Can't get into my head that women view me sexually

btrpb · 2019-10-14T07:15:13+00:00

Dude. If you are getting into close proximity with women then you need to grow a sack and escalate. If it doesn't work move on. If it does, you get to unload into a pussy.

It really is that simple. You have to let women know that you are a sexual being. Women are smart. If they like you they will put themselves into a position to give you opportunity. But you're the man and it's up to you to push it over the line.

YouNeedAVacation · 2019-10-14T10:54:40+00:00

Hey dude I was in exactly the same position as you about a year ago. I'm a good looking guy but I had absolutely no experience with girls and was petrified of interacting with them sexually.

You really just have to push yourself outside of your comfort zone. I remember the first time a girl started grinding on me in a club, I was terrified of touching her, I swear I almost had a fucking panic attack, every cell in my body was telling me not to touch her but I just fucking pushed through and put my hands on her waist. After she reacted positively it was like a lightbulb came on in my head 'ok so girls don't mind it when I touch their body'. Similar story for the first time I kissed a girl, I was nervous as fuck but I pushed all that aside and just fucking went for it and after she kissed me back I realised 'hey girls don't mind it when I kiss them'. When you get enough of these experiences you gain confience and it all becomes second nature. A year later I've lost my virginity , and slept with multiple girls, a few of whom were hot as fuck.

The point is you're a man, you do things and the world (girl) reacts. If you haven't done something before, pretend you have and feign confidence - as a man you should always remain calm and collected and act like you have answers and that you've been in the situation before, even if on the inside you're uncertain and nervous as hell. The first time I took a girl home from a club I had no idea what I was doing but I kept my cool and pretended I had done it many times before. By the 3rd time I pulled a girl home I was already a natural and had no anxiety whatsoever.

Step out of your comfort zone and take action - no one is gonna do it for you

redhawkes · 2019-10-14T08:02:48+00:00

Imposter syndrome. Get out of your comfort zone and take action, your subconscious mind will catch up soon.

VSelf47 · 2019-10-14T13:10:40+00:00

That’s because you don’t see them sexually yourself, most likely cause you were told to be a nice guy and the right women will come along. All this leads to not escalating cause you were told to not think about sex.

Repeat after me: WOMEN LIKE TO HAVE SEX

All girls want to be railed up by “the right guy”.

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2019-10-14T14:42:11+00:00

This is funny. I was just thinking the other day how much of a pussy I used to be. About 10 years ago. I was 19, I slept in a bed with a 23 year old and I didn’t even try to make a move. It wasn’t bc I was “being a gentlemen”. I was just a pussy.

I ended up boning on regularly, but only bc she made a move on me 1 night when we drank.

cracksniffer666 · 2019-10-14T10:41:56+00:00

This "friend" I've been talking to randomly mentioned in convo that "oh and I look good naked, haha"

and I was still oblivious to it

[deleted] · 2019-10-14T13:34:12+00:00

Madonna/whore complex. You think women don’t really want to get fucked. Wake up.

MR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2019-10-14T09:11:15+00:00

Do the ole whip-dick: whip out your dick and let the cards fall where they may.

MattyAnon · 2019-10-14T18:44:05+00:00

What's the question?

The answer is probably "you're attractive but you don't escalate therefore you get nothing. If you want girls, escalate".

YouWannaPutMoneyOnIt · 2019-10-14T13:49:19+00:00

And stop shooting yourself in the foot. You sound either afraid of success or actually trying and possibly failing. You learn the most when you fail don’t forget that. You have to be a fool before you can be a master, don’t let your prodigy skills make you think you have to be a master in everything to begin with

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-10-14T11:57:45+00:00

Look up the article “I now became chad the destroyer of pussy”

[deleted] · 2019-10-14T14:53:52+00:00

I feel ya. I'm still in Beginner Hell (see graph halfway down the page) but I went swing dancing last night and had a hell of a good time. I'm just good enough of a dancer.....and just attractive enough in general.....that I didn't have to wait more than once song for a follow to come up to me and ask me to dance.

Just like my sex life, I'd have a better time if I was a lot more aggressive.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2019-10-14T22:20:43+00:00

masterbate a bit less and loss of eye contact - they should be giving IOI's like hair touching etc.

MrBreitling · 2019-10-14T11:04:04+00:00

watching Black Panther at the movies

intense fighting scene between protag and antag

slouch down my seat and yell, "YO, THIS NIGGA BOUTTA DABBED ON"

everyone laughs

black guy sucks his teeth and says, "You aight, white boy"

Hear "He cute" from one of the girls

sixseven89 · 2019-10-14T08:18:17+00:00

Can you jack yourself off somewhere else

YouWannaPutMoneyOnIt · 2019-10-14T13:48:12+00:00

You have a dick, I don’t know what else there is to it than that lol. But that’s the starting point lol- which means to some level females are attracted to you, now you have to do the social game to get the best females.

severus_iudex · 2019-10-14T21:17:24+00:00

Stop operating from the point of view of "does she like me?" and start asking yourself "do I like her?". If the answer is yes, your focus will be on flirting with her and escalating things. Your mind will eventually work it out, it's all about where your focus is.

You are the one who chooses who to fuck. Not the one that gets chosen.

Try it. It works.

bradtwo · 2019-10-14T14:45:41+00:00

> I subconsciously think

That's your perception on it my man.

Here is the only advice that I could ever give to someone else, that changed my life, completely.

Take care of your mind.
1. There are hundreds of free meditation apps and thousands of free mediation videos. So what is stopping you? Time ? It takes less than 10 minutes, per day.
For fucks sake, Take care of your body.
1. Don't become a lazy piece of shit that doesn't do anything other than stay home and gripe on the internet. Get out and get your ass to the a gym or start some home workout routines. This will make you attractive to many women as laziness and lack of self preservation are two of the top turnoff things for most women. No one expects you to look like Arnold after week one.
You should read up a lot on social engineering.
1. For me this started when I was a much younger chump, 22-23 (15 years ago) . Where I would end up in relationships with women, whom I found attractive, but it always felt like a "luck of the draw" thing. I never broke down my interactions with them, I never broke down the steps from getting them to a person I met at a coffee shop, to a date, to the bedroom, to a relationship. I simply never took the time to figure it out. I then randomly stumbled upon some videos on a torrent that was talking about this whole "PUA" society. Something now which is commonly known and (well to be honest) commonly overused. But for me, the take away was two things... after reading 1) Reading Neil Strauss' The Game. and 2) Reading Mystery's Book "Mystery Method", I was somewhat able to figure out why I was successful in the past, and that it had less to do with blind luck, but more to do with reading and gauging interest at the time.

revaforce · 2019-10-14T10:49:14+00:00

Lift.

Psiphistikkated · 2019-10-14T21:18:29+00:00

...are you asexual?

NoVirtueSignal · 2019-10-14T22:48:00+00:00

That’s because your a gimp lol therefore reframe

my_diamonds_bite · 2019-10-14T22:52:30+00:00

Why are u concerned with what other girls are thinking?? Spend more thought time on your mission. Some random girl you don’t know is renting free space in your head.

Zanford · 2019-10-14T23:37:32+00:00

Escalate. You'll be positively surprised. Practice practice practice.

Women are extremely sexual. When they gossip with each other, it's like half sexual talk. Literally at least half. my god. Their Netflix queues too, their reading material...

Savior1666 · 2019-10-15T01:21:10+00:00

> Had a girl in my bed watching a movie

If you're young I understand man, We've all been there, that feminst programming is crazy to break.

Yes you should have banged her, no excuse there, but it sounds like you are just too unsure of yourself.

Next time you're in this situation, escalate. Eventually you'll get there.

Andgelyo · 2019-10-15T01:34:41+00:00

You a bitch that’s why.

Aestheticcunt1996 · 2019-10-14T12:12:49+00:00

Take steroids

jrr6415sun · 2019-10-14T18:44:48+00:00

Is this just a humble brag post?

o_Oz · 2019-10-14T18:16:25+00:00