After having sex with a plate of mine, the oxytocin and dopamine rush made her tell me that she really likes me. "Really really really" likes me.
"Oh yeah?", I asked acting surprised, "Why is that?".
"I like you because...", she made a pause to think about the reasons. Finally she listed them:
- I like you because you made me a good breakfast.
- I like you because I sleep really well when you're next to me.
- I like you because you make me feel safe.
- I like you because you fuck me really well.
Fun fact: On multiple occasions I saw spicy text notifications on her phone from a guy named Raphael. AWALT, but that's not the point of this post.
Before TRP I would be head over heels, because a girl appreciated my efforts! See, there are so many reasons why I earned her appreciation! So obviously the more I please her, the more she's gonna like me!
However after learning about TRP, here's what I actually heard:
"I like you because you make me feel good".
She didn't mention my character traits, my passions, my actions directed to anything expect herself. She likes me, because I make her feel good. Soon, I will become familiar and thus giving her less intense emotions. My turn will end.
The more I will try to please her to gain her affection, the less she's gonna like me. That's how it works. Thank you TRP for helping me recognize that.
Stay safe, brothers.