The Red Pill has all sorts of scientific studies, anecdotes, wisdom, bro-theory, and public commentary. But what should you do? Here’s the most practical advice I can give in a single sentence. Introducing: The Rule.
The Rule: If she doesn’t put out, then neither do you.
Or, more crudely phrased: Either fuck me, or fuck you.
Always follow The Rule and no woman will ever take advantage of you.
Most people here have listened to Patrice O’Neal. Once thing he pointed out is how men undervalue themselves. We might fuck women’s bodies, but they fuck our time, our money, our love, our attention, commitment, energy, validation, support, protection, status, etc. Relationships tend to be a far better deal for them, even if you do get sex. Yet plenty of men “put out” the way women want even without getting any sex! We call these men nice guys/blue pillers/orbiters/beta bux. I call them easy sluts. They put out what women want for free, because they don’t value or respect themselves.
How do you avoid being taken advantage of? By remembering The Rule: if they don’t put out, then neither do you.
That’s it. No more orbiting. No more beta bux. No more one-sided relationships… unless it’s you getting free sex and investment from her (they do it to us all the time, so don’t think twice about doing it back).
It’s shocking that The Rule should even need to be pointed out. Comcast cable internet aside, who pays for something, doesn’t get it, and continues to pay for it? (That’s for the American readers here.)
If every man followed The Rule, as I believe they should, society would immediately begin to fix itself. “Independent” women would actually need to be independent.
Quick rant: Some people criticize MGTOW, saying most of them are incel. So what? If you don’t get any, then not giving any in return is the perfect response. They are following The Rule. Of course we as a community want to help out our fellow man, but let’s face it, we can’t all be alpha males. Being Mr. Alpha Fux might be better, but for those who are set in their unsexy ways, MGTOW > beta orbiter any day of the week.
Anyone who tells you that you should give women what they want, for free and unreciprocated, is your enemy. They’re trying to make you into an easy, disrespected slut with no dignity. Fellow men, keep you legs closed and don’t give women jack shit unless you’re getting something out of it for yourself (i.e., pussy). It isn’t selfish, nor is it misogyny; it’s simply fair.
When dealing with women, never put out unreciprocated and they will never take advantage of you again.
TL;DR: The optimal attitude towards women you want to bang is The Rule: if you don’t put out, then neither do I.
In other words: either fuck me, or fuck you.
Nice guys = disrespected sluts, putting out for nothing in return.
EDIT: The Rule is within the context of sexual strategy, which is what this subforum is about. I'm specifically referring to men who want to have sex with women. Of course there are other ways of interacting with women. I'm talking about getting laid here. Foolishly, I assumed this was obvious.