I'm mostly a lurker, but I just wanted to reiterate to folks that this stuff works. I hit a low point with my wife in January and decided shit had to change. Immediately found MMSLP, NMMNG and MRP, realized it was all MY fault, got my head straight, and then started quietly working my plan.
7 months later and I'm in the BEST shape of my life, I've almost totally recycled my wardrobe, i get deferred to on all decisions, I feel great, and I'm getting laid like tile.
Just a few days ago I was getting ready for work and the wife went into the whole "do you have a girlfriend" spiel (i don't). Later that day I got comfort tests texts about how I was fit and had these new clothes and she was a dumpy housewife. My SMV is definitely up and the wife is feeling it.
Sex has improved and happens as frequent as I like. When I came home from work today, the wife hops into my arms and says "take me upstairs". That shit NEVER happened pre-MRP!
To not be all roses and lollipops, there are some downsides. I feel a little more distant than I used to. I realize now that better and more frequent sex is not the panacea I'd hoped it would be. I don't really like having to make decisions about the kids that the wife just would have taken care of before. And I am much more likely to have opportunities and thoughts of infidelity. Still, I'm in the driver's seat and that's a good thing.
Thanks for the MRP community and the sense of personal ownership of your own shit ownership that gets preached here. My wife thanks you as well. :)
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