I lost my life motivation/goals/happiness after swallowing the pill

highhouses · 2019-04-22T20:03:57+00:00

I think you have burn-out symptoms.

Give yourself some air and stop fighting our frustration.

Go for walks, do simple 'nonsense' things (jigsaw puzzles, handcraft, learn how to knott.

If you read, stay away from non-fiction. Read novels, detectives, whatever.

Girls are not a goal, it's something you encounter on your path.

UziNidalee · 2019-04-22T20:13:01+00:00

Why the fuck do you guys not meditate?

It should be mandatory.

You're willing to put stress on your muscles till you're sore af but staying clear headed and breathing deeply for 10 mins is too hard ?

Get at it, do guided body scan meditations (mindfulness and relaxing for your body strain at the same time) and positive affirmations ( try not to find shit ones that straight up exaggerate) and you'll be a new person in a month.

Keep your brain healthy or you'll be stuck in a rut and never achieve what you could cause of doubt and overthinking. Get out of your head

FereallyRed · 2019-04-22T20:22:11+00:00

Think about how truly shallow and pathetic your life was before redpill...

actually believing all the sunshine and happiness and "this is how life will be" blue bullshit.

"You've been living in a dream world, Neo. This is the world as it exists today."

WIA20XX · 2019-04-22T21:09:15+00:00

Good.

Now instead of bullshit social programming you can do things that you actually want.

its_meKnightSwolaire · 2019-04-23T03:33:39+00:00

Also wanted to tell you, TRP doesn’t mean you have to spin plates. You can still find that Catholic girl and have kids with her. Now that you’re aware of how to use TRP to your benefit, you can lessen the chance (but not eliminate) a divorce down the road. Also you can lower the chance that she cheats (but again not eliminate)

I’d say partner count should be your biggest thing. Maybe 2-3 n count tops. A virgin will always have that lingering feeling of “what is other dick like” which again you can help suppress with a healthy dose of reading of the Sex God Method

EliteDarkseid · 2019-04-23T12:33:34+00:00

Balance...

Red Pill opens your eyes, takes you out of the box. Increases your skills and throws you right back. Don't worry about the past. Don't dwell on the past. Past is Past. Live in the here and now. Look to the future. You lost 90% of your savings. But you are 24. It happens, move on, make more savings. Recognize it's great to be young. When you in your 40s (like me), you will look back and laugh at all the horrible mistakes you made. They will become stories that you tell others.

First get out of your head. you goals were awesome before red pill.

Before it was sport, school, studying, working on my business

Sports: It's something to do, may play into your competitiveness. Gives you drive. Makes you stronger. If not none of theses, it can just be for fun.
School: never stop learning. Languages, Tech, Programming, Self Improvement, Etc. Never ever stop learning. If I stop learning, I could not sit here and give you advice. You learned about Red-Pill. Guess what it's part of your knowledge, and soon you will gain wisdom from your teachings.
Studying: Apply what you know. Learn from your mistakes, continue to be the bad-ass person you was before, and the bad-ass person you are now. A lot of peeps will say you had a Blue-Pill (Beta) lifestyle before discovering Red-Pill. But you no what. Your only issue was you didn't know how to talk to women. You didn't have that knowledge. Now you do. Now you can talk to women. You have wisdom now.
Working: We work to meet an end goal. What's the end game. Some work to create. Some work for others. Create capital for yourself. If you failed once, guess what, you gonna fail again. Keep failing. Didn't Red-Pill teach you that you will fail ALOT. But it's the micro successes in between the failures that make life awesome. Hell, quote form the Lego Movie: "Everyday is Awesome." Between the failures you become a better winner.
Work on my business: Work on it. Continue to work on it. Work on it some more. Just recognize that you get burnt out. When working on your business, put people in place so that when you need a break, guess what, you take a break, because you have people you can trust.

You are still young and have you WHOLE life in front of you. Also, you think you lost God, but he's still there. He just gave you another path. He lives through you. He lives through us. Let's see where this path takes you.

Velebit · 2019-04-23T01:11:49+00:00

This is a frequent problem men face and is heavily missunderstood by trp.

Most of men raised in blue environment have blue values deeply ingrained into the fabric of their emotional inner workings. These are values which belong the term called metaphysics. They are not real, tangible or present in physical reality.

These are things like freedom, free will, justice, equality, love. If you ask 10 different people what is justice, for example, they will not agree and you will get contradictions and senseless stuff.

Stuff like equality is a massive dogma today while it is utter nonsense. When you are raised in such an reality removed environment you come to emotionally rely on, some egalitarian expectations in this case (everyone ought to have 1 sex partner, I ought to have a sex partner) or let's say justice (it is unfair girls never have to approach guys).

Another thing is not understanding collective mechanisms. Shaming used to be a social institution that stopped people from being naughty. Last year I banged a girl from tinder who has a boyfriend in broad daylight in the street. When I told my friends I got approval even from my female friends who mostly commented something like they wish they were so spontaneous etc.

Another thing is dueling. In most of human history abstract distant government bodies did not intervene. Before Preatorian guard, Rome, a city of million people never had anything like a police force. Even at times like 1895 it was normal to have a duel in the open in USA. This allows you to stand for various aspects of your own interests. If someone aggressively tries to seduce your wife or a low iq scum tries to seduce your daughter (or son) you have a way of making 100% sure that does not happens them. You have a path to ending their life. This makes everyone involved much more grounded and restrained. The danger of dishonor was very real and tangible, today society has no honor and success is measured by your exploits. This is not only in conflict with blue values but also with any sort of K selected mind.

superjerk99 · 2019-04-22T23:39:16+00:00

Stop thinking about everything before. You're on a new chapter and you now have the knowledge and power to determine where you want to go. Let go of the past and embrace the present and future

CaptainKidd96 · 2019-04-23T04:14:06+00:00

So basically you're life is ruined because u found out that girls aren't godlike creatures and that there is no special one designed for you?

From my point of view you were doing everything just so you can increase your value to find that special girl. The same girl who would've ended up divorce raping you because you were too much of a blue pilled, living in disney land, God fearing christian, blue pilled chump.

I know this sounds harsh but you're much better off knowing the truth. No matter how much you try you won't be able to plug yourself back into the bluepilled world.

Follow the advice given by other users and trust me, it's much better that you've found out now rather than finding TRP at 45 after you're special one has divorced you, took your children and at least half of your assets while you just stay at home wondering what you did wrong.

mysticplaces · 2019-04-23T12:25:29+00:00

Outside of TRP, most people’s conception of life or what life entails is quite misguided. Society has brainwashed the population into distraction, hedonism, addiction and consumption. Self-identity, deeper-self, actualizations, independence, and passion are lost on the masses. Sports, identity politics, big budget movies, reality television, smart phones, social media, fast food, online shopping, etc. define modern life for most. Break free of these mental prisons and I guarantee you will significantly more fulfilled. TPTB have created a fabric of reality that is both hollow and shallow in nature. The sooner you break away from these mechanisms of power, the more empowered and in control over your own life you will be. As for happiness, self-fulfillment, direction, and purpose, that’s on you.

coolredpill · 2019-04-23T14:04:20+00:00

situation wise, i haven't quite made it as you but im also losing motivation/goals/etc

am 26, starting grad school in the fall and ive been working 2.5 jobs (i consider tutoring half a job) ever since i got accepted earlier this year in order to make sure i come out of grad school with 0 debt (good scholarship offer as well)

i have more money saved up then ever before, and despite working weekends until like midnight, i still managed to fck with at least 1 girl per month in 2019 so far, ive also been lifting at least 3 days a week since i found the redpill 4 years ago so im not too bad in shape

but im losing motivation as well,,, because all ive been doing is work work work ive been feeling everything is meaningless... i know im in the grind right now until i start school but due to feeling meaningless, ive been falling back into some blue pill habits (mostly diet, video games, and porn) but im not even concerned because ive come out of blue pill relapses many times before so i know i can get back to it

ive also gained confidence in me achieving my career after finding the pill...like it's engraved in my head as a fact that i will have a successful career no matter what, and it's not as if im procrastinating and slacking off from that - i just gotta grind until the fall when grad school starts. but it's this assurance that's plaguing me with lack of meaningfulness in life through the grind

but since finding red pill, the one thing i haven't really done is meditating, and based on the other comments, looks like i need to seriously get into that. and the one thing im looking for is a bigger mission than my current one - a bigger one that i can truly call my life goal - my true mission

ive also decided to yolo it for once (i stopped yoloing ever since finding trp) and decided to go to Europe for a week for the first time, am leaving next week so hoping a breath of fresh air will do me some good and give me some motivations

but i hope it will work out for you too brother

SolidLiquidGasPlasma · 2019-04-22T20:42:17+00:00

Watch Henry Rollins view of cynicism on youtube

319Skew · 2019-04-23T01:20:44+00:00

Try taking a break from your routine. Be alone. Truly alone for a few days. If you can't. Try to meditate. Allow yourself to feel. Turn off your guard and just be. Why do you feel how you feel? What thoughts or expectations do you have? What can you change? Keep asking yourself why until you find a personal truth.

With that truth start to build yourself up. Rebirth is painful but necessary.

Source : went through a crisis of self where I was close to ending it all after almost embracing alcoholism after divorce and red pill realization.

Nighthawkdragon8 · 2019-04-23T01:49:20+00:00

Bruh taking the redpill isn’t that big of a deal, it’s just a saying that means that social conditioning isn’t always accurate on a micro level. I don’t think your lack of motivation etc is a result of redpill knowledge, it is probably something a lot deeper.

[deleted] · 2019-04-23T03:37:56+00:00

I’d be happy to talk to you. I love this shit. Don’t you know that you “must lose yourself in order to find yourself?” You lost yourself for a second when you swallowed the pill and when you regain equilibrium the path will be clear. This could be sooner than you think. You just have a few readjustments to make and I’m sure I could identify them for you. Holler

AtlasHJack69 · 2019-04-23T04:26:08+00:00

I just turned 24 and can relate, wanted to be a father and a husband. I gave up the latter still want kids. In 2 years im gonna be done with a training I'm doing to be an IT guy which should put me upper 5 figures. Gonna try to adopt a child, and be a single dad. Seems if I get a woman pregnant I'll never get custody of the child, fucking feminist govt. They'll just take the child and milk me dry

I know how you feel man, lift weights, work longer hours it helps. I try hanging out with friends every 3 months at least. I'm planning on leaving NYC and moving to a smaller state with open spaces and lead a life of celibacy and isolation. Hopefully I can work remotely. Good luck we all rowing together.

Patrriot · 2019-04-23T05:05:17+00:00

I am dealing with a similar sort of thing and what I found to be best was being unconditionally social with others and constantly practicing and picking up new hobbies/occupations that don’t connect me to the internet. That be like learning a new instrument, yo-yo-ing, definitely reading more books of every possible thing I was interested in instead of making a simple google search, those kind of simple things that DISCONNECT you from the dopamine-inflicting world of today with our smartphones and countless ads and such and even staying off Reddit. Whatever the case understand that whatever you’re feeling is temporary and IT WILL PASS, happiness and clarity tend to come from the things we tend to NOT want to do, so continue searching bro, one day at a time. -P

P.S : Meditate, it’s a lifesaver.

09182017 · 2019-04-23T05:31:07+00:00

i also felt that nihlistic numbness. it’s been a transition, between intellectual understanding vs realization of the spirit. i’ve been so accustomed to the social constructed mask and prison, and now that i am out of plato’s cave, i find myself missing my shackles.

as other’s have mentioned, meditation definitely helps. the separation of reality vs thinking and projections.

enjoy the transition, this too is the path. you are now free to create your own values and importance, as opposed to the nonsense society pushes onto us.

topmatrixgun · 2019-04-23T07:39:03+00:00

You can go to a Buddhist monastery and be a monk for some time. That might help you find peace.

The world is fucked up. Money won't make you happy. You said you are driven. Then you must be challenging yourself a lot. You have achieved a lot at a young age. But, you aren't able to find happiness.

Many say we need a bigger purpose. I think we need short term goals and need to identify the little things that make us happy.

For me short term goals are getting a good body, healthy diet. The small things that make me happy are spending time with my family and friends, driving car, video games. (I said about myself in the hope that it might show you a way.)

kmf01 · 2019-04-23T08:17:09+00:00

You are young and overstimate yourself in terms of thinking deeply. You are affected by your emotions and traumas. Your thinking is fogged right now. I also see a lot pedestalization of the pussy. Not only women, people in general are shit. Men, women. All of them. Everywhere in the world. Deal with it. It is called maturation. 90% of people here are dealt a worst hand. I'd also recommend visiting a shrink, sometimes it can help.

I personally motivate myself with philosophy. Not the modern shit written for the sake if profit, but things written by emperors and seekers of truth.

" Be like the jutting rock against which waves are constantly crashing, and all around it the frothing foam then settles back down. Say not “Oh, I am so unfortunate that this has happened to me.” But rather “How fortunate I am that, even though this has happened to me, I continue uninjured, neither terrified by the present nor in fear of the future. "

dontbeanasshole777 · 2019-04-22T20:56:56+00:00

Here's the solution which helped me.

Find a girl most suitable for this goal.

Tell her your in pain. Tell her you need caring and nurturing female energy. You want to forget about the world. You want to mend yours souls together. Have deep and slow sex. Split an ecstasy tab with her. Clean your schedule for 3 days and spend it with her only, somewhere away. You will carefully surrender your soul to her, she will fix and then you will take it back.

Do this for about 10 days and when you feel you're peaking go back to real life and use your fresh energy to get your shit sorted out.

Continue seeing your new therapist every 7 days.

You already know the truth so it's ok to play with fantasies. You lost your faith in life because life has lost its magic. Well, wrong. Life is and just is. You decide how to paint it. It can be a nihilistic nightmare od exciting journey, depending on your approach.

I base this on my personal experience.

its_meKnightSwolaire · 2019-04-23T03:21:40+00:00

Out of curiosity do you smoke weed

maljo24 · 2019-04-23T10:20:05+00:00

It's all in your head.

BurnoutRS · 2019-04-23T12:28:15+00:00

Happiness is a state of being. It is fleeting. Your goal should not be to be happy, rather happiness should be an inconsequential byproduct of the accheivement of your goals

cafeitalia · 2019-04-23T14:00:10+00:00

I think you haven’t swallowed the pill at all. Are you sure it was red not blue? If you had more dedication about life before your switch now you are lazy well you switched to the wrong pill. This is not about having girls to fuck, the girls should be the least important factor of red pill.

WiredT · 2019-04-23T14:53:10+00:00

acetyl carnitine

L theanine

L tyrosine

These are like vitamins or some shit that the brain uses to produce dopamine and serotonin

Herbs for mood:

Ashwaghanda Baocapa

[deleted] · 2019-04-23T08:18:51+00:00

Hello