Think Less and Execute

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hardly_incognito · 2019-07-24T05:42:31+00:00

This is how I begin undertaking a project.

Chaos is self-organizing, and by doing something without knowing anything about it, you will slowly start to learn. This process isn't entirely mindless, because as you spend time doing whatever task it is you embark on, with time you'll naturally devise your own systems of doing it that work for you, along with methods for preparing for more difficult challenges along the way.

The exception is in preparing for certain things that can be rather dangerous. You shouldn't go diving without absolutely any knowledge of how to use your gear, nor should you go right in on neurosurgery without going to med school.

Your goal will be incremental, small successes on a regular basis that will eventually add up into an organized system that works for you as long as you focus on improving your overall self a little bit each day.

Blaze-Bless · 2019-07-24T04:04:43+00:00

Thanks for this, concise and useful.

jedicreed · 2019-07-24T03:41:27+00:00

It's great novice advice, especially for guys that have just swallowed the red pill.

The great players, however, use the brain all the time. It’s the adrenaline rush they learn to control with time and experience.

Rkingpin · 2019-07-24T06:54:14+00:00

This is a good habit to ingrain. Overthinking a killer of men and leads to procrastination.

The time wasted deliberating over unnecessary details would mostly be better spent getting to the job at hand quickly.

Especially for cold approach, the first few seconds are were the magic happens.

tenpointmatt · 2019-07-24T09:05:07+00:00

Yes and no. Not all the items you mention can be treated the same.

If doing something relatively passive like taking a cold shower, eating something disgusting, or enduring something uncomfortable, it helps to focus only on performing the bodily action, whatever it may be. Just FORCE your body to perform the required motions- move your legs, get under the cold water, keep chewing, whatever. Control your physical movements, and treat the discomfort as something external that you cant control, and just deal with it.

But for lifting, this doesn't work. When Eddie Hall deadlifts he says he imagines lifting a car off his kids: https://twitter.com/dabblingfrancis/status/1138189203337043978

weezylane · 2019-07-24T04:49:44+00:00

I could already feel my brain trying to stop me from doing this. Beta patterns die hard.

MrGreySD · 2019-07-24T14:43:16+00:00

Really great post. It's simple but difficult to actually do. Kind of like cutting body fat.

I think you could have made the post even better by relating it to "flow-state". Generally, once you're in flow state, things become effortless and much more comfortable. So just switching off and jumping in initially is the best way to get there.

Can be applied to anything. Work. Study. Being social. Even just general anxiety. Put your brain on pause and just go outside. Then the cylinders gradually begin to fire one by one.

Tjommas · 2019-07-24T04:48:22+00:00

I imagine making the Jim Carrey face from dumb and dumber, then getting to work. Am I doing it right?

InscrutablePUA · 2019-07-24T07:13:44+00:00

Simple and great post. I've found I'm at my best when I consciously turn my brain off and just do shit. Make the decision and execute. Our brains are great at sabotaging our own ability to act.

eeeehshure · 2019-07-24T07:29:59+00:00

what is the point of cold showers? ive seen it being mentioned every now and then on Manhood articles. is there any benefit to it?

stirringlion · 2019-07-24T07:34:58+00:00

This is great! It has hints of stoicism. Good post 👍🏻

Scott555 · 2019-07-24T09:49:38+00:00

Eckhart Tolle has some helpful things to say along these lines.

TheEgyptianConqueror · 2019-07-24T12:34:38+00:00

This is really in line with what I always tell friends about working out;

I always say "what do you do before going to bed?" Somewhere in there, they'll say "brush my teeth," and that's when I stop them. Do you think about brushing your teeth? Or is it just something you do? That's what going to the gym has to be like. You want to go after work? Don't even think about it. Everyday, get out of work and go to the gym. Why? You just do. You brush your teeth in the morning. Why? You just do. It's so built into you don't think about it anymore. That's what the gym has to be like (or running or your pilot class or language class or whatever the hell it is you're doing)

Beardtista · 2019-07-24T16:00:42+00:00

I often find that I'm most successful when I'm not trying to do the thing I want to do. However putting your self in a position to do said thing, is important. Sometimes you just need a fuck it attitude.

only_red · 2019-07-24T17:16:17+00:00

This is really good advice. When I hype myself up I almost never tend to to follow through. Much easier when you just do it.

Colt42O · 2019-07-24T18:59:15+00:00

"We suffer more in imagination than in reality" - Seneca

When a difficult task or something comes up that I would rather avoid, I tell myself "don't suffer twice" and just do it. Why suffer in my mind and then in reality when I can just get started and finish the task and realize it wasnt even that bad to begin with.

The-Wizard-of-Oz- · 2019-07-24T09:58:09+00:00

Thank you. I myself suffer a lot from the overthinking problem. Many people have told me about it, but your short sketch certainly explained it very clearly

thepesterman · 2019-07-24T10:55:20+00:00

This is the same process I've used to go cliff diving, every thought you have about jumping says don't do it, you have to just not thing about doing it and go, once you've gone there's no going back. It's almost like tricking yourself into going, like, hey look over there, woah I just jumped.

rawrlolrofl · 2019-07-24T11:12:05+00:00

This has a lot to do with Ego too. Or lack of it.

Toffla_ · 2019-07-24T11:21:52+00:00

This is so true. The more you think about it, the harder it gets to execute the task

umizumiz · 2019-07-24T12:40:36+00:00

Maybe everyone does this, but when I'm lifting I always tell myself how exciting it is and how much fun it is to lift.

Always have done that, maybe it actually IS fun and everyone else thinks the same thing. lol

Quo210 · 2019-07-24T12:54:11+00:00

The good old trick your brain into doing something very difficult without it notices is doing so.

Sometimes I understand the advice from Dr. Peterson deeply, about disciplining one self - it's like doing it to another person, an unruly, lazy person. True, it might not throw a tantrum when it dawns on the fact you're being productive, but it will stress out, point out annoyances that were not there a minute ago and make you yawn. So I give the thing a treat as I'm working: music, an audiobook, a phonecall, a small workout, a very short meditation... 5 minutes of distraction and the baleful child forgets it was working, the tantrums stop.

subaruguy14 · 2019-07-24T13:12:59+00:00

Zombie mentality is underrated for doing hard things. Good post.

_370HSSV_ · 2019-07-24T14:08:47+00:00

This is the cure to procrastination boys

[deleted] · 2019-07-24T15:12:01+00:00

Thanks for the reminder. I’ve mastered this with fitness. Getting a lot better with it for approaches. But recently had a month long paralysis by analysis with getting a side hustle up and running. Need to just execute, act and it will sort out later like it always does.

nuufo · 2019-07-24T15:21:22+00:00

Nice post! I always tell myself this:

"It doesn't have to be hard. It just needs to be done."

[deleted] · 2019-07-24T16:04:56+00:00

Had a situation yesterday between a friend and I that was solved like this.

We were writing and recording a demo, there was one point where I was overthinking how to record it. We didn't get anywhere for a good ten minutes, till we said fuck it and we recorded it raw, & it turned out great. Just fire the shot, fuck how it ends up - just fire.

vulgar_display_ · 2019-07-24T16:15:40+00:00

Sucks that such great advice like this that can benefit so many men and people in general is quarantined and tossed away from the rest of the community

mette13 · 2019-07-24T18:21:17+00:00

Believe there is a phenomenon called analysis-paralysis, where one analyzes for too long and ends up not making a choice. This sounds similar.

sthlmtrdr · 2019-07-25T13:10:30+00:00

I use the method of divide-and-conquer

That mean I do break the larger task/goal into smaller parts, then I go ahead to methodically achieve each part. I may also break a part down further into even smaller sub-parts if needed.

KingOfAllWomen · 2019-07-24T14:15:22+00:00

Execute faster than your brain can give you anxiety.

Good advice for almost everything except electrical work.

I've gotten a lot of respect and promotion in my career because of this advice. I try to tell the kids but nobody gets it. The manager is going to look much more fondly on my project that is completed and maybe 90% correct than your pile of google research and flawless planning.

bjcm5891 · 2019-07-26T05:43:50+00:00

TL, DR:

Strike first. Strike hard. No mercy.

FaggoDeluxe · 2019-07-27T02:20:48+00:00

I've noticed this with myself that the more extensively I plan out my day and the more I get hyped about all of the shit that I will do, the less likely it is that I will actually do any of it.

Unlike lifting weights in a gym or sprinting, mental challenges require relaxation and concentration. An empty mind is ideal for mental work. This is why it's so easy to do tasks in the morning when your brain isn't filled with thoughts and emotions that you develop throughout the day.

I recommend meditation and mindfulness practice to anyone looking to develop this skill beyond the basics outlined in this post.

ExDota2Player · 2019-07-27T21:02:39+00:00

i needed to see this thread

Fraita · 2019-07-31T03:26:36+00:00

There is a method called "5 seconds" (even a book is named that, that's where the principle comes from) when you start counting down from 5, 4, 3 ... for whatever could cause some anxiety and just do it. Even during the countdown you've already started making that approach, open up the study books, start doing XYZ and when you hit 0, you are already there and will do the task that you challenged yourself to do.

You only focus on the countdown, don't think about anything else.

Valenx_Ackerman · 2019-07-24T08:40:26+00:00

Not sure about someone who just started the gym after his entire life without exercising and wants to lift 300lb on bench press...

I mean, you dont want to be physically injured