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Currently reading Bang and am wondering how you guys have applied this to your wives?

Some examples would be helpful for context.


[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine18 points19 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

Bang is about night game and approaching more than one girl in a set. Use it to tell stories. Learn about multi threading conversational techniques.

His second book daybang is about day game. How to strike up conversations and approach women during the day. Helped me a lot in the beginning because the old man opener is so easy to use. I was way too much in my head. Especially the inner Game part.

Both can applied to your wife. Gaming your wife is all about maintaining a higher SMV than her and also teasing, negging, push/pull, kino her, text game, drive bys, passing shit tests, dread, not putting her on a pedestal, not being an emotional tampon. Game is weaponized charm.

These things create attraction.

What don’t you understand?

[–]hack3geRed Beret11 points12 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

To add to this you also recommended the Tom Torero stuff which has helped me immensely.

I love day gaming now - started with just talking to everyone I saw basically which was awkward but got super easy then progressed to some chicks that I was slightly attracted to and then to chicks I would want to fuck. My wife asks me what changed and how I’m so comfortable talking to everyone and even asks me if I’m going to go talk to this one or that one.

My favorite targets are hot moms with kids because it’s literally like shooting fish in a barrel. They love the attention and even the slightest hint you might be interested in them makes their eyes light up. I can see the change almost instantly when they realize that I might find them fuckable - most are literally sex starved. I was at a resort over the weekend and this mom was touching me and flirting with me with her beta husband right next to her and my wife next to me.

As for the gaming - I second the negging and teasing. I always get the why are you so mean to me or stop it comments and then sure as shit within 24 hours she’s amped up and ready to go.

[–]EveryGodDamnDay2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Interesting. I figured moms with kids would be in mommy mode. You're saying they're even more likely to be looking for adventure? I'll have to give them a shot.

[–]hack3geRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Like I said you can literally see the switch flip in their eyes - tingles can’t be hidden.

I’ve never f closed one as I’m not there yet but a few have given me their phone numbers without me asking.

Surprisingly I find the mommies to be easier than girls in their early 20s - they tend to shit test way less than the younger ones. I’m 35 for reference.

[–]mrssmithhh2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, they're in Mommy Mode, but that's exactly why they appreciate having male attention. Early mommy years are a huge change from everything you've known in your life up until then, and practically everyone ceases to see you as a human and only as a living diaper changing machine. It's nice to be recognized as a human with more than the "mommy dimension." Add this onto any struggles she might be having with her husband - many men have a hard time finding their wives as attractive as a mommy as they did before kids. The mommy feels like having her child- the most precious thing in the whole world - cost her friends, social ties, intimacy with and attention from husband, and all other sources of identity, and those brief moments of another man (who is not obligated to say nice things or pretend to find her attractive like her husband is) seeing her as a woman fills up her empty cup and keeps her going for a long time.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes they are in mommy mode... but you can instantly tell which ones are dtf....

[–]chachaChad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It should be noted that just because the act DTF, doesn't mean they actually are. Sometimes they just want the attention. On top of that, even if they would, having kids makes the actual transaction mode difficult to pull off. Not saying it's not possible, just not always easy.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tom Torero is awesome. I like keeping up with his travels around the world on YouTube. The dude Games in every city.

“ literally sex alpha starved.”

They crave strong masculine energy.

Edit: she gets enough feminine energy from her beta loser hubby all fucking day long. I like the milfs too.

[–]z2a1-91 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Awesome!

[–]FoxShitNasty830 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Reading day bang, this is the book I needed.

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

negging and teasing

This. I'll do this in front of friends. Deadpan straight face, wait for the "oooooh he's gonna get it." Then start egging her on. "What? You gonna say something back?"

They know it drives them nuts, and it makes it worse that they can't deny how they feel in front of other people.

[–]z2a1-91 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great response and info!

[–]suprathepeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That makes sense. Thx.

[–]jacksarmy1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Roosh has a new updated book called Game, check that out instead

[–]suprathepeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Will do. Was gonna read day bang next but I’ll try game.

[–]meivanlee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Game is wak. Be authentic ..

I’m the words of Nas.. “I don’t got no game it’s just some bitches understand my story.”

To “run game” is to be fake. Ppl can sense fakeness. My advice is to just have fun with life.. flirt with LIFE.. and everyone in it. Have fun, share positive energy .. do / say fun cool shit cause that’s what you are genuinely feeling in that moment ..

If you want to do sexy nasty shit with your wife ,, embrace that energy and tell her.. don’t force it though.. if u not feeling it then don’t just do it to do it be doing it cause that’s what “they” say you should do.. instead go do something for yourself that you genuinely want to do to get yourself back in a better flow.. but when you are feeling it .. don’t filter yourself.. let loose and just do what comes natural to you in that particular moment.

Hope this helps,

✌🏽 Ivanlee

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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