The red pill has torn apart my world view.

mach11 · 2013-12-14T15:09:09+00:00

I'd suggest to all people just realizing TRP to NOT focus on pickup. Focus instead on understand the dynamic of the relationships you have and finding small ways to shape them. Focus on the internal; the posture and body language, the tone of voice and the words you use, even the clothes you wear. Find the people who take most advantage of "beta" you and start taking small measures to reform those relationships. You WILL get blowback if you (even could) suddenly flip the switch from sniveling beta to full alpha. People who know you and are used to you being a certain way will check at every opportunity that this new exterior is congruent with your interior, so I recommend you start with a focus on the interior.

wakethfkupneo · 2013-12-14T15:49:53+00:00

came to this sub 2 days ago, via the askreddit thread.

My heart melts every time I see this. Those feminazis & manginas inc. are wasting so much time and energy bashing on us ... Result? Tons of freshly unplugged subscribers.

@OP: Take your time, read, try a little, then read more. It takes time to digest all the material and ultimately accept the new reality. Read this:

The 5 Stages of Unplugging

... and it'll be a bit easier realizing that what's happening to you is normal, Red Pill is bitter and you'll go through various phases till it finally settles down. We've all been there and about 99% of people here are coming from the blue pill background.

Good news are that now that you've took a peek at <Morpheus' voice> "how deep the rabbit hole is" you will never go back. What has been seen cannot be unseen^tm .

malesextoyquestion · 2013-12-14T13:09:49+00:00

I feel your (former) pain, man. It all seems so clear when you read the content in red pill spaces and you wonder how the fuck you missed it in the first place.

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[deleted] · 2013-12-14T22:05:07+00:00

I recommend The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. It's a paperback summary of The rational male blog. You can get all the articles free, but If you want a good in depth summary that covers most red pill bases I would go order and read that first.

Then google Chateau Heartiste and read all his old stuff (it's in the sidebar as well)

TheGuelfOfNewMexico · 2013-12-14T21:15:03+00:00

My friends don't want to hang out with me, women want nothing to do with me and I'm miserable.

People don't like you because you're unlikeable. Being stacked and jacked isn't worth shit if you're a boring, miserable, sad-sack, pain in the ass to be around.

You sound like you have the personality of a damp sponge. I mean

I work out 3 hours a day 5 days a week

tittyfuckingchrist, when do you have time to actually grow a personality? Pecs are not a suitable replacement for charisma.

Just the fact that you're here saying that

im a just a few short comments, I felt a ripple in my mind

means that you're a hopeless beta fucker, easily swayed, with no firm personal opinions whatsoever. If "a few short comments" on the internet recycling a 14 year old movie restructured your world view, then I've got a book to sell you, 'cus you're a sucker waiting to get bled. That's why no one likes you. You're a wishy washy follower looking for someone else to feed him all the answers to "life's great riddle."

Shit, I could probably sell you the same book twice.

There is no spoon, motherfucker.

[deleted] · 2013-12-14T13:57:59+00:00

Good for you. You know what they say: Acceptance is the first step to improvement. You've accepted that your life isn't quite the way you like, and you've been given the tools to change that, good luck.

bgny · 2013-12-14T16:24:41+00:00

Welcome brother, glad you made it. TRP is a safe place for men to talk, discuss, bond, and enjoy our manliness in all it's glory, good and bad, warts and all. It's become somewhat of a support group for blue pill survivors, the broken-hearted, the divorce raped, and every intelligent, open-minded, introspective man in between.

It is painful, and the pill is hard to swallow. Congratulations on being man enough to take it. You are now on the road to a happier more fulfilling life.

FuriousMouse · 2013-12-14T14:39:43+00:00

Yep, been there "Hey this doesn't make sense, I do all the things girls say they want and yet I get no hot steamy love from them."

Something is not right ..

[deleted] · 2013-12-14T21:50:52+00:00

yes, yes, let the hate flow through you

[deleted] · 2013-12-15T06:12:38+00:00

When you start getting pissed off, realize that is a completely normal, acceptable, and indeed encouraged reaction.

Then take all that anger and focus it towards one thing and one thing only: Improving Yourself.

scottishredpill · 2013-12-14T15:17:02+00:00

Good luck :)

lothar52 · 2013-12-14T16:56:40+00:00

I'm 6' 4"

Women fetishize height. It is arguably more important than any other physical trait in men other than maybe facial aesthetics and shoulder broadness. However, facial aesthetics and shoulder broadness can be modified, while it is pretty difficult to modify height - you have a trait that permanently sets you apart from everyone else, and women fucking LOVE that shit. If you can effectively leverage this, spitting game will become a joke. You will barely have to put any effort into getting women, and they may even start to initiate things with you instead of you always being the pursuer.

Source: as a 5'5" male you get to really see just how much clout tall men are given, seemingly by default. Yes, obviously game trumps all, but the amount of effort you have to put into game is inversely proportional to your basic physical attractiveness.

Cruising74 · 2013-12-15T02:56:32+00:00

Congratulations.

My only pieces of advice are;

Realise that the anger, bitterness, frustration etc. you are feeling or will feel is a natural part of unplugging.
Study, train etc but the main thing for me is mindset. See yourself as the 'Great Prize'. This dictates how everyone should approach you and the treatment that is worthy of you. Society tells us to be supplicants, nice guys. Think of yourself as a King- how should she act towards you? Otherwise, next!

trppy · 2013-12-14T16:38:20+00:00

I can't wait to dive into all this knowledge and push myself as hard as I can to employ it. Hey it might all be bullshit, but it seems so promising I have to try.

Good luck man and remember: you will fail. It's a part of the learning process.

upright619 · 2013-12-14T17:16:39+00:00

Oh my god I'm cringing like a bitch by reading about your beta-past. Anyhow swallow the pill and move it on up.

captshady · 2013-12-14T17:19:59+00:00

Start applying game. While a full dose of TRP contains more than just game, for you my friend, that's where you start. I don't care which book you start with, but start, today. Focus on applying it, go out and get your stripes. Applying it is highly important for someone like yourself.

As you apply the methods, you'll see the proof in the results. Subconsciously so much around you will change for the better.

[deleted] · 2013-12-14T20:57:24+00:00

welcome to the concepts. Just keep reading, and check out The Rational Male - Year 1 for some good guidance on how to approach things.

Don't be dissuaded by opinions that come across as way to intense/offensive. In general, it's those concepts that slap you across the face and change your paradigm of how you see the world.

And I'm with you on the Confessions of A Invacel. Made me skip a couple of my senior level classes that day just re-reading and thinking that I wrote that post.

Here's another post that reminded me of something similar: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/16y203/20_of_the_men_get_80_of_the_women_xpost_roney/c80k802

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http://media.tumblr.com/98002a3363f016e1a25758a6482d1d68/tumblr_inline_mu9iwipo5G1r8ewoi.gif

There, there buddy. It'll pass.