Life after the Red Pill?

0io- · 2019-09-06T22:58:28+00:00

There's all kinds of interesting stuff going on in the world. You only develop nihilism and hopelessness if you let it happen. Let's take your points in order:

-You can have a family (and even get married if you want to) but getting married is a raw deal for men in Western society today.

-Can't rely on democracy to fix the world. Well that's probably true but why is that your goal? Fixing the world is a big task. Focus on stuff you have control over.

-Working for companies sucks. You can start your own business doing anything you know how to do. It doesn't have to be fancy. Paint houses, fix cars, buy and sell stuff, buy a house fix it up and rent it out.

-Hypergamy is real, but so what? Make it work for you. Find a girl who thinks you're the best she could ever get.

-Spinning plates gets boring. If you like one of the girls better than the others keep her around more. You don't have to declare her to be your LTR, just keep it going as long as you're enjoying it.

So, you're not sure what to do. You have to figure out what you like and what makes you happy and quit worrying about the fate of the world. Since you're not that interested in money (or that's the impression I get) why don't you try to get a job that provides some personal satisfaction? A buddy of mine left investment banking and worked for some NGO that helps street kids in Brazil. Lots of hot chicks in Brazil. You can't help every street kid, some of them are in gangs or whatever, but there's plenty who you can help. Maybe charity work isn't your thing. You could be a forest ranger or volunteer fire fighter or something else where the work is more interesting to you but the money isn't all that great. You're a little fucked in the head right now because you bought into a fantasy that turned out not to be real (work hard, get married to the right girl, get promoted at work, have a family, etc.) The blue pill is kind of an idealized American Dream fantasy. So now your life is empty and it's your job to fill it up with stuff that actually does make you happy. Can you learn some new sports or some new languages? Can you travel to a different part of the world? Maybe you're interested in philosophy or religion? Your fantasy world came tumbling down but now you have to build up your life the way you want it, with things that are meaningful to you.

DJSaucyP · 2019-09-06T22:02:37+00:00

I resonate with this brother.

sjswander94 · 2019-09-06T23:00:33+00:00

I relate. Nihilism ain’t the answer though. For me giving is meaningful. In whatever way I can I like to give value.for example I Helped a fat kid I work with lose 50 lbs.Seeing him become confident and determined put a big fat smile on my face. Psychedelics can give you perspective on what really matters. a nice lsd or shroom trip could help you out if that’s something your open to.

liquorbaron · 2019-09-06T23:15:52+00:00

There's no seen/known, correct, true answer. It's your life to make of it what you want. Want to jerk off all day to porn? Do it or don't. Want to bed 2000 women? Do it or don't. Want to devote yourself to abstinence and faith in a God. Do it or don't. Want to lift all day? Do it or don't. Doesn't matter as there is no objective correct answer. The closest you'll get to what a legit mission is in life is that you're probably supposed to procreate in accordance with nature and species survival. That only matters if you care to anyhow as there are 8 billion people here already. The species will probably survive a catastrophic event at this point.

You gotta figure out what makes you happy. You're free to do whatever for the most part. Also women compliment your life not complete it. They're a side quest if you choose.

FereallyRed · 2019-09-06T20:57:14+00:00

You're looking for some sense of value from life.

It doesn't exist. Redpill, bluepill, black, purple, green, reality is that we're all just random meatsacks bumping into random meatsacks on a tiny planet spinning around a mediocre sun in a tiny galaxy in the rural county of a massive black hole that will eventually consume everything without a noise.

Life is what you make it. That's it.

Anitaliandude · 2019-09-07T02:49:38+00:00

"He who seeks finds"

Dimenzije90 · 2019-09-06T22:56:13+00:00

-It seems like hypergamy is real, but then you find an example that proves it wrong, and then again you find an example that proves it's real, and the again an example that proves it wrong, until infinity.

I can help you with this one since i had the same mind fuckery about this. The thing is hipergamy is REAL 100%, those cases when you see that they are not real are cases which are either toxic LTR, or the two have grown to their comfort its hard for them get out, the pressure from their family to stay together or maybe the dude is doing a good job maintaining frame and has game which you can't really see from an outside perspective. So just know that just because a women is with a bf for a long time doesnt mean she isn't eyeing other alphas and looking for a BBD. The gift the red pill gives you is that the life you live is the life you create, now that you know true nature of people and society use that to your best advantage and live the life you want.

The marriage laws here in my country(Serbia) arent so fucked up like in U. S. so here you can start a family if thats what you want but the female nature still remains. If you want to have kids there is nothing wrong with that. Just try to have kids without a marriage (LTR) and choose the mother of your kids carefully (red flags, green flags). Also know that even if you find a perfect women to have kids she will NEVER be 100 % yours. No girl will ever be truly yours. They belong to the world. But the world belongs to men.

TheBadGoy · 2019-09-06T23:03:08+00:00

I simply enjoy the pleasures the current world has to offer while hoping for some change without becoming obsessed with it. Sure the capitalist/communist dichotomy, the left right wing kosher sandwich and the elite epstein rings are tough blackpills to swallow, but at the end of the day I focus on the little things. A woman's touch/smile, playing with my dog, my money, teaching my little nephews etc. I simply can't afford to lose my sanity, I only have around 60 years to live.

[deleted] · 2019-09-07T03:12:10+00:00

I'm going to address the company part, because I think your job is the most important thing as everything else follows on from that. It's where you spend the majority of your life, and the job you have affects your mood every day and what freedom and choices you have in life.

I dunno man, I've worked for good companies and bad companies. The best experience I've ever had is working for a small, family owned business that's seeking growth. They're the most likely to care about you and value you. That's my current situation and I love it. I'm a manager with my own selected team and the owners are nothing but lovely and very supportive, understanding that my expertise is something they don't understand and so they give me a lot of freedom and trust to do my job right. That's why they hired me - to do something they can't do themselves, and they understand that and respect it. It's great.

Conversely, the worst experience I've ever had has also been a small family business. Greedy, nasty, mean-spirited owners who abused their staff in the search for profit. You've just got to keep looking until you find the right fit.

Just saying, there's lots of options out there and it's not all a big corporate nightmare. It's really important you find a good working environment for yourself because it's going to be where you spend the majority of your life, and everything else is going to be structured around that place and your position. It will bleed out into your mood and frame every single day. For men especially, how you are treated in your work environment affects your pride and how you view yourself, as well as how others see you.

My biggest words of advice are these: get qualified to DO something. Find a way so that you are trained and experienced in actually doing a thing that other people can't do without the same training and experience, or that they can't learn to do in a matter of weeks or months. I have two degrees in literature, but it wasn't until I actually trained to do a job that I started having any real options available to me. Learn a specific skill or a trade, then focus on that and never stop learning about it even when you have a good job. If I could start life over I would never attend university. I'd get an apprenticeship and learn a trade such as plumbing or electrician or mechanic then start my own business after 10 years of practice. All the stuff I picked up at university I could have gotten with a library card.

[deleted] · 2019-09-07T05:56:36+00:00

The simple diagnosis is you have no purpose. And you have no excuse to ignore it because purpose is a fundamental red pill tenet. Quit your job. Disrupt your life. “Those who seek to save their life, must lose it.”

Snowaey · 2019-09-07T08:47:41+00:00

Yeah we already know that society is going to shit, enjoy the decline.

Geleemann · 2019-09-07T09:20:15+00:00

It seems like spinning plates is amazing, but then you realize it's an endless loop of just having sex with women while accomplishing nothing substantial in the meantime except adding a +1 to your n count

Pleasure does not equal happiness. What makes you happy?

RP_COGuy · 2019-09-07T13:55:15+00:00

It seems like you can't rely on democracy to fix the situation in this world that has turned upside down

Democracy is two wolves and a sheep voting on what to have for dinner.

codeleet1 · 2019-09-06T22:56:16+00:00

Life is meaningless, its your responsibility to make it meaningful for you.
From what I understand Nihilism states that life is meaningless and life is suffering.
But you need to make a reason for yourself to make the suffering worthwhile. That is your purpose.
A purpose judges you as a success or a failure; and there is no guarantee of a success. So why have a purpose? Because its beats the hell out of a pleasure driven life in the long run. A purpose is a burden and a responsibility.

Watch till end ... eye opening
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NX2ep5fCJZ8

Sendmeloveletters · 2019-09-07T02:06:43+00:00

Same. I’m deep in a stack of high quality plates but I want a family and I see no point in a life where that’s not an option, so my motivation to succeed and accomplish has gone

UnKnownSurviving · 2019-09-07T03:50:17+00:00

if you're looking for purpose, you can find it in christianity, though, the men are beta as fuck. I don't get why men like this are asking their wives to look for leadership. WTF.

Just look for strong christian men, who are not weak, and strong in their purpose as a man, and look for worthy things. if you're interested, that is.

Also, beside christianity, you can have another purpose like: gun range, fitness, archery, horseback riding, survival training, or combat training, gardening. And anything else.

poopdeck · 2019-09-07T04:16:46+00:00

We're already living in the projected dystopian future

Amor fati

uptimex · 2019-09-07T05:19:43+00:00

Yeah, the same. But it become more assertive with time. You see what others cannot. You see real real social dynamics (not fancy RSD). You see what people want but cannot confess even to themselves. Hypergamy is always real, but you gotta understand that in most cases "honest, direct man, who says what he wants to get" considered as highest quality man.

Luvqxo · 2019-09-07T10:24:54+00:00

After years being red-pilled,life really seems like it's a finished game that i'm just wandering around but that's when the real fun starts.After being red-pilled for so long,chasing for martyrdom and surviving it,i feel like i have total control over much more things that i used to.Red-pilling is martyrdom.Most people out there build their lives on weak foundation but those that accept the very harsh truths become desensitized as a side effect but really have control.

cafeitalia · 2019-09-07T12:36:18+00:00

Pessimistic consistency is anti RP.

papunigga031 · 2019-09-07T17:22:17+00:00

Take what you want from the world. Find a purpose and focus on it. That’s your life after the red pill.

Whitefarmer · 2019-09-08T07:34:05+00:00

I would recommend you listen to Owen Benjamin’s podcast

Twenty_league_boots · 2019-09-07T02:24:54+00:00

I'm very happily married and have a family and have been red pilled for years. I've never been sexually faithful to my wife and that works just fine. Highly recommend you still have kids/family, as long as you can control your woman. It brings tons of meaning to my life.

Noitrasama · 2019-09-07T06:14:49+00:00

Travel to countries less touched by feminism. I've western friends who come to Africa & find meaning here. It's not paradise at all. But u don't get fucked by feminists laws. Again, hypergamy is,real even here. The difference is u as a man have more room to maneuver. U can easily hold frame. And if starting a family is important then it's easier. Even if u start a family, she can't divorce raped you...neither can she screw u via CS. Even if she attempts, the courts also speak the international universal language aka $. And best of all u can retire cheaply here. Try Asia also.

daredevil1302 · 2019-09-07T10:08:09+00:00

Thank you all for your replies. I will try to explore more possibilities and perspectives this life has to offer. I can not and will not give up.

Good luck to you all.

Nergaal · 2019-09-07T05:11:23+00:00

Get some JBP videos under your belt