ROOSH: Never Listen To A Woman | " I’ve observed almost no cases where a man’s status or position has been increased from following a woman’s advice or opinions, and it’s much more likely for him to be harmed from it."

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Kealvyn · 2019-02-20T22:04:07+00:00

Women are the biggest children in the house - listen to them, pat them on their pretty little heads and then do your own thing. Their advice is directly parroting Cosmo, or applies to women not men.

Some advice I've had:

"Flirt by biting your lower lip" - Really??

"Be yourself, you don't need to change" - I hadn't been laid in over a year.

"Just be more confident, try to be nicer"- I'd been friend zoned.

"If you want to meet people, just go to a bar and wait for people to hit on you" - Don't work that way with guys.

"Doing the washing is sexy" - Really?

"Let's have a baby! I know we can't afford it, but love will find a way." - She didn't see me much after that one.

"Can't you just earn more money, and spend more time at home?" - My mom to my dad.

chazthundergut · 2019-02-20T20:00:47+00:00

Not true at all.

Remember when Will Smith's wife talked him out of that stupid sci-fi movie about agents and dodging bullets? And instead convinced him to do Wild Wild West?

Imperator_Red · 2019-02-21T00:17:10+00:00

I've noticed that even among very intelligent women, there is very little to no intellectual curiosity outside of what their teachers or employers tell them that they must know, and even then, their limited intellectual curiosity usually follows the lines of whatever is in vogue at the time, which is really not intellectual curiosity at all but is again an authority telling them what to be interested in. Never in my life have I been pleasantly surprised by a woman's random knowledge of civil war campaigns, her hobby of watching YouTube videos about quantum physics, or her well thought out ideas for various policy issues.

Rupturednutsack · 2019-02-20T19:04:44+00:00

I fucked up monumentally with regards to this piece of work.

Background- Business law degree- 2:1, now studying an "international diploma in money laundering". Why? Because my aunt and grandmother who seem to facilitate alot of changes in my environment, advised(demanded I do so because otherwise i'll become like those other people working shitty jobs, the irony let me tell you). These two women contributed to my lack of will to question and say "no" to their suggestions, despite the idea of working within this sedentary industry makes my skin crawl. At a young age I got it from all angles "Go to university like a good boy and get lots of money", "You can either go to university and work a good job, or go and do a trade which is dirty and dangerous".

The job involves being sat at a desk for 8 hours and I get 1 hour to move around or go grab lunch. I make every effort to be as mobile as possible, so i drink water which makes me piss, which makes me grab another glass from the office kitchen. It's minimal but I've preserved some sanity doing it. It drains me daily, somehow, by doing pretty much nothing, with no product or physical representation of my work to motivate me to want to come in tomorrow. I dont have the energy to train, yet when I worked with my Dad's mechanical firm, lifting heavy shit and carrying tools around, I had much more energy despite having burned more calories and actually done physical work. I used to go to the gym 5 times a week. Now I rarely go because I'm drained from doing nothing. It makes absolutely no sense but that's what it is.

I am waiting for the fallout for when I divulge to them that I'm done taking any of their advice, because I seem to have placed myself in a position where I dedicated 3 years of my life to one of the subjects with highest student participation (Law and its subfields), which is heavily dependant on having wealthy family that knows people in law firms. The work experience is usually unpaid, and to become a barrister or solicitor you have to take a £18,000 Bar practice training course, or a £14,000 Legal practice course. Both of which I couldn't afford and didn't want to do. But this "international diploma in anti-money laundering" costs £4,500. Again I fucked up by agreeing to accept their financial help (they chipped in) and now I have to pay them back. It is not a quiet industry, as the Brexit day draws closer, much UK legislation would have to be rewritten and then the firms would have to adopt it, meaning changes from the bottom up most likely. The compliance industry is just a sub industry of law and finance which is going to become automated anyway because it relies on checklist practices and seeking authorization.

I owe them the money for this course, which as a man I have to pay and keep word in doing so, which in turn means making the decision of working in this industry until I've paid them off, or grabbing my balls and at the right moment- to tell them straight and figure out how I'm going to pay them back and get one less debt off my mind.

This piece of writing only reinforces these feelings of regret and anger I have for not finding out what I want to do before embarking on this career fuckery.

RedPilledRoaster · 2019-02-21T01:51:47+00:00

Ehhh

Arnold's wife often gave him good advice.

A smart partner can help you. You just need to know when their advice is sound and when it isn't.

And betas don't know how to do that.

boy_named_su · 2019-02-20T19:58:11+00:00

You should listen to them. But do the opposite of what they say

BrosefJones85 · 2019-02-20T20:29:40+00:00

I’d say hold their advice up to scrutiny like anyone else. Females can give good advice, but our culture pushes that females give superior advice lol nope.

whatdidshewrite · 2019-02-20T22:00:03+00:00

This part of TRP that shits on women specifically when the same can be said for everyone else makes me cringe. Shit advice from a woman is shit advice. Shit advice from a man? Also shit advice.

Listen to whoever you want but make your own damn decisions - woman or non-woman.

anonlymouse · 2019-02-20T23:22:10+00:00

My then-girlfriend and I had a dispute with our landlord. It went to arbitration. She was a paralegal, and while she specialized in a different field than tenant-landlord disputes, when she told me to do something differently, or to stop doing something entirely (specifically to shut up when I started arguing), in the course of preparation and during arbitration, I did. We won.

It would be pretty stupid to disregard free legal advice from a professional simply because she's a woman.

Rupturednutsack · 2019-02-21T08:46:02+00:00

The white collar sector of work is as blue pill as it gets

Just go on to LinkedIn and note down how many companies do the following

Every advertisement or marketing campaign talks about “empowering our employees to become better” or “promoting inclusivity so that people feel empowered to make a difference”

The kind of shit that supports woman’s day and praises any woman who gets promoted to a senior ranking officer of a company, which I swear feminists despise because “it shouldn’t matter if a woman became CFO- next breath* You need to see this female Regional manager’s new groundbreaking move in blue pill.inc

It’s just disgusting and a shameless industry, suited only to old people who need to sit down because they have back problems, and closed minded ceos that refuse to utilise the Pareto principle and numerous positive changes to the generic work life that 99.9% of offices contain

Hyper_Sonik · 2019-02-20T20:25:10+00:00

especially when a woman claims she needs something more in the relationship. That's the point where you need to walk.

Rupturednutsack · 2019-02-20T22:20:55+00:00

However despite this, I must not direct my anger or feelings about this to them, it is futile. I can’t blame them for my failure of making the right choice- I should have seen through the blue pill conditioning they very smartly bestowed unto me at a very young age

My mother’s working pattern meant she needed a childminder to take me to school and collect me, my grandmother would pick me up and supervise me until my dad got home from work, so there was a lack of contact on my mothers part, although no fault of hers because 1990s England was a mess- the family had to squeeze every penny and a job meant a means of surviving in post recession England

I learned a myriad of lessons being brought up in such an environment

SoulRedemption · 2019-02-22T18:33:22+00:00

While the majority of scenarios is true to this, there are cases where its wrong. But it woulf apply to more of less successful men with bo discipline and plan.

thirstybitch13 · 2019-02-26T11:31:37+00:00

I would disagree with two words. Hillary Clinton

krunchtimer · 2019-02-27T15:02:35+00:00

How many guys here had a mother (with no medical background) who constantly insisted "you should be a doctor" with absolutely no knowledge of what getting through med school entails?

awakenedspirit1 · 2019-02-20T23:15:24+00:00

Hilariously true. I have no exceptions in my life. Wild.