OLTR and plates

ex_addict_bro · 2018-10-01T11:28:41+00:00

“I’m not doing exclusive relationships” is all they need to know

When they bring it up

MrTrizzles · 2018-10-01T11:33:48+00:00

You’re a generous and brave man, inviting unknowns into your home. Girls have to seriously earn that kind of privilege with me and mine, and only a small percentage ever do.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-10-01T10:11:15+00:00

If you lie, you always have to remember what you said. If you just do what you want and own it, you don't have to remember anything. You only have so many mental cpu cycles.

Is your mission in life to throw loads into Facebook tarts?

BobbyPeru · 2018-09-30T22:38:15+00:00

MRP is amoral.

Do whatever you are comfortable with

[deleted] · 2018-09-30T22:17:05+00:00

Depends on the circumstances, but typically I do tell them (plus I usually wear a ring so it's not like it's a secret that I'm married).

You just have to own it. Some women will be put off, but others will see it as a positive because they know you aren't going to get too attached. Just use your judgment. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

straius · 2018-09-30T23:10:17+00:00

Is it actually an open relationship? If you have to hide everything from sight, doesn't sound like it.

If it is, then there is no reason to be upfront. This is what polyamorous couple's will do and if you are transparent about it and act in a manner that demonstrates there is no problem or anything for them to be conflicted about, they likely won't be unless they just can't handle it, in that case... You said you have abundance so what's the issue?

InChargeMan · 2018-10-01T14:59:51+00:00

"I'm not cutout for monogamy. I've made this clear from day 1 and she loves me all the same."

This is you establishing frame, and also a shot across the bow that you are not to be on this rando's LTR prospect list, so she won't even try to get serious beyond good sex.

UEMcGill · 2018-10-01T15:02:07+00:00

Be wary of inviting crazy into your home. I'd seriously vet some rando strange before letting them know where my home address is. What happens when a plate wants to be upgraded and she shows up at your door with lasagna and a bottle of whiskey hoping to netflix and chill but your LTR opens the door?

You must think of all possible outcomes here.

honorocagan · 2018-09-30T21:23:10+00:00

Why tell them?

nastynickdr · 2018-10-01T01:41:35+00:00

If I were you I would treat It just like exclusive talk regarding plates: its up to her to bring It up or not. And If she does, come clean, and its up to her to accept your terms not. Of course, dont make her feel like a cheap slut, but you should know that since ur good at game.

If she assumed you didnt have a GF for whatever resson, well, her problem. Just like when a plate assume exclusivity without you ever agreeing to.

RedPillCoach · 2018-10-04T01:34:25+00:00

when do I tell them about the GF

The question is not "when." The question is why?

Should I tell them right when I feel they are going to be down to come over. Wait till they bring it up. What are your suggestions?

I would tell them what will make them and you most comfortable with accomplishing the mission. Do you think a Tinder whore who comes over for a quick fuck cares to hear you brag about your girlfriend?

since I live with her and plan to bring them over when she’s not home I feel like they should be told about it

Nobody cares how you feel- especially the ONS Tinderbangs you are bagging. You already know how to deal with it later when she springs the "where is this going" talk. The rest is merely a fine example of the male hamster in operation.