2-3 plates.

I've gone on a couple of dates the past few weeks and just feel bored with it. I'm horny, they're attractive, but I just feel numb with going through the motions. When I think about the (even minimal) effort to get them into bed I just reach this conclusion: I'd rather be doing something else. Studying. Working out. Learning something new.

When I first separated with the ex, taking off a new girls' panties was like smoking crack. I was addicted. But I'm at a point where I have a visceral reaction to listening to stupid shit just to get my dick wet. It's almost painful.

The obvious conclusion is, "So? Don't fuck women for a while". But I just wanted to hear your thoughts, especially if I should be gaming girls during this time, or fully focus on other things.


[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten131 points132 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congrats you've achieved genuine abundance mentality. Now you can truly choose how to spend your time without being distracted by women!

The answer is you should be pursuing your mission. Don't have one? Time to create it! Now go forth and slay

[–]VolatileEnemy3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Right, clearly he claims he's having lots of success, maybe it's time to help other men who aren't as handsome or struggle more with women. That could be a worthy cause.

Consider the loyalty anyone has to someone who helps someone else find their LTR, future spouse, or get success with women they never thought possible.

I have a loyal friend like that I helped him with women once, and he turned that into an LTR and he's just always super nice to me and even buying me stuff where I have to actually refuse.

For those reading this and not having success, just remember that lots of people get lucky in this world, and finally, sometimes you might have a lot of success with something and because you're having such success, you start to lose the sense of value you attach to it.

Nothing turns you off pussy as much as having relations with terrible women, listening to their bullshit or problems, or even worse, listening to a guy ruining his life because of his wife or girlfriend. Remember not to be a victim of your dick.

[–]goblinboglin68 points69 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

I think TRP is not about fucking women. It's about becoming the best version of yourself possible.

Some may choose to fuck dozens, some may choose monk mode and become the next Tesla, some may be completely asexual and gain accomplishment somewhere else.

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[–]I_love_you_broskis15 points16 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I think MGTOW is about best version of yourself without giving shit to women.

[–]Turkerthelurker14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The caveat being that you actually enjoy MGTOW. So many seem to use it as a crutch.

[–]quadtodfodder3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

MGOW is couched in this failure / given-up attitude, Where RP has more of a discovered-a-secret-to-success vibe.

[–]TheLastMgtow3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

All roads lead to mgtow or death.

TRP teaches you how to become a mgtow without the insecurity of never experience abundance.

Many mgtows are one blowjob away from the plantation.

[–]TheLastMgtow1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Mgtow is the best, but if you never had pussy there are some dudes who will always wonder what it must be like. I love you broski

[–]I_love_you_broskis1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Totally agree. There are many sour MGTOWs that need to get laid to give up on hate.

[–]TheLastMgtow2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

A lot of mgtows will have a huge trigger for nawalt if they date, and that is enough reason to want to stay away from it. Guaranteed if i fuck the same chick for month, i get oneitis. To me is either dont fuck, or cycle between 3 or 4. Or else i get caught up. Im very narcissistic, and think im always above that nothing can affect me, and then i find myself wanting to dominate a THOT that is no better than all others. We think we are dominating them but we are the ones falling for the bait. Thats how females get you hooked, is making you believe you are being alpha, and she is yours.

[–]I_love_you_broskis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly man you summed up so well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

We're all here to pursue pussy, it's just the goal of self development has infinite more meaning than some meaningless holes you can throw money at and aquire.

[–]throwawayflatwhite-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think TRP is not about fucking women

Read the first sentence on the sidebar on the main forum

[–]goblinboglin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah shit head, and you read the 15 most common mistakes of TRPers

if you take everything written for granted, you are not better than any other beta cuck

[–]failingtheturingtest22 points23 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep. You've finally got the pussy off the pedestal. It's amazing how many it takes before blokes can finally come to this conclusion.

Now, instead of gaming sheilas to fuck. You can do the things you enjoy, and along the way pick up a sheila or two that actually sparks your interest.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We all want the same thing man, we want a woman of substance that is at our level. We want a partner to go through life with. We want someone to build a future with that lasts. We want a legacy, but that is not what we have coming to us. Most of us are not so lucky, we have average women available and we keep gaming. We crush it at home, at work, taking care of everything we need to take care of. We might have purpose and drive to build and grow and all that.

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A woman is not something that is set in stone. You don't just get a good one because you worked hard. Women are something you must go through till you find quality. Maybe you never will, good friends are very difficult to come by, especially when they are women.

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I do not suggest taking a break from women, I suggest that you continue having sex and continue approaching, I suggest that you press forward and develop game in the places where your future wife might be found. She might be at a community event sponsoring a charity you both care about, or at a seminar towards becoming someone you both want to become. She might be at a physical endurance event like the spartan races. She might be a teacher you run into at the supermarket, at Lowes, at the gas station driving a badass car you have always wanted to drive. She might be working in the same profession as you.

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Start really focusing on networking with people that are passionate about the things you are passionate. Get involved in the public social parts of those passions.

[–]boy_named_su33 points34 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'd slow er down and aim for higher quality women, less quantity

Most women aren't super worthwhile, but if you aim for smokeshows with PhDs (and DDs) that might pique your interest more than the average Tinder THOT

In general though, you should be focusing on your mission

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

you need to find women with more positive energy. many hot women with dark energy.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maintain. Not getting girls cuz you don't want to is different than nothing getting girls because you can't. The latter is terrible and is a pain in the ass to get back into the groove once you've lost it.

[–]Brokebeast1011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You've reached a point that most men cannot fathom. Just enjoy yourself.

[–]wawakaka1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

if you aint' into it why force it. i think your mind is telling you you want something more...like a deeper connection with some chick

espeically since you were in a 12 year LTR. you may not be the pump them and dump them forever kind of guy.

this kind of reminds me of HOWARD STERN when he divorced his first wife. said he would never marry again and he was fucking everthing in sight till he met BETH-O.

howard could bang chicks till he died but he likes being in relatinships so MAYBE that is what you are looking for too.

[–]TheLastMgtow1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Its time to learn a thing or two about mgtow. You are the type of man the world needs, a man who throws his back at women for being annoying. A man who is so fluent in shit tests and women psychology that is not a mystery anymore.

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You can now selfactualize and become a great mgtow, achieving in your life and finding true happiness with yourself. Or you can keep pumping and dumping, and teaching the hoes a lesson, that men are not the typical mangina slaves they think we are. Or you can invest in an ltr get oneitis and get cucked. Choose. one.

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

One- find better women. They’re good hot interesting ones out there that won’t bore the living shit out of you. I know what you’re saying though, once I listened to a plate talk about the Kardashian’s just to get my dick wet. Wasn’t worth it. You probably should find a friend with benefits instead of plates. Someone you actually enjoy being around.

Two- fix your priorities. Go out with men, find your passions, better yourself. You can get laid, great. Now that that problem is solved focus on things that matter.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The obvious conclusion is, "So? Don't fuck women for a while"

Right. Time to focus on other areas of life

[–]TipsyLeo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m a little late to the show, but uh, why not try getting a new girlfriend for the fuck of it to apply everything you learned from RP on her? Maybe make it a little experiment/Field Report? You can be focusing on your main goals while fucking the same chick with minimal effort because you’re in a RP relationship? (No need to say but obviously make sure she’s someone you wouldn’t mind spending time with that does everything you expect from a female) I think that would be interesting to see for yourself instead of being bored of doing same shit on different chicks. But good job on abundance mentality non the less.

[–]YthisGuy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Start upping that list of standers when it comes to girls, and pursue your life goals friend.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

fuck holes are good and all but they bring no meaning to your life.

yeah sure it may feel great but what legacy are you leaving behind apart from making women feel good and your balls drained.

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focusing on making your life worth living, then you'll have a hunger for pussy.

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too much of a good thing can be a bad thing

[–]le_king_falcon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

For people not having it sex is the most important thing in the world.

For those who've had lots of it and got a true abundance mentality they find that the price of admission even when it's low isn't worth the effort many times.

[–]Auxfite0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Went thru this whole phase as well but 1 year LTR.. after that relationship ended I got plates and the sex was just dull and boring. I got no satisfaction out of it. I get the same feeling of knowing I could be doing better stuff done. This lead me to going Monk Mode. With growth I’ve learn MGTOW is the only way. OP you’ll eventually open your eyes to knowing you’ll most likely never marry anyone and live alone.

[–]campa56la0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bitches are annoying and will always be annoying, it’s ingrained in their genes to just fuck with you all the time and now they have rights and shit which just put gasoline on the fire. You’ve seen their value. Go your own way brother.

[–]TheLastMgtow2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

TFM enters the room and asks if you are ready to take women's rights away...

Cucks appear nervous, and shy away from any clear response...

TFM leaves the room and waits a few more years, as society goes down to shit.

TFM comes back, and asks everyone in the room if they are not done yet...

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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