Got this text today.

drty_pr · 2018-07-11T16:16:38+00:00

If she is giving you everything you want, it's not against the rules to make her feel special.

IMO, it's a long winded comfort text that she knew she would fuck up if she tried to say it in person. To pass it, give her a little bit of comfort IRL. Don't respond to the text. Or, keep ignoring her and don't be surprised when she starts fucking an orbitor because she wants to feel love.

Regardless, it's your decision to make.

wkndatbernardus · 2018-07-11T16:03:40+00:00

Does this woman know about a thing called punctuation?

[deleted] · 2018-07-11T16:27:33+00:00

I think a response via text is warranted here. It's a comfort test and in order to pass you need to provide comfort. She's analyzing her text history and trying to find some paper trail for proof that you love her. Sure, you can continue to be Mr. Billy Badass and either ignore her text (since its not related to logistics) or reply with some witty AA, but I think you would benefit more by just telling her you do love her to get her to shut up. She is thirsty for some feelz and is probably close to her period, no?

If it was me, I'd just text back something like "Awww baby, you are too cute. You KNOW I love you very much. But I didn't realize you had these feelings about us and am glad you shared these thoughts with me. How about we discuss this together in person over a glass of wine tonight?" Then don't bring it up again. If she does, just fog and AM her, provide a big heaping dose of comfort, and then escalate.

She fell in love with you because you were alpha with beta characterics. You gave her feelz and tingles. Don't forget what got you to the dance. Ya dig?

JDRoedell · 2018-07-11T17:21:08+00:00

This is 90% a comfort test. Treat the entire thing as such. You’ve hit one goal post. Now calibrate back a bit until you’re in that sweet spot.

ChokingDownRP · 2018-07-11T17:07:50+00:00

Sounds like you're mostly doing it right to me. She's wondering why the good little beta bux she settled for is acting up in his cage. I'd respond with "lets talk in person" then, when you see her, just hold her tight and let her know you care about her and didn't realize she felt that way recently (NEVER APOLOGIZE). Let her talk, listen to her without DEERing, hold her tight again, tell her you love her and everything is ok...escalate and fuck her before her period starts.

simbarlion · 2018-07-11T20:42:14+00:00

Looks to me like Rambo's girlfriend is trying to let Rambo know he is a bit too much Rambo.

cholomite · 2018-07-11T16:17:12+00:00

The text is mostly blah blah bullshit, but there's something to take from it. It seems like you're not making her feel "special". Women love fucking cocky arrogant bad boys, but to be in a relationship with one, she needs to feel like she is special to him in some way that other girls aren't.

My girl does the same shit, she's a basic bitch and AWALT as fuck, but every now and then I have to remind her that I'm choosing to be in a relationship with her because she is more "special" than the other girls; it also ties in with the us vs. the world thing.

I usually give her some cheesy bullshit about being soulmates in the universe, or how she has "complementary energy" to mine, or some other cliched bullshit like that and she eats it up. It's just another layer of comfort you have to think about as you start to get hotter and more attractive. Don't get caught up in some lame conversation about her wants and needs and whatever, just hold her in your arms for a minute, say some sweet and corny shit, then something cocky and funny and slap her ass and walk away.

Also this should all be done in person and not over text. You're not wrong, I don't text my gf that I love her, so don't over do it going forward, just consider the "special" aspect of your relationship.

tikitheman · 2018-07-11T16:25:56+00:00

I’m not experienced as the others. My combined lifts barely make it above 300 and I have not read most of the books. However, I did read what you wrote and I took some things into consideration.

1) You’re being an asshole. Why? Your wife didn’t know that you weren’t going home to your kids. You’re just going off and doing whatever you want. I’d be pissed off if my wife did that shit to me. In fact, she was pulling that shit on me and I sat her ass down and told her that I didn’t need to know her whereabouts 24/7 but if I call and ask, you better tell me.

2) I saw something about the house being gross.

You lift pretty big weight right? How about you pick up a broom or a dirty dish. Sounds like your house is a mess and you’re not doing shit about it.

3) You’re openly talking about fight club.

You’re dishing out advice where 1) it’s more than likely not asked for and 2) when your wife around so that makes you an idiot. Quit trying to save the world and keep fight club to yourself. They don’t understand and neither will she.

4) Chill the fuck out.

You are getting laid a lot and well. Most guys in this sub aren’t and they’re aren’t running around with machine guns looking for the fucking chopper.

I don’t know your wife. Maybe you’re not doing much at all and she’s just a sensitive little girl or maybe you’re being a giant douche. All I know is that I’m applying what I learn here and I have got completely different results. My wife is so damn crazy for me the more I AA, pass shit test and comfort test.

My guess is that you are failing some comfort tests here. Like I said, I’m young (25), can’t lift for shit and I am very new in my journey (4-6 months give or take my fuckarounditus) but I think you need to rethink your actions and analyze your situation. You could be a total badass hitting on all cylinders or you could be a puttering piece of shit that is about to be totaled.

I don’t know what type of relationship you want with your wife but I know that if I were you and my wife sent that to me I’d be questioning whether I wanted to be married. It doesn’t seem like you care about her and in my opinion the text reflects that.

Good luck with your shit. Rock on with those lifts.

Rian_Stone · 2018-07-11T15:57:49+00:00

I didn't read it, neither should you. I used to get long winded emo texts at the start of my map too

If it's Important, it's face to face Important, and when asked, I said as Much

helaughsinhidden · 2018-07-11T15:52:52+00:00

Mgtow and mrp don't mix

[deleted] · 2018-07-11T16:10:52+00:00

I looked in your history to see what got you into RP in the first place. But you have none.

So what drove you here?

Reach180 · 2018-07-11T16:20:53+00:00

"your always asking me how much I love you"

Sounds pretty alpha.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-07-11T17:21:49+00:00

“I almost remind her of the guy I she used to ~~help get laid and talk to about chicks~~ fuck.”

BobbyPeru · 2018-07-12T02:30:07+00:00

Reply with

Tl;dr

ChokingDownRP · 2018-07-12T21:45:23+00:00

Good update, suspected it would go something like that.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-07-13T01:43:17+00:00

Why would you stop writing sweet letters? Did she start having LESS sex with you after mrp? Don't tell me YOU are the one?

Unless you are being denied there is no need for advanced dread.

used to be us against the world

She has a good point. What is your answer? Being your own point of reference doesn't mean you treat the wife worse than you did before.

red-sfpplus · 2018-07-11T16:05:44+00:00

I am the same height as you. I weigh 210# and my lifts are higher than yours.

I am not reading the wall of text you posted, and neither should you.

You should be focused on dropping 30# from your fat ass, because otherwise we just don't care.

wkndatbernardus · 2018-07-11T16:12:04+00:00

"My world is called Cleanhouseistan. You become a citizen by pledging allegiance to the flag of dustfreeness and by singing the national anthem, "All Hail the Mighty Mop. Bonus patriotism points when you have my shirt ironed in the AM."

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-07-11T20:31:22+00:00

Text is for logistics, not feelz.

Good on you for responding we'll talk tonight, and not barfing feelz through text.

classicthrowaway86 · 2018-07-12T03:39:35+00:00

Long winded comfort test.

Dont respond over text, think of a good response in person, re-assure her and give her a big hug. Be an oak, not an asshole.

helaughsinhidden · 2018-07-13T02:34:17+00:00

Nice! Good to hear the update