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This shit is a waste of time & resources.


[–]vreshbaby122 points123 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

You forget that your mental state prenut holds more fiery. You shouldnt want to be in post nut state to not waste your time, you should use/transform your sexual energy into things that matter.

[–]showerdudes964 points65 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

Exactly this. Post nut = state of drool. When your stomach is full and you just ejaculated, how much drive do you have to get shit done? Not much. Stay in ”pre nut” fierce mode as much as you can.

[–]Jabbatheslut66662 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This

[–]Lefeudufou43 points44 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It's called monk mode. Bonus points for going to a remote area and living like an animal.

[–]jaznex37 points38 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

drinking your own piss makes the difference.

[–]ZeppKfw11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A wise man once said "You can recycle pee to help you survive" "Gotta keep those fluids flowing"

[–]javascript_dev35 points36 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

I don't think an incel who wacks off has post nut clarity, dude probably just gets more depressed. So what you really want is post nut fulfillment which requires women and thus, effort

[–]ChefCremeFraiche 1 points [recovered]  (9 children) | Copy Link

This is dead wrong. Nothing “requires” a woman in life for a man in life except kids. If you’re life isn’t fulfilling without a woman, it will never be fulfilling with a woman.

[–]javascript_dev3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

You're saying that an incel with the right attitude can have just as good a life as a man with sexual abundance?

[–]latinasonly5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

better even.

[–]javascript_dev1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I've been in both situations and my take is that one should cater to his natural, healthy urges. Easier, more enjoyable and probably more healthy.

Those incel types are mostly depressed for a reason. Maybe monkhood is achievable for some but most will fail as they struggle against nature.

[–]latinasonly1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Think of a priest vs a mentally ill fuckboy

[–]javascript_dev0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You're choosing the best and worst examples. Are you personally aspiring to be the priest? Do you think most men would benefit from this route? If so, why do you participate on TRP?

[–]latinasonly0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

thats how you prove a point.

i was being sarcastic .we all ready have enough priests, and could use some more sinners ;) :) ;)

[–]ChefCremeFraiche 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

Do you think that people that fuck thousands of women are actually happy? They’re not. When you get to extremes like that, the very thing you’re doing many many times over only keeps you feeling happy for a very short while. Kind of like taking drugs over and over makes you feel happy but once you stop you’re life is in the dumps. Drugs are required for that person to feel happy which is not good.

To another extreme, being a total intel can feel bad. But to get a woman you can’t be desperate because that drives them away. One feeling that incels and/or unhappy people commonly put out to women. This is why a corner stone of TRP says to have a personal mission. Having a personal mission gives you focus, and with focus comes accomplishment. With accomplishment comes confidence and a feeling of happiness. A woman is said to not be required because you can never set your own happiness goals in someone. That is called co-dependency and is very dangerous; it never turns out well. All things are fine until they do something you don’t like. And others are never a carbon copy of yourself and what you would like so it always ends in disaster. It’s a common “nice guy” character point.

[–]javascript_dev0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It is quite easy to fall into the incel life but extremely hard to accidentally fuck thousands of women, so I do not believe these extremes are anywhere near equivalent.

Why can't we just be true to our desires and have a few plates while attending to our other passions? Seems the most rationale and emotionally fulfilling path. This does require the admission that women add value to a man's life, however.

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Not really. If sex drive wasn't an issue life would be alot easier. Bonus points if you could turn it on/off like a switch.

[–]TehJimmyy2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bonus points if you could turn it on/off like a switch.

cant imagine how life would be with this feature.

[–]jackandjill224 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can. When I get really sick/ill like have a fever above 100 my sex drive turns off, sometimes my apeitite too. & then you feel it, freedom. It's actually strange, it feels strangely uncanny not to be constantly driven, to be clear/free of mind. It's freaky soemtimes when yiu realise how much of our actions are motivated by dumbshit after the haze lifts & you can do whatever want you to do.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Freezing cold showers are your friend.

[–]TehJimmyy-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

no

[–]kusoxu13 points14 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Try NoFap, you'll get so much shit done with that extra energy and you never burn out

[–]TheDero3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I made a post about this the other day and it hit the top page, check it out I think the comments there outlined a good line of thinking regarding this specifically.

Seems the general response on there is that your post-nut thoughts directly relate to the girls you're fucking (1-10). I've been getting extremely cold and bitter after fucking but in turn I realized these girls I've been with over the past month weren't providing anything to me besides pussy, which gave me that "fuck this shit" mentality towards them and towards myself on general.

So two things I took away: 1). fuck hotter and more valuable girls 2). Transform your pre-nut energy into your own success, less of it towards pussy. Easier said than done for me, but that's my view on it now.

[–]red_matrix3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You would never have the energy or need to get laid...you’d be a docile sheep. Be careful what you wish for.

[–]cracksniffer6663 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

ehhhhh yeah.

Random chick from last year hit me up, stating she was drunk, and she was coming over.

Came over, got offended by something, and left. Parked around the corner for like 30 mins, and once I checked on her, she said she was "still in the neighborhood"... uhhh

She came back, and then got offended again, and left again. Once she got home, she WAS MAD SHE GOT OFFENDED, BUT FORGOT WHAT SHE WAS MAD ABOUT. Legit her words. I was a thirsty bitch last night, so I ended up driving a long ass way to fuck her (without a condom) :((

I was cursing myself out on the drive home.

If that STUPID fucking drive to make dumb decisions for sex didn't exist, we wouldn't be here.. but that still goes to show you that any sane person would see through the bullshit. I need to write a book.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Funny story.

[–]cracksniffer6662 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It was some crucial booty tho lmao ... idk about the part where she was referring to "us" as a family when she was talking to her dogs... yeeeesh

She kept talking about suicide and shit. She also cursed me out for being good at piano?

I'm retarded, so I'll probably smash again

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao well, you do you man. That sounds pretty crazy tho. Be careful.

[–]TigerXtrm5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I would get so much shit done.

[–]showerdudes917 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

No you wouldnt. Its the opposite, youd get absolutely nothing done. Try masturbating several times per day and see ”how much shit” you get done

[–]TigerXtrm5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was referring more to the clarity in my head, not so much the shitshow that is my body at that moment. But yeah, masturbation kills any sort of drive I have.

[–]jackandjill22-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not true bro. It's so much easier to get things done when you aren't distracted.

[–]ElektroShokk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jerk off less and get into ketosis

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha you only realising this now bro?

[–]dutchgguy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

you can, it's just hard to get into it with porn exposure

[–]Greaterbird0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's why I eat my nuts constantly throughout the day.

[–]L3onard30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

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