Listen, like everyone is going to say...you come here to focus on you. Why? Because most of the guys here are ALREADY married. And maybe they don't want to divorce because of $$$ or they want to see their kids every night before they go to bed. So they focus on the one variable that can be adjusted: You.

We don't talk about how awesome our wives are because it's irrelevant. You can't easily swap out your wife. But you want something out of marriage you're not getting and this place gives you some tools to restart the masculine pendulum.

BUT....you're in an LTR. And your LTR sounds like a Basic Bitch. You are NOT married.

If you're not married, then lets be realistic and acknowledge that there are some really shitty women out there. Natural born Facebook drones who want to show the world what their life "appears" to look like. Avoid those women.

Because on the flip side there are also some really great women. There are some really intellectual women out there who worked hard to be doctors or scientists. They may like nice stuff but their world isn't defined by it. Or there some women out there that have no career aspirations but were raised well and are caring people who are reasonably inclined to be fantastic mates and potentially good mothers.

Pick you poison but keep in mind AWALT. AWALT doesn't mean she is most definitely going to screw you over. It just means she has the potential to do some rather unpleasant things in your general direction should you forget your way. Don't forget your way.

So long story short...since you're not married and a family is your goal, go get better at vetting a future baby maker. Your current LTR sounds like a dullard.

Oh and get one with some nice boobs. I love boobs.