Let's have some fun: who are your current plates, FWB, and LTR?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-01-30T17:47:12+00:00

"are you seeing anyone else" which I immediately give a yes reply to. She freezes. Uh oh.

How you should have played it: "I'm selective." It sets the hamster to "Maximum RPMs"

Hamster: "Does that make it awesome that he's seeing me, or am I competing with a dozen HB9s who blow him as soon as he walks in the door?"

It's similar to saying, when your girl does something stupid or annoying, "It's lucky you're so pretty" with a Covington kid-level smirk. WTF is she going to do? Disagree with you? Hamster: Checkmated.

Popeman79 · 2019-01-30T19:58:07+00:00

It's a fun post for a change! Also, petite latinas with fake tits are my thing.

I'm now in a LTR, I have mad oneitis for her (guess what: she's a petite latina with fake tits). I've known her for 7 years, we dated a while and I broke up cause I thought she would be too immature for me (she's 10 years younger). Took her back a year ago as I realized I was wrong, she grew up to be responsible and trustworthy. She's a great partner.

What I like in her: she totally adores me. She never plays games, and I've been testing her for that for years. She comes from an old fashioned family where the men work hard and the women take car of the household and attend to the men. She considers it her duty to be extremely hot, and to drain my balls every day. She's told me that whenever I want to fuck her, I should just take her, and that 'if she's not in the mood, she'll get in the mood'. Although she takes a lot of care in her appearance, she hardly posts on social media, and runs away if a guy flirts with her. In her line of work she's decided to just simply not attend guys.

Although I'm crazy about her I made it clear I will never marry, and if she doesn't agree here's the door. I've come to this point that I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but if it doesn't work out I won't look back and will be happy no matter what.

My n-count is above a 100 and honestly I was tired of plate spinning. I've had my fun, and my LTR is still the hottest one of all the girls I've fucked.

I don't know if there is a lesson in that, other that TRP has made me really happy, contrary to what bluepillers think.

TRPthrowaway27 · 2019-01-30T18:03:45+00:00

Seeing three regularly right now, it's exhausting. And then have another one flying from out of town to visit in a couple weeks, which will probably piss them off when I go MIA for a little while (oh well).

One is a long time FWB, she's great, minus one freakout when she saw me out bringing home another chick, but that was over a year ago she's earned her way back. Is 100% in love with me but knows the situation is what is is. She's a close friend as well, so that's kind of nice.

The other two are recent, met one at an afterparty and she somehow ended up back at mine, who knows. Very clearly a no strings attached FWB. See her about once a week to fuck and/or go out with my friends and party... and then go back and fuck.

Met the other at a dance music event, brought her home that night and screwed her brains out. She's BPD so one minute she loves me and the other shes a cold bitch but I don't really care, the sex is great and I just ignore her when she's being a cunt. She wants more but I'm not about it so this one will probably break soon.

The one flying from out of town is awesome. Love that chick, but not in love with her. Would consider dating if she lived in the same city but as she doesn't, plate is all it will be.

Planning on making cuts soon. Having to see 3 chicks every week is a bit limiting to my time available to pursue various goals.

Oh, and what have I learned?

Abundance mentality is a real thing - I don't give one shit when one of them is pissed or annoying or whatever, I've got plenty of other options and it shows in my behavior.

Competition anxiety is a real thing - plate 1 found plate 2's underwear one night and freaked out, left, got to the parking garage, called and asked to come back, and then we fucked like mad. Since then she's really stepped her game up, dressing sexy when she comes over, bringing me gifts, things like that. It's great.

GayLubeOil · 2019-01-30T20:03:23+00:00

Meeting

I was walking along the beach one morning. Doing the usual. Just flexing my muscles at whoever walks by. Then out of nowhere comes ItIsWrittens mom. White woman about 55.

She says I need a bad bearded boy to cockslam my asshole. I need you to be the Osama Bin Laden of my rectum. Completely destroy the place. I want you to September 11th my poop shoot. Slam into it like a Boeing 747. Then slam into it again and again. Turn it inside out. If you know what I mean...

Afterwords I want you to give a touching memorial speach to my sphincter. I want you to make me feel patriotic. Then we'll build a memorial to my ass hole and recite poetry and play sad touching music.

That's when I realized that such agressive sexual drive is completely uncharacteristic of a woman and that OPs mom is litteraly a gay man.

max_peenor · 2019-01-30T17:56:51+00:00

I'm PST.

I'll do a retro and a current. I'm semi-retired so I spend a lot of time with kids instead of traveling on business and doing constant off-sites. The latter allowed me to keep a very large bench in a wide variety of locations, so these days I'm running leaner. A note to those that haven't been following me--I've been legally married for a very long time.

Shattered Plate

Stats: Upper 20s, classic dark hair, pale skin brit isle look. She was tall for a woman and had an incredible ass, but a severe case of resting-bitch-face.

Acquisition: I took a commuter train with a friend to visit his office and go to lunch with him. While talking with the friend, I caught eyes with this gal. We did the eye game for a bit (I've written about this before but the gist: be playful not intense and creepy). We got to our station and she got off too. I trotted over to her and did a play I use often--I said, "I'm in a hurry, but give me your phone." It took her a few days but she eventually messaged me. I set up a meet-up for coffee. she told me about the townhouse her office kept near her office for visiting employees; I saw that as my opening to 'check it out' because I wanted to do the same. The first time involved a lot of push-pull and by both of us, as it was pretty clear she was grinding to do it but had some huge roadblock. Twice I tossed in the towel and headed to the door to leave (pleasantly, not being a bitch about it), but she'd draw me back. Eventually it clicked and it was off to the races.

The break: This lasted almost a year. She'd find a window when the place was empty and I'd head there for a mid-day romp. One day I got the "we need to stop" message. Huh. Ok. I don't like drama so I don't fight these. A few months later I saw crossed paths with her in the city and I asked her. Yup, she was married and hubby started asking questions. He even followed her to the townhouse once but by luck she was going to meet a coworker and not me. She asked me to let it go, so I respected her wishes and gave her a hug goodbye.

Aftermath: Not really anything. I bring this one up because I think it's a textbook case for a plate. They don't last and there is usually some underlying reason why they don't progress.

The Unbreakable Miss-Wednesday

Stats: Tiny, skinny semi-butch redhead in her mid 20s (when I met her) with tits for days. No tats but she probably had more metal in and on her than a Yugo. She smoked a lot of weed and was no doubt deep in the SF culture around it.

Acquisition: I was on a random walk through the city and was pretty far from my starting point when I was very thirty and needed a piss. I walked into a whole-in-the-wall pizza by the slice place, ordered a drink and hit the head. Miss-Wednesday was working the register with her chubby dyke coworker, but the place was otherwise empty. She flashed me the "it's ok to talk to me" smile and I responded. So this was literally a nothing to lose situation--it was a place I would probably never go to again with people I would probably never see again. So I immediately sexualize the situation. I ask about her piercings and if they give her trouble 'doing stuff'; I start with innuendo but ramp it up. Eventually her coworker gets bitchy and I take the clue. And then came one of the Golden Tells: she tells me her work schedule. I ask when blubber-bitch won't be there and she actually answers. Cool.

I show up then at the next opportunity--it's after lunch rush and the place is empty but her. I close on the premise I need to see how their piercings work and she blows me. What she did was clearly out of normal character for her, punctuated by a heavy load (pardon the pun) of enthusiasm for the act itself. And that's all that happened. I zipped up. Grabbed a drink. Told her I'd be back with a wink and she smiled and said she was looking forward to it.

The break: Didn't happen. To this day I occasionally make it her way. She isn't at the pizza place any more, but it's the same schedule--always and only on a Wednesday afternoon. I don't even know her name--I called her Miss Wednesday and she thought it was funny.

Aftermath She is older and quite a bit of metal came off her. I have to assume that was part of her de-slutting process as the wall came and went. She wore a lot of rings, so I could never tell if any one meant something, but it could have. All I do know is she definitely had a fetish for being a blow and go queen to a guy 15+ years her senior. Fetishes and convenience are both armor for plates. I'm absolutely certain she would never blow a bf or husband with that enthusiasm, simply because they could never be that fetish.

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-02-10T04:17:18+00:00

Primary: A LTR of one year. Fresh off the boat from Asia and living in America for a few years. Five years my junior. I took her virginity, and she's been head-over-heels in love ever since. She cooks for me, gives me massages and back scratches, and obeys instructions without hesitation; she is my slave. I am helping her with weight loss and motivating her to finish her associate's degree.

Backup Primary: A girl I met while working in academia. U.S. born Asian girl. Twelve years my junior. I also took her virginity, and she likewise fell head-over-heels in love. Similar obedience and eagerness to please, she is also my slave. I am motivating her to finish her master's degree.

Active Plates:

Mail woman. White girl. Six years my junior. We meet for a fuck whenever we both have free time. She's having fun with me while she gets her emotional stability from some beta bux.
Special-ed retard herdswoman. Latina girl. Four years my junior. We meet for a fuck whenever we both have free time. Hook-up source, plain and simple.
Brazilian baby girl. South American girl. Nine years my junior. Newest addition to the rotation. She's angling to be my slave, but she hasn't earned the right yet. Undisciplined. She's a work in progress, but she sucks dick like a champion.

Potentials and Orbiters:

Hollistic business bunny. White girl. Four years my senior. Thin, tight, and flexible. We're aiming to hook up soon.
Russian single mommy. White girl. Two years my senior. Artistic, feminine, and pleasant. She says she's looking for a serious guy, but she giggles like the rest.
Chubby Asian #1. Three years my junior. Flirty over text, looking for a good time to meet up.
Chubby Asian #2. Four years my junior. Flirty over text, looking for a good time to meet up.
Big Knockers. Latina. Six years my junior. A little distant since her life is busy, but she's holding on. Low priority.
Computer nerdette. Asian girl. Thirteen years my junior. She claims to be asexual but can't keep her hands off me whenever we meet up. Looking to get in her soon.
MILF banger. Latina. Ten years my senior. Short, tight, and hungry for a fuck from a younger stallion. She's trying to impress me with the big-time independent woman vibe, so she's low priority until she learns to roll over.

Recently Dropped:

Preschool teacher. White girl. Nine years my junior. Hooked up once, then she got cold feet over her own guilt.
Biohazard bitch. Asian girl. four years my junior. Sucked me off the first time we met. Then, as we were due for our second hook-up, her pap smear came back positive for some unpleasant infections. Dropped her like a bad habit.

So in all, there are five on active sexual rotation and seven potentials waiting for an opening. Only two require a real investment of time. The variety keeps me stimulated. It's good to diversify your portfolio.

redfordeadpill · 2019-01-30T17:02:41+00:00

Plate to LTR

Meeting

Very cute young girl, about 6-7 years younger than me. Met through group of friends and I immediately started flirting. She's shy, introverted, looks like she's cautious about competition.

Generally speaking, competition gets girls wheels going. She knows I see other girls. She's seen me flirt with other girls. She dislikes it, but rationalizes it away because she's still attracted. She sees no connection, but that's the social proof right there.

The Break

We see each other for a few months, she never asks the question and I never volunteer it. If a girl asks, I always answer honestly. Some plates see it as a reason to up their game. Others fall off. It's the nature of the game.

I'm in plate mode so I don't mind either way. Girls falling off actually helps with any potential problems with clingers. (Though not entirely).

She meets a white knight who fluffs her enough with dirty details of how I'm a scoundrel that she finally asks me about our status. I tell her directly what I'm about and if she's not into that no hard feelings.

She always had a sweet personality and had a caring attitude. Good mother material, almost a shame she put it out there for me.

Later

A few years later, I bump into the same girl, still looking seriously good. She is so introverted she doesn't do much dating. She tells me she "attempted" to date the white knight but couldn't stop thinking about me the entire time. White knight crashed and burned trying to emulate my style/behaviors. He knew where her head was at.

She's got a seriously low N-count and was still hung up by the plate shattering. She probably would've stayed on years back if she had more confidence, but she knew she was after a LTR and I was not, and she didn't really know how to get from point A to point B.

We get to talking and I think about picking her back up. She is very enthusiastic about this. Still afraid to ask me the question.

The LTR

After casual spinning for some more time, I decide she's been well vetted and she would absolutely make good LTR material. We've known each other for years, she's still very young and has a lot of baby-making years ahead of her. She shows deference and a desire to please me. She's also thinking long-term. Her parents didn't do a good job teaching her how to get there, but her shyness kept her from even thinking about the cock carousel.

I decide to upgrade her to LTR. Discussions of parenting ideals, roles in a relationship, marriage (and the lack thereof), and other important topics take place over the next year. She eventually gets comfortable enough to try some comfort and shit tests here and there, but responds well to corrections and mostly keeps the testing at a minimum.

Takeaway

Don't forget the power of alpha widowing. It does more to leave an impression on somebody than I think most quick-burning relationships. I think when looking into potentially starting LTR or family, you have to look past your feelings and make sure there's a level of logic in it. Sure she was hot and I was emotionally on board, but she needed to pass the vetting process before being upgraded to LTR.

The parts that make her a good LTR were not determined emotionally. If I hadn't learned them, I wouldn't even know where to look to find them. It was a concerted effort to arrive at these conclusions. Of course, you can never know what the future holds, but this is a good way to maximize your chances. Of course I was intoxicated by the feelings that come with meeting women, it's a drug and a feeling that I think we all chase. But you have to set that aside and know when there's a good candidate, and most importantly when there isn't.

I've met women who are "spicy" or "rebellious." It's a phenomenon that has moved from Latinas to infecting most women under 40. Some guys say they like it hot and challenging, and sure the sex might be good. But an LTR needs to be able to submit and I simply do not think that is a skillset most women have today. You can't let your lower brain make these decisions. It doesn't turn out well.

Finding a LTR is a multipart process. The boner test is the first and easiest to pass. The vetting process is much different and requires thought.

effyouasshole · 2019-01-30T17:09:08+00:00

She hits me with the "are you seeing anyone else" which I immediately give a yes reply to.

Never drop truth-bombs on plates. A better response is to dodge the question.

That usually extends the life of the plate, and sometimes even eases them into the idea that they are just one side-piece of many. "I might not be his only one, but he is fun to hang out with...I bet I can get him to choose me!"

shitinhermouth23 · 2019-01-30T23:22:06+00:00

Something is rubbing me the wrong way but I don't know why. I think a lot of stimulant use but I'm unsure.

askmrcia · 2019-01-30T17:06:54+00:00

My situation is I'm dating one girl. Met her in my Co ed flag football league in Dec last year. I flirted with her a little bit during the game. I actually knew her in 2017 and I walked up to her after the game and told her she was cute. She said thanks and walked away. But yea made another move a year later in 2018.

Two days later she adds me on Facebook and then we started talking from there until I asked her out.

Before her it was just a few ons in 2018.

TheRoad15 · 2019-01-30T21:44:40+00:00

Loving this thread enough that I'll try and add. I've been wanting to write a sort of field report/lessons learned post on the main sub but don't feel I'm qualified yet so here goes!

Current status - LTR

Stats of LTR: 25 year old Chinese girl, been here a few years. I call her an 8.5/10 because I have yet to define 9 and 10 for me but she is easily the prettiest girl I've ever been with.

Stats of Other Plate: 30 year old Chinese girl, a 7 or 8/10. Husband is over in China while she gets citizenship here.

Acquisition: As I came into TRP awareness last year, I had some success with plate spinning. I had the 2 intimate plates mentioned above and 1 I was working on. The hot one was checking LTR boxes and the other one was showing some red flags along the way.

The Semi-Break: There came a point in time where I had a one night stand with some random girl that my roommates brought to the house. Unplugging my roommate at the time but he has so far to go (as do I), but I ended up with the girl. Basically I thought I had an STI and so I had to refrain from sex with the now LTR. I admitted to her that I was sexually active and she cried as she was cheated on in the past. We talked about commitment (why she hasn't asked me yet) and the way it was phrased is that girls are afraid to ask sometimes because they don't want to be rejected. In a sense I offered my commitment because I did enjoy this girl a lot.

The Other Break: I told the married girl I was seeing someone else and she of course cries as well. How could I do this to her and blah blah blah (uhhh hello you're cheating on your husband that you don't even love and have been in an affair with a married man before).

Aftermath: Some months have gone by and I remained monogamous until recently. Happened to invite a girl and guy that just met as a part of a Spanish get together back to my place with roommates for drinks. Girl convinces guy to Uber home and she will hang back a bit. She's about to leave, I see her to door and make a move. She told me later on that "she planned it this way" (guess I have a thing for banging girls that come back to my house with other dudes?)

Lessons Learned: WEAR A CONDOM!
Aside from the STI thing... we did have a pregnancy scare a few months back as she can't remember to take a pill everyday and it effects her body too much and blah blah. Gentlemen, I cannot stress it enough but you DO NOT want to go through this. Women immediately feel a living human being inside them. Their feelings cloud their judgement as usual and they want to keep the baby. Logic did prevail in this scenario but it put a huge strain on our relationship the past 2 months. Things could be on the up, but there are other thoughts that I have as of late about my long term goals/commitment. This is natural when the honeymoon phase wears, which came a little pre-mature due to the pregnancy scare.

handfulofnuts · 2019-01-31T16:09:14+00:00

I’ve got a girlfriend who’s pretty awesome, so at the moment I don’t have any plates per se, but I do have a few girls I will hook up with from time to time, and the occasional one night snack on the side.

I met her at a mutual friend’s place about a year and a half ago. Killer ass, I was thinking about it for days after (to this day I’m astounded by it, and I’ve probably fucked her close to 500 times by now). We left the party together and talked on the way to the train station, but I had a Tinder date so that’s all it was that night. I figured nothing else would come of it, because that was probably my shot and I skipped out for the Tinder date (which was awful).

A week or so later I get a message from her. Actually right after another Tinder date had ended. I hadn’t hooked up with tinderella and I was horny and a bit drunk, so I invited her over. Couldn’t pass up that ass.

She comes over, I make drinks, we chat for a while, she goes to the bathroom, I’m standing in the hall waiting for her when she comes out. We start making out, we fuck twice (phenomenal) and go to sleep.

It was like that for a while. I’d go over to her place, we’d talk, drink, and fuck (a few times). She knew I was seeing other girls, and didn’t mind. Oh, and I was married at the time (not anymore). She wasn’t thrilled about that, but she dealt with it.

Fast forward 9 months, and I’m starting to really like her. Still seeing other girls, but enjoying my time with her more and more.

Then I had a minor STD scare. Had to tell her I had gotten tested for chlamydia and was waiting on the results. She was pretty upset and shaken by that. “I didn’t think you were still seeing anyone else.” All that. I just told her that yeah, occasionally I see other girls but she was the only one I was seeing regularly. Which was true.

So she tells me she wants me to stop seeing other girls. Or at least keep it hidden from her. If it’s something I have to do, she understands, but she doesn’t want to know. But actually, don’t sleep with anyone else. But if you do, please wear a condom. But just don’t do it. But if you have to, it’s ok. Like if you get the chance to do a threesome or something, I’ll understand. Or any other “new experiences.” New girls that you’re really attracted to are fine. Just be safe. And yes, booty calls from previous fuck buddies are ok. Etc. Serious hamstering.

So basically as long as I use a condom and don’t let her find out, she’s willing to turn a blind eye.

But really, she’s so awesome and has such a high sex drive and the sex is so good that I don’t do all that much on the side anymore. She keeps me pretty satisfied—we fuck at least 7 or 8 times a week usually, plus a few blowjobs. I don’t think she’s ever turned me down, or even offered any resistance.

I do have a few in rotation, but I only see them every few months or once a year or so.

The Aussie

This chick is my ex wife’s former coworker. Tall, slim blonde with blue eyes and a great body. Gorgeous face and awesome personality. We had an affair that started around the time they stopped working together. Now this chick lives in another country, but whenever she comes back to visit we fuck pretty much every day while she’s here. Unfortunately it’s only once a year or so.

Travel Buddy

I travel to another city here in Asia fairly often for work. A while back I matched with this local girl on Tinder and she met me at my hotel within minutes of arriving. Outstanding in bed, fantastic body, super cute face, and her mouth feels like heaven. She’s a complete slut with a rotation of her own, and she’s just in it for the sex. It’s awesome. So whenever I’m in town we fuck like rabbits.

The 21 year old

This plate may have broken recently, not sure yet. We met on Tinder. I told her I was in an LTR and was just looking for fun on the side. She was down. 21 year old (I’m mid 30s), cute Japanese girl. Nice tits, smooth perfect skin, can’t get enough dick, can literally fuck all night. After a few hookups she pushed really hard to fuck without a condom, which I said wasn’t ok. She got in touch later and I said we could meet again but a condom is mandatory (she’s seeing multiple guys and I don’t want to catch something and give it to my girlfriend). She flaked. She may get back in touch, or it may be over.

BDSM girl

Another Tinder match. Not nearly as cute in person as her pics, but she’s got a nice body and she’s kinky as hell. Our first hookup was pretty vanilla but she got it into her head that I was some kind of dom. Asked me to tie her up and fuck her ass the second time (her first anal). I sort of let her drop after that because I wasn’t very attracted to her, but then she contacted me out of the blue maybe a year later. She had dated a “true dom” for a while, who had trained her to take it up the ass as much and as hard and rough as you could give it to her, and she wanted to demonstrate her new skills. She’s gotten a little too kinky for me now (she wants trains and gangbangs and whips and chains and all sorts of shit that I’m not really into), but every once in a while I get a booty call from her when she’s horny and just needs a proper fuck (or a pooper fuck).

Beer girl

I met this girl at a craft beer event. We hit it off but nothing happened. Fast forward a year and I bump into her, waitressing at my favorite bar as a side gig to meet new people. We talk a bit, then go on a date and kiss. Date two comes around and I think I’ll either close or walk (she’s fairly cute...for a chick in her mid thirties...not worth a third date even though she’s really likable). I’m honest with her: not looking for anything serious, just some casual fun. She says she’s not looking for casual sex. I say that’s totally fine, I understand and no worries, it’s been fun hanging out and I’ll see her back at the bar and there’s no need for anything to be weird between us. She asks me to show her the hotel I take most of my girls to, “since you said it’s nearby.” Ok then. Turns out she has zero gag reflex. Absolutely incredible throat game. She’s a fantastic fuck too. Super orgasmic, and she pleads for permission every time she cums. Way more fun than you’d think to look at her. She wants to meet up again soon but our schedules don’t align very often.

The gorgeous one

This girl is incredible. Beautiful face (especially her mouth/smile), sweet, petite, great tits, soft but shapely body. Delicious. We hooked up once before my divorce (she knew), and it was a lot of fun. But she doesn’t/can’t cum. For me that’s a big deal. Making a girl cum is a huge turn on for me, and it simply doesn’t happen with her. She says she’s only had a few orgasms in her life. Recently she got back in touch out of the blue (set your plates down gently if they’re not in need of breaking, and they’ll always come back). She knows I’m divorced now and she wants to meet. Knowing her, I’m sure she’s hoping I’ll be her boyfriend, but that’s pretty unlikely to happen. But I would love to hook up again just to see that incredible mouth wrapped around my cock.

Apart from that, I’ll occasionally hook up with a girl from Tinder, or I’ll go to a bar and take a girl home (a few of my city’s best hookup bars are within walking distance of my place), but these are generally one night stands. Occasionally they become plates (like the 21 year old above) but not usually. Mostly because I’ve got too much else going on in my life to put effort into maintaining these girls.

Now, my girlfriend. This won’t last forever (she knows that). I’m getting the itch to get back out there for real since I didn’t take much time to be “single” after the divorce. So we’ve probably got a few months left and I’ll drop her (gently, and maybe keep her on as a plate, because dat ass...). Right now I’m focusing on my business, but I’ve just closed a big deal that will bring the company to a major turning point within the next month or so and I’ll be very comfortable financially and temporally after that.

So I’m going to want to get out and feed some bitches my wild oats for a while. A few years, most likely. I want to spread my wings and see what kind of numbers I can put up. Both in terms of quantity and quality. I’ve been with some strong 7s and 8s, but I want to see how far right on the bell curve I can go, how many I can bag, and how much of a harem I can manage. And I’ve got the Aussie for life, most likely, and the travel buddy. And I know BDSM girl would be down to hook me up with her kinky network to help me set up any fantasy I have.

Should be fun.

Don’t marry, gents.

BacardiRazz1 · 2019-01-31T16:16:58+00:00

I'm seeing no one right now, as much as I love coping with the thought that 'Im working on my self right now', Id love to meet some new girls.

Last girl (I had oneitis for due to scarcity mentality) LJBF'd me so I had to hardnext. Shouldve probably kept her around to meet new people through her but whatever, too late now. Kinda lone wolf rn and NOT enjoying it

amwfhunter · 2019-02-07T01:57:35+00:00

My harem. I like women of all races. I go international for mine to give myself distance and to keep them away from others. The girls all know or aware they arent the only one but some are in denial. I like to live life like an emperor so I do my rounds. My fwb I dont see often only when I happen to be there and message them but they seem to usually be dtf. Lately I havent seen them in a while. I usually just stick with no more than 4 at a time if that. Or periods of time where I'm just with one or two.

Empress - Wife/ex wife type - Chinese from China. 45 y/o I met her when she was younger 30s, here in Usa and I was in my early 20s. 5'2, d cups, medium build hb7. Retired CEO and entrepeneur. I am of chinese background so we spoke the same language and got along. She helped me build a business and taught me strategies for investment. She herself is very wealthy and wise. Perhaps the best woman I ever met with respect to character and ability. She loves me a lot. Still calls me he husband even though I left because I cheated way too much. We were not compatible. I am forever grateful to her. I still visit her in china. She is more of a mother and mentor to me. 10 years +

Concubine - girlfriend type. Late 20s, slavic brunette eastern Europe. 5'7, 120 lbs. Tight pussy, thin body, gorgeous face, can be movie star looks hb9. I am almost what you call in love with this girl. Sex is amazing and we have chemistry. Very well educated, smart, charming. She is a physician. Problem is she is crazy, controlling and I feel she would never put me first. She would be perfect if it was not for her stubborn and mercurial nature and that I'm so jaded. She isnt one who would cheat but she refuses to be an obedient housewife type. She can be quite savage. I know she loves me but I dont want to marry again. She resents that i left my wife for her but wont marry her. I've been with her 5 years.

Consort - best friend type fwb. Late 20s, Romanian blonde. Very sultry looking hb8. Romania. 5'1 , 95 lbs. Regional manager of sales company. Small and tight pussy. Gives amazing head. Wild in bed. I can confide in her. She listens to my complaints about my ex wife when I was still with her and now my "gf." She knows about all my girls. She herself loves my company but we are both honest we arent each others only ones. We have fun and enjoy each others company but I cannot trust her as a main. 4 years.

Fwb - early 30s. American white "becky". Hb7 florida Usa. I met her partying at ultra Miami years ago. 5'5, 130 lbs. Very tight pussy, big tits dd cup. One time I came so fast just sticking it in. I've known her for over 10 years. She isnt really on the same wave length as me with respect to beliefs, politics and core. She is liberal feminist and socialist. Purely sexual and parties with me. We still keep in touch when there is a party. It is fun because with her I'm guaranteed pussy at the end of a long night partying. Always willing to get high and fuck. Crazy but a good time. 12+ years.

Fwb late 20s. Black French Canadian girl. Hb8 Montreal Canada. 5'6, 140 lbs? F cups. She is a nurse. Huge titties and nice booty. Gives amazing handjobs, blowjobs and loves me cumming on her face and tits. I met her at my bros party during new years when I was visiting Canada. She has a thing for Asian guys. 2 years.

New plates :

18 year old. Polish blonde. Poland. I met her travelling on a business trip. 5'2, 110 lbs. C cups. HB9 very hot and sexy girl. Very ocean blue eyes. She is a waitress at the hotel restaurant. Fun sex. Rough. Passionate. She is very sexy and tight. Fucked me all night and every night I was there. We keep in touch via snapchat. She would send me nudes every morning.

27 year old. Accounts manager. Exotic raven mix. Part Portuguese, spanish, arab, persian, and Greek. Dark hair, light olive skin. Gorgeous hb9. 5'7, 130 lbs, fake tits, d cups. Slender. Nice fit ass. Toned body. Gym freak. I met her on tinder. She was travelling to usa from Spain for business. Marathon sex. We would discuss a lot about food and fitness. She and I would fuck upon waking, hit the gym, fuck some more and then go out to enjoy a meal before returning for more sex. etc. Very boujie type girl. High maintanance, typical rich girl type. Very classy and well dressed. Brand name everything. We keep in touch via messaging apps.

Broken Plate. Early 20s. Latina, puerto rico and miami usa. I met her online gaming. Student. 5'0, 100 lbs. C cups, amazing body. Hb7 cute. Really tight pussy and short. I almost couldn't fit it all in. She wanted me to be her boyfriend. She knew about every girl and tried so hard to compete for my love. Very willing to please always horny. She claims I am the first guy to make her cum.....she annoyed me however after the sex . I couldn't stand her. Childish and ignorant. I chalk it to her age. I had to leave her. Couple weeks.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-01-30T19:10:02+00:00

Ah, the dreadful "talk".

I agree with you OP that during the "talk", you need to lay your cards on the table.

If you don't prefer to be direct, you can use "woman talk" and say something like, "I like where we are and I don't want to ruin it by rushing into anything. I'm enjoying this, aren't you? Let's just see where it goes in a few months" and leave it at that.

BUT, when you DO pass the "talk" it works out tenfold. The fact that you have THE BALLS to be up front and tell her that you aren't exclusive with her and then point at the door and tell her that she can leave if she isn't happy drives women crazy.

Sure she might pack her shit and leave, but, if she stays, she will become a much higher quality plate. She will TRY HARDER for you. She will give more and do everything she can to be "wifey (LTR) material".

Melanoma_man · 2019-01-30T19:54:37+00:00

HB7 district nurse 24 . She visited me with an older nurse to change my dressings.

Bumped into her in town and plated her. She is 5ft 8 brown hair c cup tits athletic body. Cute face but not striking.

HB8 law student 23 almost broke recently because I turned her down to lift instead.

Brunette tanned B cup tits and she done a few marathons. Tightest pussy I’ve had.

ThinSpiritual · 2019-01-31T07:21:49+00:00

Shattered Plates:

Girl I met last year 2 weeks before NYE. Felt like love at first sight, I let myself indulge and developed a brief oneistis (I'm 32 and it's been a while since I felt it); it's fine I enjoyed that feeling. We spent NYE together, fucked but the sex did not meet my expectations. I lost interest immediately plus in the subsequent days, she was very manipulative through her shit/comfort tests, also intentionally ignored me at times to play mind games. The fact that she did all those things soooo naturally in a witty manner scared me. She's also 28 (read: T-2 from the Wall), so I decided it was not worth it.

I ghosted her eventually, and it was covertly mutual... she ghosted me too! Smart girl, but I don't need smart girls. At least, don't use your intelligence to fight my imperative.

Lesson learnt: Oneisits is still bad even though it feels good. I projected too much idealistic imagination onto her. I didn't like her that much in reality and just wanted to feel that lovey dovey feeling because I felt emotionally bankrupt-- in hindsight that was just the beta in me struggling to survive. Now I see emotional bankruptcy as a sign of growth, why? Because I'm developing stoicism, calmness and a stronger frame.

BTW thanks OP for giving me brilliant advice on my previous asktrp thread.

Current plates:

2 that are purely plate material and 1 developing into FWB.

The former 2 plates I'm not attracted to them because they have much lower SMV than me. Both acquired via Tinder, banged on first meeting. They are slutty in bed so sex is good, but I don't feel connected to them.

Last night after banging plate #1 Leah, I turned on the Nanoleaf in my living room and started blasting music (highly recommend this product for anyone who wants to make your own room a night club). Leah sat next to me, I wanted to put my arm around her to sit together and chill... but on second thought, I didn't really want to. So we sat separately and talked mindlessly, and I felt into this thought loop...

I thought about my ex-LTR of 4 years, that I would actually enjoy cuddling with her on the couch to listen to music together. Hmm... but what comes as the expense of that emotional comfort? What's the right path for me in terms of spinning plates? Maybe I'll be more content with spinning multiple FWBs? Or even multiple STRs? Won't it be nice if I can have multiple LTRs for that matter, as long as I'm okay with "cheating"?

Btw, I tried inflicting a lot of pain during sex with Leah. Again, thank you OP for giving me insights on that topic too. One little technical detail that I observed, which is fucking fun, is that whenever I slapped her ass really hard (doggy style), it caused her glute muscles to contract, and she kegel'd the hell out of me (you really need to slap hard enough for this to happen). As soon as I felt her squeezing me as a reaction to my spanks, I was able to control A LOT of the rhythm during sex. I timed my penetrations with REALLY HARD spanks (action), and she would tense up her ass and her pussy to my spanks (reaction). It's natural, imagine if someone is going to punch you in the stomach, you'll flex your abs to defend yourself. So I varied my timing, sometimes I'll slap her nonstop, sometimes I'll stop and make her anticipate.

I just wanted to share this "technique" because it's really fun when you can control when your girl kegels you.

Anyway, I enjoyed that more than listening to music together with her. Plate #2 is basically the same the dynamic, so no point talking about her.

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Plate #3 Iris (FWB soon-to-be), met her at a bar and subsequently took her out to dinner. She seemed morally righteous at first but that shell broke after 1st kiss. She's a HB7/10, 24yo, probably can become 7.5 with some grooming/fashion advice, but I'm not interested in developing girls. She's liberal enough in bed and follows my lead. When we are not seeing each other she doesn't flood my inbox with 100 texts, and every 2-3 days she would ask how I am doing and we would chat briefly.

During our first "pillow talk" after sex I asked about her perspective on masculinity vs. femininity. Specifically, I asked her what makes a woman slutty in bed, why are some women natural at it, and why does she think that guys would prefer that (background: while fucking - meaning during intercourse - she asked me if I'll like to see her seduce me, I said yes, and she went on to groan and touch her own boobs, etc etc, essentially putting up an act). She said that guys should not be solely responsible for initiating sex, or initiating everything during sex. She agreed that what she did was just an act to get me excited but she believed that by doing that it can help me feel better and perform better, which will in turn make herself feel better. Indeed, her first few groans sounded mechanical, it was poor acting, but since I'm a visual animal it still turned me on, both of us became more focused eventually and the overall experience was improved.

I really appreciated her candor. Most girls would hamster their way out during pillow talks, but she just told me in a straightforward manner. And damn, that thought process sounded like a fellow RPiller breaking it down for me. So yeah, I think she's someone whom I can wrap my arm around to listen to some house music together next time.

Revoc123 · 2019-02-12T02:14:39+00:00

I'm older then most of you 44, I was married until 40. Bitch said she didnt love me so game over... Then I was Cluelessly bumbling around with red flag bearing sluts. I knew I could do better.

I have fashon sense and started lifting. I make good money and own my home but drive an older car so what I save on Car payments I spend spinning plates.

I am not tall and at best a 7 but I act like I am a God amoung men. I can sing (karaoke) and do a great Chris Cornell (rip) impression on the mic it dropps the panties quick.

I am very cocky and decent enough in bed that even the ones that come straight over always come back at least a couple times for "Jenga" of course lol...

Anyway Women always want at exclusivity with me if they sense I really like the poonanny and having a hot regular girlfriend who swears she is not seeing other guys is nice but I always cheat on them because they are all lying ho's all of them.

Currently with a really cute Latina as my "girlfriend" so hot that when we were out and about last week I got tons of dirty looks from women and when she went to the bathroom one walked up on me and said I hope you know how lucky you are!

lol I cheat on her with a chick that is a butter face but yuuuge boobs and edits porn for a living. This chick said she hadnt been laid in 2 years ... I immediately took her to pad and smashed she bled the first couple times not from period... like a born again virgin...

I am going to fuck another huge boobed mexican who is also an guberment agent on wednesday and probably a couple other ho's over the weekend. Then Ill get busted somehow and start all over again. I love the roller coaster ride!

trashymemery · 2019-02-13T22:49:50+00:00

This subreddit is hilarious.

itiswr1tten · 2019-01-30T17:08:21+00:00

EC note: bragging is fully permitted (complaining about it is not) but do your best to teach a lesson, even if that lesson is as simple as "here is why I like to fuck her"

bruiser18 · 2019-01-30T21:43:25+00:00

FWB

17 year old (I’m 18, yes she’s legal) Russian HB9. About 5’5, maybe 110lbs. Small but perky tits and a real fat ass.

Met her through school, ‘stole’ her from a billy beta who had been ‘working on her’ for a good 3 months (LOL). Recently decided to upgrade to FWB due to good behavior and real good sex. I’m starting to use control game with her now, training her how to be a good girl for me. She’s fresh off of being just a plate so there’s some behaviors and other things I need to give her a paddling for, but mostly fine. She has very high interest level so no problems in disciplining her.

Plate

18 year old, HB8 maybe 8.5. Big tits, nice ass but not as great as my other one. Not FWB material due to the fact she is fucking one other guy that I know of (girls who aren’t exclusive to you aren’t worthy of being beyond a plate, as per HumanSockPuppets bitch management hierarchy study guide). Nice girl, fuck every maybe 2 weeks, regularly texts me but respects that I don’t do texting so keeps it short. Great at sucking dick oh lord, sex is pretty good.

Shattered plate

17 year old Polish HB8. Similar to my Hb9 FWB, great ass and nice perky tits. About 5’7. Very sexy face. Met her in the gym about 4 months ago, stopped fucking her last month due to the fact that she couldn’t handle me fucking other girls... gave me the dreaded ultimatum, told her I’m sorry she feels that way and I’ve had a great time with her. She actually followed through and stopped fucking me, kinda sucks lol but was good while it lasted.

ghosts_of_me · 2019-01-31T02:32:05+00:00

Main (broken) plate 2017: Met in a nightclub. Good tits good sex but tried to infiltrate my whole life way too fast and luckily got in a car crash then was abducted by her ex out of hospital and never saw her again. Dodged a bullet there.

Main (shattered) plate 2018: Met in a bar where I worked. Small girl really cute and lots of tattoos which i like. I really really liked her and had a great time for about 8 months until she dropped out of school to become a prostitute and then i never wanted to go near her pussy again and i was insensitive about that and made her upset and havent seen her since. Unfortunate trajectory.

Main (current) platelationship 2019: Met on a dating app and she spoke to me first. Total upgrade from the last two, had the kinkiest sex ever on the first night, been dating since then. Really wholesome, smart, artistic girl with a great family who treats me well. ZERO red flags in 4 months. Only thing is we dont see eye to eye on a few ethical issues but its easy to dodge those conversations.

Unfortunately she doesnt believe in polyamory and i do. I want to spin plates but i know she would get really upset if she knew and i can see myself enjoying her as a gf for many years but i dont want to nail my nuts to the ground. Not sure how to go about it.

anonymousredditmike · 2019-01-31T05:32:55+00:00

Never actually had a busted plate. I only had one LTR of a year where i was naturally red pill until i failed the third nuclear breakup shittest. it felt like i became a pussy overnight and it led me to TRP where i got some help rebuilding myself. Since then ive had a handful of onenight stands or almost plates that i was never hard enough to solidify. Im now plating this 18 or 19 year old blonde girl. Shes got a skinny athletic build with a modest butt and almost no tits. Shes still a 7.5 because of her social status, hygiene and makeup skills. This girl turned doing my laundry into an olympic sport.

I originally met her at a party and brought her home. A girl i was trying to plate literally watched me pluck this blonde girl out of the crowd. (still fucked the non blonde girl later)

A female friend of mine also brought me this black haired girl with a firm body and bubblebutt. we were alone for 5 seconds before the clothes came off. i love college because i love drinking and i love women and i desire success. Can the rest of my life continue to compare to college???

rugged79 · 2019-02-02T06:31:03+00:00

Dope choice of topics. Awesome seeing the Top Guns go weapons hot and engaging all targets. Turns a topic from a post to a PSA.

Next post might have to be best RP moment, best night or how to initiate threesome protocol.

QuickFlex · 2019-02-03T02:01:36+00:00

Not meant in an attacking way, but how are you a man of high value?

ngyuhnang · 2019-02-04T01:35:38+00:00

Recently 2 plates: HB7 and HB5, both are Japanese exchange students and are going back to their country soon. Amazing sex and mind blowing blowjobs. They both know it’s going nowhere but want to keep the fling when they are still able to fool around in an exotic country.

They both suck at English and I am an advanced Japanese speaker, I enjoy talking to them in Japanese to improve my listening and speaking. I learned Japanese for 6 years and never knew it would help me pick up girls before I discovered trp.

Learning languages has always been a hobby of mine so you wanna find something to improve yourself, I would definitely recommend this.

Future_Alpha · 2019-02-05T09:43:40+00:00

I don't have any plates...it's probably because i'm balding...

Used to be because I didn't have a place, now I have a place and still no plates...

Dunno what i'm doing wrong ugh

satlinrabbow · 2019-02-11T00:32:07+00:00

> "I'm Indian and how do I get white goddess???"

This made me chuckle, then it made me think.

Hell, I'd even give some advice:

Be her ancient Indian God

Be a Brahma to her Penelope.

Ndock · 2019-02-12T19:07:25+00:00

What does your SMV have to be (number wise) to pull women as attractive as you describe here? Is it all in the game, or do you need to at least be particularly good looking? I'm somewhere between 6.5 and 8 depending on their taste.

thesatellite23 · 2019-02-15T17:12:13+00:00

Recently broke up with an LTR. I discovered TRP toward the beginning of our relationship. However, I think I opened up too much, which caused her interest to decline. So I dumped her and haven't looked back. Always learning.

Right now I'm in acquisition mode. Actually have a date lined up for tonight. Some girl who matched on a dating site. She messaged me first and initiated our meetup. She lives out-of-state (hence why I didn't contact first) but is in-town this weekend. We're gonna have some fun.

Got another potential plate lined up. I met her during my LTR, but showed 0% interest because I'm faithful. She's related to somebody I volunteer with at different events, she tagged along one day. She's totally into me. Agreed to go out. I just gotta figure out logistics.

Met another girl at a party a couple of weeks ago. She showed some IOIs so I got her number. I setup a date but she flaked last-minute. I deleted her number. Next!

[deleted] · 2019-02-15T20:06:22+00:00

Stealing your "meet the dog" strategy. I think you could have saved it by saying anything that made her feel special or think she was #1 in the running. Or you could have joked about it a little and maybe reminded her of how things don't have to be serious.

tibetan_astronaut · 2019-02-18T17:24:14+00:00

u/Labid666

Lieisnotreal · 2019-02-19T11:02:12+00:00

" it ain't logical or predictable when they break " What ? xD

You litterally said she got out a 5 years relationsip and low n count and you immediately tell her you're seeing other women after a 2 months "relationship".
How is that not logical or predictable ?

Showing you have other girls is good the first time you see her but at some point she wants emotionnal investment.
You can't just be honest if you want to keep her around.

cupshadow · 2019-02-21T03:59:10+00:00

Hooked up with an average black girl with decent body. Pretty innocent, inexperienced and possible a virgin, given she was raised in a farm in a very conservative family.

Found her on a Tinder match and she showed all dolled up in her first date, big earrings and heels. Gave me lots of passionate kisses in the middle of the plaza, it was great. Tried to bring her to an hotel since day one, but she kept dodging.

Finally I get her to take a bus and meet me at my city. I was a tourist guide for a day and she absolutely loved it.
Thought I would fuck her finally but she said she was a virgin. The only reason I believed her is because one of my ex's did the same, they basically let you suck their boobs and finger them but to put your dick it's a whole other story. And that sucks, because you have a girl basically naked in bed but can't fuck her.

Then I had to move to another city and basically stopped talking to her. She still messages me and once said that I was the only men she got with in bed. But dating virgins is pretty frustrating, it's a lot of work to get sex from them and their first time is never enjoyable. And I'm not looking for an LTR.

Andgelyo · 2019-02-23T12:41:33+00:00

None. Currently getting myself in shape, fixing up diet, and trying to increase financial income. Will be back to the game, once I feel ready.

[deleted] · 2019-02-18T00:02:01+00:00

Thank you red pill community. I have never had more fun than talking to you all today for my sociology class. Peace out and hit the gym Jack. It'll solve all your frustrations with woman and maybe you can grow that missing q arm of your chromosome and become a real human being:) Too-da-loo

TheRedPike · 2019-01-30T18:26:51+00:00

Surveys are banned on this sub