I reject your normalizing of sleeping with married women. Those husbands be whatever are humans, they are not in it for some contest or game, they are in it to live their life happy. Marriage is just so much more. That woman did date him before marrying, no one forced her, if he was not the kind to cling on to she should not have married him. But since she did, she must accept him for what he is and be committed to him regardless of he be alpha or beta since she is the one who said "yes" to the ring. People are what they are, different people will be always different, doesn't mean they deserve to be hurt and have their hearts crushed. I mean marriage is just so much more than this game of beta and alpha and this individualism in the relationship. It's about being supportive of each other regardless of anything and uplifting each other from weaknesses and guiding each other to a better life. If those women were doing this, this ain't any marriage, they were being played. They deserve better.

Have we become so obsessed with our sexuality that we have forgotten our humanity?

Those husbands deserve to know whether they were alpha or beta, they were still husbands. And, trust me those husbands will be VERY appreciative of you, that you saved them from a life of lie. And, they might not blame you as they might be sleeping with tons of many others guys (vomit!!). I mean I have never seen as disgusting humans as these, wow, how could anyone do this to someone, especially with someone they are spending their life with.

I think the society needs to embrace value system more now. And learn the aspect of - shamefulness. Over the years we have become less and lesser shameful. I am still vomiting over the fact that married women are doing this.

There is the concept of dharma - your duties towards your spouse, your children, your parents and the society. And, this is highest way of life, the biggest religion. According to the Vedas, one doesn't need to go to temples or anything but just do dharma, there is no higher way of life. And, for some good thousands of years (it's as old as 7000 years), in my country we have lived this way, but then you know my country just got so obssessed with the West and its lifestyle that now the same is following here. Not at the same level, have seen wives here feel guilt on cheating (if they did which was RARE) but even that is changing now. The same shit hole is being created here of hook ups and decietfulness. Maybe just like 30 years back, one coudnt even imagine going and trying to flirt with another man's woman, he would be crucified like that woman would never talk to him again. They were that loyal. They were very respectful to their marriage and their husbands. Husbands were more important than anything for them. Dating didn't exist much, but love was there at least (most were arranged marriages, some were love marriages). You could be rest assured that they wouldn't let another man even touch her like they wouldn't even dance with another man. And, dancing has been here in many forms, like dandiya and all which have group dances but there is no touching at all, and these dances are real fun, trust me.

Honestly, I wish I could just roll back 30 or 40 years and marry one of those women. but all this now makes me want to boycott marriage and even LTR unless I can find a traditional woman. But this sucks that most attractive women cheat. Do you think it's better to go for less attractive women?