Acting on Dread 1 and 2?

SBIII · 2019-04-25T13:51:25+00:00

I do not know if I should try to start sex or if I invite her to go out with our daughter, or to grab a coffee

Whatever you do, don't try to combine all three - things could get very messy.

hack3ge · 2019-04-25T14:10:05+00:00

I swear I’ve hit my level of faggotry for the day and I’ve only read 3 posts.

Did you really just ask if you should “try to start sex”? Or if you should have coffee?

How in the mother fucking hell are you even still alive? Does mommy need to remind you to breathe?

I know we say Lift, STFU and read but for fuck sakes - if you want to fuck her give it a go.

The worst that happens is you get all butthurt and go Rambo but at this point any action is better than sitting around circle jerking about if you can have a non fat latte with your wife.

RStonePT · 2019-04-25T15:08:22+00:00

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FinancialLeopard5 · 2019-04-25T16:02:18+00:00

I have a hard time believing that you're reading the sidebar materials when you didn't even read the second or fourth sentences of the Dread Level 1 description:

Begin building a strong, indefatigable frame where you are not affected by her sexual denials.

Begin leading your wife more and begin seducing her.

I don't think I've ever seen someone actually quote the answer to their own retarded question.

BirdManBrrrr · 2019-04-25T13:44:35+00:00

Now, for example, I do not know if I should try to start sex or if I invite her to go out with our daughter, or to grab a coffee, etc.

You're overthinking this. What do you WANT to do? Figure that out and proceed accordingly. And not everything you want to do needs to include your wife, but could if that's what you want.

thunderbeyond · 2019-04-25T13:51:32+00:00

The best advice you're ever going to get is when you post on the OYS thread at r/marriedredpill each week. I suggest you do that.

0io- · 2019-04-25T12:16:43+00:00

Of course you should initiate sex. If it goes well, be more talkative and friendly and spend more time with her. If not, be friendly but less talkative and spend a lot more time out of the house doing your own thing. Mostly lifting weights.

CrazyLegs78 · 2019-04-25T13:40:00+00:00

Your wife doesn't change this early in the game. What is happening is YOU are beginning to change by realizing her responses to your new actions. Kinda like the neural connections your body makes when you first start lifting and get those "noob gains".

How are you going to have a satisfying sex life that meets YOUR needs if you never initiate? It is seeking external validation if you are wanting/waiting for her to initiate. Go for what you want! Sometimes you get it, sometimes you don't. If you like her behavior within the past day or two, then invite her out for coffee or whatever. If she has been a nagging henpeck, leave that shit at home and go do your own thing. Women are pretty fickle with emotion, so only base your actions off their behavior for the past few days.

[deleted] · 2019-04-26T13:01:24+00:00

When you get where you need to be, she will pursue you for sex often. You will still have to initiate when you want, but her initiations and interest will pick up.

Don't try so hard... remember passive (healthy) dread is all about the following:

Being the best (or working to be) version of yourself (mentally, physically, emotionally) you can be
Having just enough unpredictability in your life that keeps her on her toes by driving her to pursue interest. Remember, women love mystery. For example, if she sees you getting in better shape and dressing better, her mind will spin and try to find out why. This is what you want... she is driven to solve that mystery, and it's irresistible to a woman.

Dread activates attraction & desire triggers in women. Relax and have fun with it.

screechhater · 2019-04-26T00:19:09+00:00

Do you read what you write ?

Start it all off by read and then editing your POS post.

Lift. STFU. Read. Lift.

SorcererKing · 2019-04-26T04:16:58+00:00

Perfect time to try out one of the new flairs /u/Countpudyoola created for us...