Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry her

shitposterkatakuri · 2019-11-13T16:25:17+00:00

This is gonna be really unpopular here but I think stability, loyalty, and purity will be of more value long term for raising a family than looks. If you want a family and don’t wanna just fuck girls long term, you will want the mother of your children to have not been a thot. You’ll want her to be loyal and kind and committed and focused and devoted. And ultimately, your wife, no matter who she is, will grow old and uglier. A 5.5 with a 10 heart is worth more than a 9.5 with a 5 heart. Looks always decay but the moral compass and convictions a person has does not. I am not going to say marry her. That’s your decision. But you’re not getting the best advice from people viewing this as solely transactional since you do want a family. Maybe you should marry her. Maybe you shouldn’t. But I’ll tell you the answer shouldn’t be “definitely not!”. This is a very rare type of woman that you found. Very, very rare. Someone actually maybe worth admiring for your eventual children. Don’t do something you one day regret.

Original_Username7 · 2019-11-13T17:15:41+00:00

Fuck dude, I’m gonna get downvoted to hell for saying this but the idea of leaving her now that you’re better is the exact same things that we criticize women for doing all the time on here. Can anyone see that? This girl is acting in the opposite ways we say most women act (my ex was repulsed by my weakness). I really don’t think you’d be where you are at all today without the support of this women. You pretty much owe her. Yes, red pill is about sexual strategy and is “amoral”, but if you’re looking for help making a moral choice, this may not be the best subreddit to ask on. I totally get feeling like you want some hot pussy now that you can get it, but take it from a guy who was married to a 9 who turned into a evil bitch, just hearing about your good woman blows my mind and makes me kinda wish I’d ended up with that instead. I’m not saying marry her, that has it own host of problems, but I am saying you casting her aside after she helped you become awesome is immoral in my book. Congrats on your success bro, I wish you the best. edit: spelling

TheBunk_TB · 2019-11-13T13:40:52+00:00

If you don't feel that way about her, you don't feel that way about her. It wouldn't be a good idea. You need to be honest with her, though. Her vision of you was rewarded somewhat. You technically don't owe her for it but you owe her honesty. (I personally feel like I owe people that have been on my team but this is not a "law". It is my opinion). Marriage isn't a joke. It is often a lifetime decision that can might you in the rear end. You have a lot to lose.

LiftHeavyFuckSteady · 2019-11-13T16:11:25+00:00

So after reading some comments, you guys are hypocritical on this one. It's entirely his fault and we should not overlook this.

I mean i agree, don't marry someone you don't wanna spend the rest of your life with (so for me never), but honestly this is just his fault and he's a cunt for keeping someone around who does not meets his expectations.

We normally judge girls for riding the CC in their younger years instead of locking down an alpha? And now that a girl does exactly what she is biologically wired and expected to do in our eyes, we don't even appreciate it and fitstbump the guy for growing out of his old pair of pussy?

So for me it's end it right now and fkn grow a pair of balls in all your scarcity.

mrbill1234 · 2019-11-13T15:48:24+00:00

If you want to get married at all - ever - then you may as well take someone who has been loyal - assuming of course she will remain loyal. Sure you could do better looks wise - but you will find it difficult in your profession to find an 8+ female who knows she's an 8+ and not a gold digger.

If you can find someone better who has the same prospects as yourself (another doctor for instance), then you may have less to lose in case the marriage goes downhill and ends in divorce.

This is all of course assuming you WANT to get married. Your best bet is to just not get married at all.

mechcoder598 · 2019-11-13T16:00:39+00:00

She did a lot for you man. Yes, I agree its not enough to get married as you have to want it too. The right thing to do would be to be honest with her. Tell her you don’t see each other getting married. But if you are just doing this just because you are scared that what will society think that you are an 8 that ended up with a 6 then you my friend are a blue-pilled beta who cares too much about the world. But if you have no intentions to marry her then let her go.

br0j1tsu · 2019-11-13T13:51:11+00:00

She's in her epiphany phase, I'd say don't get married, but then again, you're invested into the relationship, do whatever the hell you want just have in mind that you're about to jump from a plane and there's a 50% chance your chute is not going to open.

skorpion7777 · 2019-11-13T14:18:30+00:00

You don't owe her anything. But as far as I can see you still want to be with her and want kids together. Imo a good way to go about it is to tell her you don't want to involve a third party (the government) into your relationship. Tell her you're still into her and like to have kids, but it was never your intention to get married (you can be honest in that regard). You'll save your assets and minimize the risk an ugly divorce. If she tries to pressure you into marriage that is a red flag and you should seriously think if your having a future together.

Black_Jesup · 2019-11-13T17:25:18+00:00

No matter who you wind up with, looks will fade. Character usually doesn’t. She sounds like marriage material, but you will have to decide if a more worthwhile package remains for you out there. Her proven loyalty for you is something to seriously consider.

empatheticapathetic · 2019-11-13T14:51:21+00:00

You’re 6’4 and you were a medical prospect. Any sensible girl would hold onto you. Now you’ve blossomed.

Women drop men all the time without a second thought. You hold all the power here. Call the shots and she can stay or go. Marriage is off the table though.

Vitamin_ABCDE · 2019-11-13T14:12:13+00:00

You have no abundance and you feel pressured into marrying this girl because you think you owe it to her.

What do you have to gain from this, aside from appeasing her? Maybe you think it's "heartless" to reject her now when she was there when you needed support the most, but marriage is a really big ask and sometimes you have to be heartless to have a happy life.

You've probably thought long and hard about this; if you have any doubts whatsoever, don't do it. There's a lot that could go wrong.

Only get married if you really want to and understand all the pros and cons associated.

vondoom900 · 2019-11-13T13:30:08+00:00

Dodge your best years are incoming!!! Hers are behind her. This is a classic trap.

Roto2esdios · 2019-11-13T16:08:43+00:00

I think you are testing TRP community. You are a genious!

MrSlommy7 · 2019-11-13T15:24:00+00:00

Gonna repeat what everyone else has said by saying you don't owe her. But you need to evaluate what's best for you. Can you see yourself in a marriage with this woman? If marriage something you want? Or perhaps the single live is for you? She's sounds like a decent woman, but you need to weight out both options and make a decision from there. Either way, keep things real with her. Sounds like she stuck by your even at your worst times and she at the very least deserves respect for that.

Good luck bro

MagnumBurrito · 2019-11-13T15:38:28+00:00

She sounds like a fine woman. Too bad she's not better looking.

PayneGreyWolf · 2019-11-13T18:42:35+00:00

Don't kid yourself, you're still a beta. You're just a beta with a good job and low body fat now but the fact you can't straight up tell her how you feel demonstrates beta behavior. Second, this girl has given you her unwavering loyalty, stability, and from the sound of it, you wouldn't be where you are now without her but you're want to give that all up for a hotter piece of ass. RP is about sexual strategy and maximizing your efficiency but it this girl sounds like a keeper. Especially if children you want in your future, this girl offers you intangible things that are very rare today. And this might be immoral but since you've already done it, why not go out and get a piece of ass once in awhile. But otherwise if you chose to leave her I can totally see you being a beta male provider that ends up getting played hard and divorced + sucked dry for alimony.

Being alpha isn't just looking good and having a high paying job. That's just looking the part. It's in how you think.

redbananaboard · 2019-11-13T16:32:50+00:00

Why are we even discussing this? You don't owe her shit. You gotta do what you gotta do. A man should never go against his desires and needs.

You don't like her anymore? Let her go. Don't wanna marry her? Don't do it. Nothing will happen man. She'll move on and so do you. That's life, and in a year you won't give a fuck if you truly embraced RP principles. Cut that BP moral self-sabotage, go get whatever the fuck you want from life.

I know you want to do the "honorable" thing but It will explode in your face in a few years.

thetotalpackage7 · 2019-11-13T17:25:11+00:00

She sounds like a good person and has been proved to be loyal to you and treat you right. But I agree that no one wants to marry a hog. Is there anything you can help or encourage her to do to pull up her SMV to at least a 7-8? If she's fat, with bad hair, crooked teeth and bad skin...these things can be fixed. Won't be easy but maybe she's worth it?

Nergaal · 2019-11-13T20:14:41+00:00

Do you want kids? If yes, this person seems like would make for a great mother. Now in the country where you live, do you realistically have a good chance of finding at least a similarly good mother for your kids in the near future? This might be the closest thing you will ever encounter to a real-life unicorn.

Plus, keep in mind that with a history like yours, it is very likely for the depression to come back when something hits you in the face. Do you think you are ready to actually do that alone? People in this sub seem to have a very shallow understanding of chronic depression.

Kkiy0M · 2019-11-13T18:42:30+00:00

Look at all she did you for you. There is no way you can guarantee that the next girl who comes along will even do half of that. That is very, very rare. True love isn’t as expedient as looks and lust. It’s much deeper, and that is what is fulfils a marriage. Even then, looks fade. The next woman, will also sooner or later hit the wall. A lot of men, even in this sub, are unhappily resigned to bangin 9’s and 10’s all the while hanging onto a glimmer of hope that they might one day come across a woman with strong morals they can have a family and kids with. They’d change their position for yours in a heartbeat.

If you choose to leave her and get with someone else, you may very well heavily regret that decision in the future, perhaps when the next girls looks also fade, or when you find no one as down for you as her, or if she divorces you and claims all your money..And there are no do-overs in life.

And how would you know? As you say, your SMV is high now, there’s no struggle or test you could subject another girl to in order to determine whether she’d take advantage of you later on or not. My advice? Finding a worthy woman to spend life with is rare nowadays, stick with the woman by your side. The grass is not always greener on the other side, you can find out the easy way or the hard way. You could wake up in 10 years, regretful of your insatiable lust, and be willing to trade the most beautiful face and body for the loyalty in her heart, the heart of a dedicated, dutiful and reliable wife, but be unable to do so.

Andrew54321 · 2019-11-13T18:59:41+00:00

Stop. Right. There.

The question you should be asking is will this woman make a good mother? Will you and her make good parents?

This determines whether or not you marry.

If possible, impregnate but not marry but from the sounds of it you don’t have the frame to pull this off.

319Skew · 2019-11-13T20:07:50+00:00

TRP is not a place to find morality and I'll adhere to that.

Don't marry her. You mention every reason to stay other than attraction. That's important. I feel like you are trying to rationalize your decision based on the "she stood by you" and while that's honorable it's not enough.

I'm talking from experience here but it just hurts that much more when hypergamy kicks in and she realizes that she can dictate your life due to matrimonial obligations or having a kid.

Maybe it's different in other places in the world but we're not talking about women back in the 20s but women who are bombarded with social media, globalization and feminism.

Marriage is Red pill on hard mode.

Wish you luck on your decision.

hakoonamatata9 · 2019-11-14T01:09:28+00:00

I've seen somany posts shitting on women for monkey branching and dumping the guy who helped them through difficult times just so she can go find someone better/richer.

You are no better than them. Not saying you should have married her, but I hope you understand you are no different than a monkey branching gold digger. I.e. selfish, naive and immature.

Rkingpin · 2019-11-13T16:20:08+00:00

Dont ask internet guys for help making a life-changing decision.

All that must be said is do the math. Ask yourself if you will truly be happy settling with this woman for the rest of your life?

Or will you continue to wonder if the grass is greener on the other side?

Marrying a woman below your SMV is a good way to make sure the relationship stays relatively stable, however guys like us rarely settle for less

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-11-13T13:41:08+00:00

You don’t owe her anything. If you don’t want to marry her then don’t. I’d consider it though

RedSkeller · 2019-11-13T14:17:16+00:00

Writing is on the wall so to speak. She knows she's in decline and you're on the rise, time to latch on and ride it out. You need to decide if you want to do this, and if you have even the slightest pit in your stomach about it then you know it's a bad idea.

McVaghunter · 2019-11-13T14:25:55+00:00

She provided you with pussy back when you had none, the only thing you owe her is some dick whenever she's feening it. Nothing more.

Your morals are just chemical reactions in your brain.

Jaganshi93 · 2019-11-13T15:34:49+00:00

Too old. Fuck her and thats it

strainer123 · 2019-11-13T16:09:14+00:00

Man thats a tough one, she's been by your side all these years, supported you, on the moral side of it, you owe her, but you can't be forced to marry someone you don't want to, you don't see yourself getting her pregnant? If you don't, you need to be honest with her, its going to crush this poor woman, you might find someone close to your SMV, and she might be a cheating bitch, what I find amazing here is that she's a 5.5 while you're an 8-9, and she's DEMANDING you marry her, thats ludicrous, maybe her ego is pretty inflated too.

damaged_goods420 · 2019-11-13T16:18:14+00:00

At the very least you owe her your respect as far as I see it. That doesn't mean you're forced to stay with her, as that would be silly if you're absolutely not going to be happy and it would have an impact on your life.

I believe I can do much better, and I love her, I am not in love with her, but I truly love her.

Honestly mate, it sounds like you know what you have to do. It sucks, best of luck.

Snowaey · 2019-11-13T16:30:58+00:00

Bro, youre approaching your PRIME, if you dont love the girl, you shouldnt feel pressured to marry her even though you might feel like shit for it, trust me, you will thank yourself later.

You only have one life to live brother, don't waste your prime years on something you dont feel comfortable with.

MajorMid · 2019-11-13T17:25:33+00:00

Read this post the other way around. You and the entire sub would be going crazy about branch swinging and hypergamy. That's what you are doing right now

SpinPlates · 2019-11-13T21:24:30+00:00

Spend your life with her and raise a family together.

But never sign a contract.

2019-11-13T22:54:39+00:00

Don't. She will never be yours it's just your turn😎

2019-11-13T22:59:08+00:00

If you were a virgin before marriage, don't marry a roastie.it will be on hell on earth for you I promise

__TheDon__ · 2019-11-13T23:09:14+00:00

Who has the original post?

Zanford · 2019-11-14T04:18:56+00:00

No need to break up. You could just explain that you want to stay together but not be married on paper. Up to you what reasons you give (you could explicitly bring up alimony / divorce rape etc., or not), and he can take it or leave it.

tyronethejabrone · 2019-11-14T19:36:12+00:00

(In response to updates)

And that’s the waaaaaaayyy it goes

OfficerWade · 2019-11-13T15:23:25+00:00

Dude if she fits in your life, when you were nothing with nobody it would be a sin if you didn’t reach out to her with your job and career.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-11-13T16:59:49+00:00

I broke up with an LTR of 5 years because she wanted to get married and I didn't. She's not married yet but she's with someone who's better aligned with her. She always loved traveling and never being home and I'm the opposite so at least now we're both happier and we're both with people who are better suited for us.

In my current LTR, while I was vetting and plating, I told her that I didn't want to get married and she chose to become exclusive with me anyway.

With that said, I would have an honest talk with your LTR and tell her that you don't want to get married. It should be a "It's not you, it's me" angle. Tell her that she deserves to be married and be with someone who wants to be married with her. By ending the relationship you're giving her the time and energy to go and find what she wants and likewise for yourself, you can focus more on your career or find someone better aligned with you.

Also, I do believe that if the tables were turned and a man was the one who was supporting his LTR for years and helping her rise up, she would only feel guilty for a second before dumping him for someone better. It sucks that men are the romantic ones and we have a much louder conscious.

shouldergirdle · 2019-11-13T15:49:19+00:00

Exact same thing happened to me 30 years ago. I was low SMV beta, she was a 5 SMV. I was just starting my career and she was aging out. She really wanted to get married, so we did. Overall she was a good woman, a good wife and a good mother. We have had a good life together. My SMV continued to rise, hers plunged. If I were to do it over again this is what I would do:

Don't get her pregnant!!!!
Don't get married!!!!!!!!!
Keep improving your SMV and wealth. Spin plates until age 45. Then, if you want to settle down find a 24yr old at that time.

All men have a strong sense of loyalty and appreciation. She has treated you well and your loyalty is kicking in and you want to reward her for sticking by you when you were nothing. But, it's a trap. Don't fall for it. Break up with her. Do it quickly, like ripping off a bandaide. It will hurt but you will get over it. This is your only life. To achieve happiness you MUST live for yourself. Living for others WILL make you miserable.

abomba24 · 2019-11-13T16:00:11+00:00

Rough as this is, you are caring too much about her feelings and not prioritizing your own. She saw the potential in you and got behind it, even if you didn't. She thinks she's owed something. No.

It's your life. No "trying to make her dump you" - you make the decision. This sounds easy to me that you clearly are not that into her. Given your history, the most that you might owe her is describing that you're heart is not in this rather than just ghosting or something.

Serniebanders69 · 2019-11-14T22:05:42+00:00

Yeah, don't marry her she deserves a real man. Not a weak ass cuck who can't even stay committed to a good girl.

conk2000 · 2019-11-13T16:34:23+00:00

All I am gonna say is that a modern marriage license is a contract between three parties: man, woman, state. And the state is biased to side with the woman.

dubznwobz · 2019-11-13T16:34:28+00:00

She doesn't love you how you love her.

6times666 · 2019-11-13T16:54:40+00:00

Don’t get married man. Become established in your career and you’ll have your pick of women trust me.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-11-13T16:55:23+00:00

It sounds like you're letting guilt dictate your life.

Don't let guilt dictate your life.

lolomotif12 · 2019-11-13T16:58:47+00:00

It sounds to me like you are in love with what she has done for you which is; been loyal and supportive. You now know you can do better looks wise even thou looks are not permanent remember that her looks will only get worse with time. So if you find her a sub 5 now think of what you will think of her in 10 years time. You will need to wake up next to this person for the rest of your life and marriage is a big commitment and a risky business. Dont get into a risky business if you're not confident in the business. You owe her nothing. The fact that you need to make a post like this about her wanting to marry you proves you have doubts. Dont do it. Be honest to her and move on.

PurpleRose328 · 2019-11-13T17:19:03+00:00

Looks can be a major factor especially when it comes to attraction but it seems to me like there are other stuff going on with you hence the hesitation. I truly believe that you have something you need to figure out in yourself first before dealing with this. Because once you've faced whatever it is, I'm sure you'll find the answer you're looking for.

I apologize if it's vague but a lot of people already gave advices about this and I don't want to tell you to do something I don't know the full details of. And besides, just like what others said, this is a major decision. Only you can figure out what you should do because you're the only one who can own up the consequences of whatever action you'll take.

markar_3 · 2019-11-13T17:29:11+00:00

I dont need to read the long story... If you re not ready dont do it.... if you feel like you might never get a chance with another woman then this is also a wrong reason... This is a commitment to yourself not to her... You owe her gratitude but not you future

sstidman · 2019-11-13T17:33:16+00:00

It's you really care about her then you need to look at this from her perspective....is it a good idea for her to marry someone who is not in love with her and spends the rest of his life wishing he was with someone else? If you truly care about her then you have to let her go. I think you are worried too much about hurting her feelings in the short term but not really thinking about how much you will hurt her in the long term by marrying her.

ng07977 · 2019-11-13T17:49:06+00:00

I don't know what's wrong with some of the posters here saying you don't owe her "anything" - does your definition of masculinity preclude you from expressing gratitude? She believed in you when you and built you up when you didn't believe in yourself. That should mean something to a healthy human. I agree with the comments that say you owe her honesty for sure.

To be totally honest with her, you need to weigh up what you want out of life and see where she fits. If you want to bang 8's and 9's then it's not going to work out. If you want to marry and have kids with someone worships you, it sounds like you've got that.

EraseUnaVez · 2019-11-13T18:12:12+00:00

Getting some gender swap shenanigans vibes here, mostly because that's something a woman would do, on the other hand if this is true, just the way you wrote it, damn man, that's some shitty thinking.

fartt123 · 2019-11-13T18:16:54+00:00

why do you have to marry her unless you believe in religion? you could have children. you could give her a ring but explain that you can't marry her cause that would be destructive to you and your finances. Now if you do decide talk on it don't back pedal on your words, figure out what you want and stick to it. dont go off course!

rockyp32 · 2019-11-13T18:17:03+00:00

Could u upgrade her SMV? U said she had a great face if u motivate her to get in great shape and build up her booty that might satisfy what ur looking for. Also another thing to consider is youll both be wrinkly old and ugly eventually

HB3234 · 2019-11-13T18:25:24+00:00

Keep the girl with a heart of gold. Get her some cosmetology classes and a personal trainer, most 9s and 10s are 5s with a good hairdresser and a vanity full of makeup.

pdiggs1500 · 2019-11-13T18:27:04+00:00

Tough call mate. If the sexes were reversed, this would be on a MGTOW post, saying AWALT.

2019-11-13T18:41:22+00:00

Sounds like an awesome woman. Would make a great mom, and you two would have rad children.

Definitely honesty is the best policy.

In the perfect world, I would shoot for having a multiwoman relationship, where this is your primary girl who heads the household, and does most of the direction for child rearing, and you have some other attractive wives and girlfriends.

MeansToABenz · 2019-11-13T19:38:46+00:00

I say do it. It sounds like you have already made up your mind.

Spaghetti1776 · 2019-11-13T19:46:12+00:00

Gonna end in divorce if your value is that much higher than hers and you’re already aware you aren’t in love with her.

At the same time though, leaving a good girl will probably scar you. There’s a few girls I’ve broken up with that I still think of at least once a week. Ultimately you have to do what you think will be best for you and your potential family in the long term,

SoulRebel99 · 2019-11-13T20:26:46+00:00

Epiphany Phase. If you wont, it likely could end the relationship.

RileysRevenge · 2019-11-13T20:47:18+00:00

I just want to say for anyone reading this post, if you’re going to be in a LTR, be honest from the start about your intensions. Cheating is a shitty thing to do, male or female. Let’s be adults and be honest about our desires from the beginning. Tell your significant other that you like the idea of an LTR but that the idea of monogamy is unrealistic at best. The amount of cheating that people do is insane, immoral, dishonest, and ultimately weak and beta AF.

Alphas stick to their word and don’t compromise their morals. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Hold yourself accountable and live your life accordingly. Don’t lie, deceive, cheat, or steal. Real men don’t do those things.

Also as I said before, IF you decide to marry, have a lawyer write a prenup and have her lawyer and yours present when signing. Make sure it’s water-tight.

LilLoserFreny · 2019-11-13T21:17:51+00:00

With all due respect I would tell her to fuck off. She clearly doesn’t care about you much if she wants you to get married to her in this day and age.

DinduNuffin33 · 2019-11-13T21:18:46+00:00

Mate she's been with you always at your worst, and even that now you consider yourself "better" than her, I'd say forget the numbers and all that shit. This is a woman that was with you always and its only natural she maybe if feeling more insecure now that you've achieved more and wants to settle and get married. If you love this woman then go ahead and do what you feel is best. Do not make your decision based on advice on reddit from people who can't fully understand the context. Forget the outer looks and look whether this is a person you'd wanna make a family with. You're a 9 now but you will get older as will she, you might leave her to fuck around with hotter chicks but don't forget that these hotter chicks wouldn't even look at you when you were at your lowest. Trust your gut feeling.

rejjiesnortssnow · 2019-11-13T21:42:06+00:00

You either have to marry her or leave her, otherwise you are potentially jeprodisring her fertility. And i wouldn’t marry her if you were already having second thoughts. Also bare in mind grass is always greener, you might back yourself but when you go back to being single after so long you may not like it, and want to go back to her. Basically either shit or get off the bog.

redrocketred9 · 2019-11-13T21:48:30+00:00

Do what you want just remember this, it's your fault if she leaves you/cheats on you, ect.

Women aren't like men, they will mold to a man's image/frame if she thinks hes an "alpha". Good girls becomes dirty sluts, sluts will pretend to be the sweetest girl in the world if that's what it takes to get with an alpha. She's on her best behaviour if you slip up with her she's going to be your 6/10 nightmare wife with your kids just like it would be with any other girl.

If I where you I'd get more practice/frame and mold a hot bitch to wife up. That's just me tho

And unicorns don't exist, get that through your skull guys. Good luck bro

GGrub8 · 2019-11-13T22:14:28+00:00

You don't need a marriage contract to live a life with her and she doesn't need it either.

If she values that contract above you as a person, above your love, then she's starting to show her true colors, especially now that the wall is approaching.

Put your foot down and refuse to marry her. If your commitment isn't enough and she leaves you then you'll be better off without her.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2019-11-13T22:15:24+00:00

The TRUE test of a woman is what happen when you are down - she honestly sounds like a keeper - think about it - There are more important things than looks and loyalty IS one of them - she is better than a better looking girl with less of a connection

Emery82 · 2019-11-13T22:50:02+00:00

Dude if youre having doubts now, you will definitely regret it later.

Haytch1234 · 2019-11-14T07:39:43+00:00

Stay with her. Fuck girls on the side. You have leverage. Use it. She benefits by your status and stable income.

Pristine_Sheepherder · 2019-11-14T10:57:02+00:00

Anyone have a copy of the thread before OP edited and the top comments got deleted?

max_peenor · 2019-11-14T16:27:24+00:00

How often do you fuck?

ArnoldT1000 · 2019-11-15T00:22:33+00:00

In response to the update:

Yep, exactly. Too many of this fuckers in the replies have a scarcity mindset. Your way or the highway.

It’s actually scary how many dudes question the theory in face of a unicorn. The game doesn’t change.

NickA97 · 2019-11-18T07:38:38+00:00

I lived for a few months in a town one hour away from Rio.

People do have lots of casual sex in Colombia, but the culture is much more openly conservative, so it still is frowned upon. You're right though, your status over here would be stratospheric just based on your nationality. I find that a bit silly, but hey, you'd be my competition so I have my reasons haha. Plus you're something new to them, and if I saw a Ukranian volleyball player walking around I'd feel some tingling around my netherparts as well lol.

You should definitely come bro, it's male heaven over here. I wouldn't trade Latinas for anything.

ViolentInteger · 2019-11-13T15:43:45+00:00

I didn't bother reading most of this post, because the details don't matter. What does matter are these two points:

Marriage is horse shit.
You should never do anything only because someone else wants you to.

I also spotted these gems in your text:

she is 5.5 who is approaching the wall [...] I believe I can do much better [...] Last year I tried to make her dump me

Sounds like she's not even LTR material, but you're too much of a pussy to end it.

Start reading and mastering the sidebar. You have a LOT to learn about the basics...

JoJ42 · 2019-11-13T20:32:29+00:00

you are a disgusting human being, you belive you are a 8 but your personality and your mind is a ZERO

throwaway26180081 · 2019-11-13T14:54:07+00:00

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Throw-Me-Away-112 · 2019-11-13T17:17:23+00:00

i seriously hate when people post then fuck off and never comment. Dude its simple. obviously shes a great person and you dont want to marry her.

honesty goes a long way and you should honestly tell her. say "hey im not feeling so into you anymore. i know we have been really great together. you are an amazing friend (say best if you want extra points) and id like for us to keep being friends for the rest of our lives. i know itll be hard but im committed to keeping things peaceful and continuing our awesome relationship as friends."

break up with her, stay friends, fuck occasionally. 👍

2019-11-13T23:41:18+00:00

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damaged_goods420 · 2019-11-14T02:08:05+00:00

You did what you had to do.

dalia-chan · 2019-11-14T03:55:36+00:00

Thank you so much!!! 😊 When I was 19 I dumped my boyfriend cause he was a broke student who asked me to believe in him, for a richer man who’s now spoiling me. Your post confirmed that I did the right choice by not giving my prime years to this looser and cheering him up, since he will turn out to be an I grateful jerk like most beta men. Now who’s the hypergamous? Lmao

MrRoxo · 2019-11-13T16:32:20+00:00

Lmao posts here are become more and more ridiculous by the day.

This is copy pasta material

throwaway26180081 · 2019-11-13T22:30:22+00:00

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