This highlights my biggest problem with feminism. Overall they have some good ideas, but they just don't want to acknowledge the realities of gender differences. For example This paragraph:

The main thrust of the subsequent research is that traditional masculinity—marked by stoicism, competitiveness, dominance and aggression—is, on the whole, harmful. Men socialized in this way are less likely to engage in healthy behaviors. For example, a 2011 study led by Kristen Springer, PhD, of Rutgers University, found that men with the strongest beliefs about masculinity were only half as likely as men with more moderate masculine beliefs to get preventive health care (Journal of Health and Social Behavior, Vol. 52, No. 2). And in 2007, researchers led by James Mahalik, PhD, of Boston College, found that the more men conformed to masculine norms, the more likely they were to consider as normal risky health behaviors such as heavy drinking, using tobacco and avoiding vegetables, and to engage in these risky behaviors themselves (Social Science and Medicine, Vol. 64, No. 11).

Those two studies are important and those sorts of things should be taken into account. But then they get to how to actually solve these problems and it's very lacking.

First, clinicians must be aware of dominant masculine ideals, and cognizant of their own potential biases. Second, they must recognize the integrated nature of masculinity, and how factors ranging from spirituality to ability status to age and ethnicity interact. Mental health professionals must also understand how power, privilege and sexism work both by conferring benefits to men and by trapping them in narrow roles. They should consider how stoicism and a reluctance to admit vulnerability hamstring men in personal relationships, and they should combat these forces, in part, by encouraging fathers to engage more fully with their children.

Particularly that last sentence. Men don't have these negative traits just because society tells them to, they have them because that's what women find attractive. I'm sure being open and honest with your emotional vulnerabilities does lead to better health outcomes, but it also turns women off and will prevent that man from getting laid.

So these professionals don't need to be thinking about "power, privilege, and sexism" when helping men. They need to be thinking about how men can reduce these unhealthy behaviors while still being masculine and attractive.

I'm a big believer in science, but while they have a lot of studies showing these problems, it seems they don't have any showing solutions that actually work. They're simply prescribing action based on what they think will work.