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Get used to Jerks and Flakes (rationalmale.wordpress.com)

submitted by Modredpillschool


[–]Bobsutan2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

If a woman flakes the prime reasons are you didn't get her invested enough and/or a better prospect came along and edged you out.

Investment is a factor of time and interest. Interest is a factor of comfort with intimacy. In other words, the more time she spends with you the higher your mere-exposure effect. If you are doing things right like escalating physically then she'll be getting used to gradually increasing levels of intimacy, and when that happens once you part ways her rationalization hamster will do the rest. For example, "I wouldn't have done xyz if I didn't really like him."

There's a LOT more to it than this, but these are the broad strokes.

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

For sure, the problem is the level of investment necessary to avoid flakes is rising. How can you compete with the validation a woman gets from her cell phone and facebook like campaign?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Start your own. I've been debating getting back into social media simply to fight fire with fire. I fucking despise social media but it has captivated the mainstream and will be with us for the foreseeable future.
Find some photographer off of Craigslist to do some Glamour ShotsTM of your fit body + masculine style and fight back against narcissism with your own version of it. I'm not convinced this is the most efficient strategy but I am considering it.

[–]TRP Vanguardtheubercuber1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm still in the "too awkward to get the F-close" camp... Am I boned?

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

As somebody who has trouble pulling a same-night f-close, I was wondering the same thing.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've accepted the fact that perfection is the only solution if you want choices with high value women. The beta orbiting is beyond ridiculous and social media is filling these broad's egos with unearned compliment after unearned compliment, and they believe this nonsense which only makes our job more difficult.
Your hygiene and skill sets better be in the top 10%. Perfect hair, clear skin, white teeth, refined masculine fashion and style (no fucking skinny jeans or hipster glasses, bro) fit, confident, aggressive, skilled in bed, financially stable, etc. Interesting hobbies, strong vocabulary, wit like a straight razor, sarcastic, funny, chauvinistic, and so on. Honestly, your goal should be James Bond meets Ryan Reynolds because sadly enough "7" women can pull "9" men in this pathetic "First" world. The higher value man you are the less you have to work during the dating process because you put in the effort beforehand, which is my personal strategy as women generally just annoy the fuck out of me. I've F closed several women on the first date and as long as you build lots of attraction through texting, social media, phone calls, etc. and have also internalized game like a pro it isn't too bad.

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