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I discovered TRP and MRP about a week ago and its been eye opening to say the least. During the summer, my wife and kids left town for a while and I had some time alone. We've had a dead bedroom for a while - we both stopped initiating about a year ago, though she has never turned me down when I initiate.

This year, I decided to check out the sugarbaby world to try some things out before I felt I got too old - maybe mid-life crisis type stuff. Met up with some young, super hot SB girls for some fun times. This was a lot of fun but ultimately wasn't fulfilling.

Anyway, I've been doing TRP type stuff before finding TRP - lifting, dressing better, better haircuts, etc. Wife was noticing and making comments about why I was doing this and joking about me cheating. A few days ago, she found the ED pills I used with my SBs in my bag and it was on. Crying, divorce threats, everything. Luckily, i found MRP a few days before this and knew the basics about how to stay in frame. Long story short, I denied everything and she ended up apologizing about digging through my stuff. That night she said she was on her period, but gave me a BJ (been a long long long time) and HJ.

My wife is attractive and isn't overweight. She has never had any red flags. I love her and want to grow old with her. Before we had kids, I used to think about having kinky sex with her all the time - we never got to that point in the bedroom, she was very vanilla. But after we had kids, I could only think of her as the mother of my children, and all those kinky sex thoughts stopped.

My questions 1) what do I do now? she's probably still a little suspicious. what kind of frame should i keep? will this incident make it more likely she cheats too? 2) After the fun times with the young SB's, sex with my wife doesn't turn me on as much. I still want to have sex with hot young 20 yo's, find myself thinking about doing this once a year to get out of my system.

I've had a decent amount of experience with women but have never been good with women. I learned about pickup just before we got married. TBH I was thinking about breaking up/delaying with my wife before our wedding so that I could go learn. Its always gnawed at me that I never got to go out and try seduction. Should i just man up, own it and be the best husband/father and forget about all this? Or should i do something like go out daygame catch and release (after things cool down at home) and see how I feel?


[–]RStonePT[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link

The only reason I don't think this is a troll is because you contradict yourself from sentence to sentence. A troll is consistent in his writing.

[–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dear askMRP,

I voluntarily stopped fucking my attractive, awesome wife and then paid to fuck prostitutes while popping gas station dick pills. My wife found my half-used pack of horny goat weed and then threatened divorce, but thankfully I heard of the red pill one time, so I knew to keep that bitch in my frame by telling her it wasn't mine. What should I do?

[–]RPMorpheus22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dear /u/throwawaymrp1100,

Sneak your dick pills into your wife's coffee. Wait 30-45 minutes for full effect. Watch as your wife grows a pair and fucks you in the ass.

Sincerely,

I don't give a fuck

[–]savageinthebox13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

OP is this a serious question or are you trolling? If it’s serious go to the sidebar and start reading, which by the way doesn’t mean “read the sidebar” it means read the books that are recommended on the sidebar which will help you to (slowly) pull your head out your ass. It’s up there so fucking far you can’t even tell it’s up there. I’ve been there. I’ve been RP since February, and I’ve just recently pulled my head out far enough to even realize it’s up there. There’s no way you’re fixed after one week and holding frame or whatever the fuck you’re talking about. This sub does not teach you how to deceive your wife, it teaches you how to stop deceiving yourself. Start reading, start lifting and STFU. Good luck.

[–]helaughsinhidden8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

we both stopped initiating about a year ago, though she has never turned me down when I initiate........ Met up with some young, super hot SB girls for some fun times

Faggot

she was very vanilla

Nope, you are.

what kind of frame should i keep?

The hell kind of question is this? Try they "ANYTHING BUT A FAGGOT" frame with a pair of white sneakers?

sex with my wife doesn't turn me on as much

You already didn't have sex willingly for a year?! Don't put this on her, get your Testosterone checked. Tell your wife that you've always wanted to be kinky but never found the balls to speak up. Women will get as nasty as you will while still being in a confident frame.

Cheating or not, the problem is NOT your wife, it's you. You are the one who isn't beign attractive enough for her to want to initiate with, you are the one with a supposedly hot wife you just don't even bother to fuck even though you like to have sex. You are boring, vanilla, lazy, low effort, casual, normie, scum. You've wasted your life being absolutely mediocre. Be a much much much better version of yourself.

[–]redwall9210 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

TLDR..

Wife found ED pills. OP still searching for balls.

[–]jjj25761 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

OP— I think you may have misplaced your balls near the Sidebar. Start there. If you already have, then what have you read?

[–]hack3geRed Beret4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Madonna / whore complex - look it up.

Funny thing is your wife craves being treated like a complete and udder slut - they all do for a high value man. I bet if you flipped her off the side of the bed and face fucked her she would probably cum just from that.

[–]savageinthebox5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I bet you there is a fetish about “udder sluts” but I don’t think it means what you think it means.

[–]hack3geRed Beret2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Hahahhahhaha that auto correct is hilarious just made my day.

Im sure there’s some kinky shit out there about milking sluts.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Prostate milking bro.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The ironic thing is that both of you participated in a literal udder slut thread earlier today.

How 'bout them apples.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You sir have won the internet

[–]RStonePT0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No one was flinching on that thread, no one was going to be the first to swerve

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

1) what do I do now? she's probably still a little suspicious. what kind of frame should i keep? will this incident make it more likely she cheats too?

Get out of your wife's head. Just learn to STFU. Get to work on the sidebar. If she cheats, she cheats. Quit trying to control that which you can't.

2) After the fun times with the young SB's, sex with my wife doesn't turn me on as much. I still want to have sex with hot young 20 yo's, find myself thinking about doing this once a year to get out of my system.

Older (not OLD) women have their own sense of femininity - which more closely resemebles radiance rather than the youthful inexperience and horniness of a 20yo. Both are awesome, both have their benefits. It's just your turn.

If you want to continue banging chicks on the side, that's your business. But I do believe 100% that you'll do this for validation reasons, which will never, ever solve any of your problems. You'll always be chasing pussy for validation and fail at everything else in your life.

Now, get to work on the sidebar.

[–]vplatt1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This, so much. Fix yourself OP and read the books listed in the sidebar. You haven't even begun the RP process and we can tell because you thinking hooking up means anything at all. It doesn't! Newsflash: You can sleep with younger women! Now, so what? Besides fucking up your marriage, what will that get you? An STI maybe? That's about it.

In the meantime, if you actually fix yourself and let your relationship straighten out as a result, do you think that will make you happier in the end? Probably.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is what happens when you cheat before your ready. Jumped right to dread level 12! Fuck ya!

Fuckin dread pirate Roberts over here.

Off to tarrooga with you, drink rum (drunk captain), bang whores (already did that) and secure a new crew (divorce). Your headed for a mutiny.

[–]bowhunter8576 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If she doesn’t turn you down when you initiate then why are you even here? Fucking initiate. You are the man, be one.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I give you permission to go fuck other women.

Go with Brodin my son

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The only solution is to crush the ED pills into a fine power.

Place said powdered on her clit.

Snort off said clit.

Enjoy.

[–]Captain_pants41 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Let that hamster spin.

Make sure to wrap the willy with those SB chicks.

[–]tommyknockermj1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm

[–]RStonePT1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

about a week ago

why are you asking anything? What could you possibly have done so far that you've hit a road bump?

[–]RPMorpheus4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

1) what do I do now?

Lift. Read the sidebar. Read. Lift. Read more. Lift more.

she's probably still a little suspicious.

Who cares

will this incident make it more likely she cheats too?

Who cares. You should be too busy worrying about yourself to worry about her. If she does cheat deal with it then

2) After the fun times with the young SB's, sex with my wife doesn't turn me on as much. I still want to have sex with hot young 20 yo's, find myself thinking about doing this once a year to get out of my system.

If that's what you want then do it. I give you permission.

I was thinking about breaking up/delaying with my wife before our wedding so that I could go learn. Its always gnawed at me that I never got to go out and try seduction. Should i just man up, own it and be the best husband/father and forget about all this? Or should i do something like go out daygame catch and release (after things cool down at home) and see how I feel?

Do whatever the fuck you wanna do man. No one is twisting your arm. And no one here can tell you what you want.

Start posting over at Own Your Shit in /r/marriedredpill every Tuesday. There's one there now for you to post in. Include your stats. You need to put in the work to get anything out of this community.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cool story bro, but do you even purpose?

[–]red88lobster-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You deserve to be divorce raped.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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