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So this showed up on my FB feed. In spite of the fact that she's already ruined the guy's reputation, and the fact that he's pursuing a counter-suit against the school for defamation, Sulkowicz will not let up.

When they say you can't win an argument against a woman, it's because you're arguing on completely different playing fields. Your argument may be driven by logic but hers will 9/10 times be driven by her emotional state. For that reason one should never argue and be reactive, but make statements and be proactive.

Because women define their reality by their emotional state.

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[–]zpatriarchy181 points182 points  (80 children) | Copy

the best part is that she doesn't realize how her future will be defined by this stupid stunt. any company would be out of it's mind to hire her & any man would have to be the most desperate white knight to date her. at least she won't be getting any more attention after this week.

her 15 minutes are over!

[–]ChairBorneMGTOW209 points210 points  (57 children) | Copy

I'd say she's got a bright career ahead of her in the exciting field of social-justice extortion.

[–]TwentyYearsAgo 302 points302 points [recovered] | Copy

Maybe Reddit has found its new CEO?

[–]DrakeSaint45 points46 points  (17 children) | Copy

More realistically, I'd expect in a few months an announcement to the newest TwoXChromossomes mod.

[–]ModMachiavellianRed[M] 24 points25 points  (12 children) | Copy

No linking to other subs.

Edit: you edited the link out of your post, so I've re-approved it.

[–]HahahahaWaitWhat8 points9 points  (10 children) | Copy

Is NP linking still allowed?

[–]ModMachiavellianRed[M] 6 points7 points  (8 children) | Copy

No linking to other subreddits in any form is allowed.

[–]csehszlovakze1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

How about the /r/ notation? Is that also disallowed? If so then the bot should be updated because that one can be commented w/o any problems.

[–]ModMachiavellianRed[M] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Try it now, I should have patched the loophole.

[–]HahahahaWaitWhat0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

OK, good to know. Is this a recent thing? It'd seem to explain why the front page of this sub isn't full of those worthless "check out this mangina on another subreddit" posts anymore, which is pretty nice.

[–]ModMachiavellianRed2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

OK, good to know. Is this a recent thing

Nah. Has been that way for a LONG time.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think so, as I haven't seen it in a long time.

[–]BIG_TITTY_BUTTHOLE4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Wait, are we automatically banned from there for subscribing to TRP?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nope. I comment all the time. May change one days

[–]BigDiggerNick742 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

From what I've seen TwoX isn't as much of a SJW hugbox anymore since it became a default and let some roosters into the henhouse.

TrollX on the other hand... You'll be banned before you even hit the submit button.

[–]chickenbuttenders1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

what is trollx supposed to be?

[–]sternje9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ooh, take that Ms. Ellen Pao. You hear the voices of your audience yet? We don't like your ways.

[–]Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe the CEO should have taken a page from Mattress Girl's playbook and started carrying around a table with a seating arrangement taped to it.

[–]WillWorkForLTC19 points20 points  (22 children) | Copy

Annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd you're shadowbanned. Burn of the year though and totally worth it right!? Annnnnnnnnnnd now I'm joining you. Great. Totally worth it too!

[–]TwentyYearsAgo 17 points17 points [recovered] | Copy

It's ok, this is my new account after getting shadowbanned last week.

They said they'd unban me if I promised to behave, fuck that.

[–]2CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK5 points6 points  (14 children) | Copy

What were you shadowbanned for? I made this account as Im worried about my 5 year old one getting shadowbanned - need to back up many of the comments I wrote before that happens.

[–]morsX28 points29 points  (12 children) | Copy

Who gives a fuck about getting shadowbanned from any of the countless retard filled subreddits. Prevents you from wasting your own time really.

I should also add that I would not give a single fuck if this account was shadow banned. I am not tied to this digital data in the least.

[–]2CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK31 points32 points  (2 children) | Copy

Shadowbanned is universal, not relevant to any one sub. If ever you click on somebodies name and get told that the sub doesnt exist then that person was shadowbanned.

You can be shadowbanned for mentioning that the CEOs husband has scammed people out of $140M.

[–]RRIAFC7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, you can be shadowbanned from a specific sub. There's a post on modhelp about it. Plus I just got shadowbanned from /r/relationships yesterday for daring to give non-feminist advice (broke GF was rude about a furniture gift from OPs mom, entire thread was ridiculous).

[–]bluedrygrass0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shadowbans are universal? That's madness!

[–]2CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK39 points40 points  (1 child) | Copy

A shadowban is across all subreddits and is done by the admins, not forum mods.

You can be shadowbanned for things like mentioning that the CEOs husband stole $140million

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hmmm, here goes. Ellen Pao can stand in line and kiss my ass

[–]mericastradamus0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Are you butt hurt about getting banned from a retard subreddit where you have previously wasted time?

[–]RRIAFC3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Most subs I agree, but /r/relationships sees men posting every day looking for advice. Someone who isn't a man-hating feminist cunt should give them honest advice.

[–]netherlanddwarf1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

i'm sorry i'm laughing hard at this whole conversation :/

[–]morsX0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Not even a little my scared little friend.

[–]WillWorkForLTC-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

You don't know how much respect I have for you right now man :-)

[–]ioncehadsexinapool0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

wait wait why did he get shadowbanned?

[–]Doulich-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

Neither of you are shadow banned what exactly are you smoking?

[–]through_a_ways0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's such a perfect fit in so many different ways, it's amazing.

[–]scramtek38 points39 points  (4 children) | Copy

Exactly. She could talk nonsense on YouTube and there'd be a million tumblerinas rushing to subscribe.

[–]Endorsed Contributorzyk0s26 points27 points  (3 children) | Copy

Not sure if that would generate enough revenue. More than likely, she'll end up as a writer for one of the thousand female navel-gazing online publications.

[–]2rp_valiant12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

BuzzFeed debut: "15 Campus Laws that Encourage Rape Culture - you won't believe number 3!"

[–]nrjk3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oooo, I hope she gets a Kickstarter or a HoFundMe going.

[–]king-schultz28 points29 points  (2 children) | Copy

You couldn't be more wrong. She's the poster child for feminist. She's already got several offers from women groups & blogs. She's going to make a ton of money from this.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

Only a woman can lie about rape and be rewarded for it

[–]screamingATtrees0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We should accuse every woman of rape from now on so they see how stupid it is.

[–][deleted] 39 points40 points  (3 children) | Copy

That White Knight will be there. You can count on that.

[–]D_Man_Loves_You27 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy

lol, good call. I was that guy once. (Unknowingly). Got into a LTR in college (almost 2 years) and 3 months in (About the time I was getting tired of this girl) she takes me on this weird 'special talk' - says she'd been 'sexually assaulted' by a member of the football team before we met. Felt this big need to 'take care of her' or something... (I stayed with her, but didn't take it serious. Cheated on her a bunch. oops.)

Then later down the road I'm talking with her ex-best friend - Tells me that 6 months before I got together with this girl that she was engaged to this guy from her hometown, it got broken off, and she then proceeded to actively bang as many football players at our school as she could. At some point (whatever arbitrary number of cocks in her mouth felt dirty, 15? 25? 40?) she felt she needed to concoct a scenario that played out at a party where she got gang raped and reported it to the University Police. I confronted her and she more or less confirmed it in a fit of babbling hysterics.

I got the full low-down from a buddy I went to HS with who was now University Police. Obviously nothing ever came of it because as soon as the school looked into it, nothing added up. But at the same time, she was protected against recourse because she wasn't entirely making the story up - she had had a train run on her, so witnesses at the party verified that sexual activity was going in one of the rooms.

The only aspect in question was what was going on in her mind. And of course, she knew that and used it later as a tool against 3 innocent dudes (and by-proxy me too), in place of her own shame. She even was involved with campus advocacy groups, organized Take-Back-the-Night events, and everything... Adopted the whole identity. I felt so disgusted. Obviously ended it with her.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel you. They all make up stories - big and small. The girl I lost my virginity to flat out denied it to all her friends and ran my name through the mud. I didn't do anything because it easy worth the trouble. Years later her friend asked me if it happened and I told her yeah. She said, "I knew it all along."

[–]2CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

ex-best friend

If ever you really want a girls history you should scope out the ex-BFF

[–]busyalterego29 points30 points  (1 child) | Copy

Come on, she clearly has a tenured professorship ahead of her in some women's studies department.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here's hoping she props the mattress up in her classroom

[–]SW98767 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Not hiring her makes you a sexist. Nobody can refuse her

[–]screamingATtrees0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just have a woman fire her.

[–]Sks4424 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

I bet Gawker hires her to write as soon as she graduates.

[–]TheRealMouseRat6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

You'd be surprised, Ellen Pao is CEO of Reddit...

[–]Redpillc0re2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, sadly. That mattress of hers? it's her 'art project'. dont be surprised if she sells it for $$ millions

[–]Florist_Gump5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is a visual arts major and the mattress-carrying stunt was actually a performance art project as a senior thesis ("you can major in Game Boy if you know how to bullshit"). After graduation she'll likely end up working for some NY art gallery where any press is good press, she'll be kept on for nothing but the publicity of this college stunt and nothing to do with whatever "skill" she possesses in visual arts.

Oh, she'll fall off the national radar soon enough outside of followups on her accusers lawsuit against Columbia which will eventually land him a 6 figure settlement. After the school allowed her to bring the mattress up on stage during graduation even after the lawsuit was filed, those 6 figures might well balloon into 7.

[–]energyinmotion0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Seriously. You stole what I was going to say. Good job bud. Lol.

[–]tehwankingwalruses0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

any man would have to be the most desperate white knight to date her.

Like the dude who helped her get it onto the platform during the graduation?

[–]zpatriarchy0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

how long until that guy gets falsely accused?

[–]tehwankingwalruses0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I guess it depends if he puts it in her butt or not, and which way the wind is blowing that day.

[–]zpatriarchy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

flat chested girls usually have to work harder, so she'll be doing anal with him soon if she hasn't already.

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (5 children) | Copy

There's a few things that really bother me about what was written in this article:

  1. The article points out that the girl said the guy she claimed raped her was drunk...........but wait a minute I thought one could not consent to sex when they were drunk? Was she drunk? If not, wouldn't that mean that she actually raped him?

  2. A ton of those texts where she shows affection towards the guy, all took place AFTER she claims the rape occurred. The article did mention that rape advocates claim that rape victims often act in ways towards their rapist that may seem irrational to observers. My response to this is why should I believe what they say? There are environmental activists too, yet I don't believe a word they say. If I want information about something I'll go to experts/scientists/researchers, not people who are advocates/activists and have an agenda. The woman's behavior goes against all common sense, so it seems to me the burden of proof is on the people to demonstrate that her behavior is common among rape victims.

  3. She got multiple awards from feminist/woman's groups even though she has no evidence at all to support anything she says. The only evidence she has is both of the people (her and the accused guy) say that they did have sex with each other. That's it.

So really, women now are getting awards from feminist/women organizations even when they're famous for making empirical claims that have little to no evidence at all? This attitude goes against innocent until proven guilty which is the backbone of our justice system.

I'm not so bold to say that she is lying about this and she's a false rape accuser. I'm open minded to this being a case of legitimate rape, however the point is that I'm also not going to jump on the bandwagon of just assuming she's telling the truth either. If anything, if I was forced to pick between the two I'd have to side with the guy on this and say this is a case of false rape. The text messaging is really too extraordinary for me to believe that a person would treat a rapist like that after a rape occurred. Her behavior just flies directly in the face of common sense, it's really hard for me to believe that she'd behave that way towards him (saying she loves him, she wants to hang out with him, snuggle with him, etc, etc) after the rape took place.

[–]1independentmale26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

rape advocates claim that rape victims often act in ways towards their rapist that may seem irrational to observers

Of course they do. When their stories don't add up, they make up more nonsense to explain it away.

Listen, there is nothing magical about being raped that causes victims to behave irrationally. Rape victims don't text their rapists cutesie shit about missing them and wanting to hang out. Little girls pretending to be raped for attention and/or vengeance do.

[–]RRIAFC10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

Rape culture hysterics, having no rational basis for their position, have to claim that almost literally everything is normal behavior after a rape. I seriously read the other day that a woman changing her story several times is indicative of her being a rape victim. How fucking convenient that one of the hallmarks of lying is supposedly a trait of rape victims.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Holy fuck dude. They'll say fucking anything and these dumb fucks believe it.

[–]RRIAFC2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Listen and believe," shitlord.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

We all know they don't REALLY believe women are somehow ABOVE lying. Like they're too fucking holy to lie. That's actually backward ass thinking by their standards.

[–]Flareprime41 points42 points  (21 children) | Copy

Video of her graduation walk

Its sickening to hear all those people cheering for her.

[–]wllm482191 points92 points  (13 children) | Copy

Of course she has blue hair.

[–]MHOOD0148 points49 points  (7 children) | Copy

Peacocking. She wants people to give her a psychotic amount of attention.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan30 points31 points  (6 children) | Copy

[–]1User-31f64a4e15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

Absolutely! This stuff ... http://i.imgur.com/Qd80h3r.jpg

EDIT: Or if you prefer your humor in video form, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P0KjFOs-cRI

[–]trp_angry_dwarf1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I just choked on my coffee.

Especially because noise is also in the definition, as well as frightening, ugly colours.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy shit thats disgusting.

[–]2CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

FFS man put a NSFL tag on that

[–]trp_angry_dwarf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Edit: replied in wrong section.

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Too good.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I was about to comment on the exact same thing.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's what the upvote button is for.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I wasn't going to comment on the exact same thing.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ironically she didn't even carry the mattress up on her own, she had other people help her.

[–]Leviticus599 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

...and she got three other stupid bitches to help her tote that mattress across the stage.

[–]pcadrian 28 points28 points [recovered] | Copy

She does not have the facial expressions of a real rape victim. Just enjoys being showered with attention.

[–]redwolfman1-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yo dawg the way you wrote this makes you sound like you have experience with rape victims.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's got a slight limp, I guess she partied to hard last night with Chad T. and his bros

[–]RPthrowaway12327 points28 points  (5 children) | Copy

But feelz come before realz, so if she keeps this up she can eventually redefine her reality to the one that makes her feel good.

[–]SprTpSecret17 points18 points  (4 children) | Copy

she can eventually redefine her reality to the one that makes her feel good.

i.e, the one where she was raped.

[–]RPthrowaway12338 points39 points  (3 children) | Copy

Oh the irony. She really wants to redefine reality to a world where she was left emotionally broken by sexual assault? Who would want that?

...oh wait, I know, someone WHO WASN'T RAPED BUT LOVES THE ATTENTION.

These stories piss me off so bad sometimes.

[–]Endorsed Contributorzyk0s13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Keep in mind that it's very likely she was left emotionally broken by the dude she accused. It's just that he didn't break the law, she just happens to be clinically insane. If that's the case, it's better for her to live in a reality where she's a victim of pretty much everybody, instead of one where she is a victim of herself.

[–]tompanz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's assuming she wasn't already emotionally broken.

[–]through_a_ways1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh the irony. She really wants to redefine reality to a world where she was left emotionally broken by sexual assault? Who would want that?

...oh wait, I know, someone WHO WASN"T RAPED BUT LOVES THE ATTENTION.

Or someone who's too ugly to be raped, and desires for it to be plausible.

This girl is definitely not a looker, and it wouldn't surprise me if that's at least partially behind this.

[–]malthuswaswrong13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

I've always been envious of people who got to go to an ivy league university, but after reading those text messages I think I got a superior education from community college.

[–]Larrea_tridentata6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

To be fair... It's Columbia. They're a special case among the Ivies. I went to UPenn, students did not create attention-whoring situations like this... We had plenty of work to do.

[–]1independentmale0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shit, my first grader writes better than that bitch.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

This bitch is crazy.

Came here to day this. Sick of hearing about this delusional piece of filth. Dumbass can't accept responsibility for her actions.

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[–]tallwheel4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You didn't consent to that. It's awfully rapey.

[–][deleted] 40 points41 points  (3 children) | Copy

My ex once told me that she hates logic and doesn't understand why it is so important to men.

[–]Bwhitty238 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

That must have been a really bad time for you.

[–]1RPAlternate42133 points134 points  (12 children) | Copy

TL;DR: You can't, and shouldn't try to spin broken plates: it doesn't work and you end up getting hurt in the process.

From the Defamation Suit Filed By Nungesser

  • They were friends
  • Sulkowicz asked Nungesser to talk to one of her AFs ("John Doe," Nungesser's friend) about wearing condoms with other girls.
  • Nengesser (her BB) apparently had complied and told her that the AFs attitude was basically, whatever bro.
  • She begins latching on to Nungesser.
  • Nungesser, being the BB he is, continues to try to white knight her after she divulges that she was "raped" in high school (I can't find anything on this allegation.)
  • Sulkowicz tells him, via text, to "fuck [me] in the butt. Nungesser seems to deflect this offer.
  • Nungesser, BB'd his way into "Platonic Sleepovers" that progressed, into sex.
  • On the second of second platonic-to-sex encounters, she asks for anal again.
  • They, then, had anal sex as foreplay and progressed to regular sex.
  • Sulkowicz denies offering anal sex to Nungesser.
  • Nungesser lives abroad for the summer. Sulkowicz tells him, via FB Messenger, that she got an STD from a threeway with the aforementioned "John Doe" and his friend "Joe."
  • Sulkowicz clkaims the following to Nungesser: ""i ’ye officially had sex with all of John Doe’ best friends. . . - did lotsa drugs jk just got very drunk - well anyways - now i have an std i actually hate John Doe like if a girl is about to puke - don’t put your unprotected dick into her. . . I really don’t want to be known as the girl who contracted an std because she was drunk you know? it is more his fault for fucking me unconscious - i mean i was conscious but clearly not in my right mind. . . i was literally blackout. . . like i puked all over the place."
  • Nungesser breaks out his WK armor and invites her to Berlin to "talk about it."
  • Sulkowicz declines, apparently, and for 4 months sends messages in various ways about how much she loves him and misses him and is getting extra clingy. The messages continued to October as well.
  • Nungesser tells Sulkowicz about a girl he's seeing in Berlin.
  • Nungesser returns to Columbia and he and Sulkowicz again have anal, vaginal, and oral sex.
  • Two days later Nungesser invites Sulkowicz to an Alpha Delta Phi party. She arrives, but they don't see each other.
  • The next day he invivtes her over for "Part II" of the party.
  • She say she was there (at part I.)
  • She continues sending the messages of love and etc. He doesn't reciprocate and shows interest in dating other women.
  • With her unrequited feelings sinking in, she gets angry.
  • Sulkowicz files the rape charge.

General Notes and No-Shit Lessons

  1. Don't white knight rape victims or those claiming to have been raped. This is her frame and you are entering it. BTW, it's a very shaky, and poorly built frame that will collapse on you.
  2. Pay no attention to and avoid women who openly and without regard for common social practices, tell about the cock carousel they rode with your friends and then got an STD from said CC adventure.
  3. Save all of your text messages. Seriously. Back them up, make folders with a date/time stamp, and save them. The only thing saving Nungesser right now is the forensic electronic evidence.

What do we learn from this:

Sure, we can see she's clingly, and riding the CC hard (like really fucking hard) and she brags about it and talks about her STDs openly, etc... but this isn't the RP lesson here:

I'm guessing Nungesser's sex was slow and passionate or loving or some such variance, while sex with Thundercock 1 and 2 was hard, forceful, dominant, and for her, exciting.

Sulkowicz had sex with two men who she claims did it while she was unconscious, but awake, but like blacked out, but knew what was going on but then accuses the guy who clearly had consensual sex with her of rape; read that again: She accused the guy who didn't reciprocate her emotional state not the guy(s) who fucked her the way she clearly likes.

She never loved the Thundercock twins, she loved Nungesser who paid her the kind of attention that validated her beta-seeking feelings. When he stopped validating those feelings, instead of chasing down the guy(s) with whom she would have a more defensible case, she chases down the guy who hurt her feelings.

Moral of the story: Don't stick your dick in crazy.

Better moral: While you can and should spin plates, Remember that you are constantly vetting for the highest-value women with whom to keep company.

This is the defamation suit from Nungesser.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sulkowicz had sex with two men who she claims did it while she was unconscious, but awake, but like blacked out, but knew what was going on but then accuses the guy who clearly had consensual sex with her of rape; read that again: She accused the guy who didn't reciprocate her emotional state not the guy(s) who fucked her the way she clearly likes.

Thank you for writing about this. Its a very little commented on aspect of the case. I've run afoul of it myself, and tbh someone should do a thread.

[–]1RPAlternate422 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I might as well just repost my comment as a post.

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[–][deleted] 41 points42 points  (5 children) | Copy

Oh this is too good. She got actually raped, shrugged it off, then accused the guy she had consensual sex with of rape and claims it's scarring her.

I fuckin' love it.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy

She wasn't raped by AF, she was "ravished"

[–]1RPAlternate429 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Ravaged" is the word, I believe.

[–]Endorsed ContributoriBrokeRSA7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Cogent analysis. Spot on.

The old cliche goes that Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned but I'd say it's way worse when the rejection is done by a "sensitive beta" type.

[–]1RPAlternate422 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's like chum in the water

[–]TerriChris0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Great post. And I would add do not WK women who speak ill of their dad and previous boyfriend. This I learned the hard way. It is best to remain aloof - interested, but distant.

[–]2alisonstone86 points87 points  (3 children) | Copy

And she has to steal the spotlight from the rest of the graduating students. Some people worked hard to get into an Ivy League and to graduate. Some first generation parents sacrificed a lot to give their children the opportunity to go to top tier college, and this is their life dream coming true. And now they have to look at this ridiculous woman carrying a mattress.

[–]tompanz14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

I like how it's a tiny mattress. It looks like a children's one. She doesn't want to actually "bear the burden" of a real mattress.

[–]Heizenbrg6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

they should crucifix her on that sticky matress

[–]HS-Thompson70 points71 points  (1 child) | Copy

The reality is she made a false rape allegation and was rewarded with a seat at the State of The Union address. When we as a culture incentivize unfounded rape allegations in this way, we get more of them.

[–]tompanz15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shit, I forgot about that . Our world is so fucked.

[–]ethan-kahn24 points25 points  (3 children) | Copy

"Hey everybody! See this mattress? It is validation of my rapability. No, I wasn't raped, but I COULD have been..."

[–]through_a_ways8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is why so many high profile rape cases are below average or at best average looking women.

Logically, it would make far more sense for the most attractive women to be raped at higher rates.

[–]1aguy012 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Indeed, this is the same reason why the 5-7s are the sluttiest. They crave the validation of being hot, but then when they get it from the hot guys they aren't hot enough to keep the guys around, but they desperately want the validation so they keep doing the same thing over and over.

[–]1jb_trp83 points84 points  (6 children) | Copy

Sadly, today’s society allows feelings to trump facts—especially the feelings of a woman. Not only do the facebook messages Ms. Sulkowicz sent her accused do not support her claims, they actually contradict it: Making plans to come to a party of his (and bring freshman girls!) the day after the alleged rape, repeatedly telling him “I misssss youuuuu” and wanting to see him again, at one point writing “fuck me in the butt,” etc. It’s crazy that there are people who still believe her. But not surprising.

And why wouldn’t Ms. Sulkowicz keep up this charade? She’s been given all this attention and influence, even being invited to dinners with politicians for her “bravery.” It just makes me sick.

This is in a way an extreme illustration of Briffault’s Law: She slept with this guy multiple times and was his “friend.” But in the end she doesn’t give a shit about ruining his life and reputation for her own profit.

[–]HeinousFu_kery12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

Simple, really:

  • Women have a solopsist / relativist perspective: Everything relates to how I feel/think at the moment for whatever reason, and the world should suck it up and honor that. Because that's how I feel, of course.

  • Because of relativism, anything you make up - often as a result of social pressures and advertising - goes and is the reality of the moment. There is no social contract beyond this.

  • Because of the lack of social contract and its obligations, you never have to pay your own tab. It's always someone else's mess to clean up.

  • If you're caught out in an embarrassing situation as a result of your impulsive behavior or incapacity to think things through, claiming to be a victim is a good way to avoid being seen as responsible.

I was struck by a documentary I watched some years ago, made in a women's prison in the U.S.. When talking to the inmates, none of them - not one - took responsibility for being there. It was always someone else's fault; a lover, a husband, something. The men they interviewed had a percentage of liars/innocents, but most just sucked it up and said they did the crime.

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What documentary was this? I'd love to see it. TIA.

[–]HeinousFu_kery1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It was so long ago, I can't really remember. I don't watch a lot of TV so it may have been PBS (frontline(?)), but the interviews were striking.

[–]Rock-swarm18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's also telling that Nungesser himself described his mother as a feminist, and was raised with feminist values. Only someone deep in BP could put up with the constantly flaky behavior described in the dailybeast story. Gotta get that occasional orbiter sex opportunity!*

Accusations of rape free of charge.

[–]tompanz8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hopefully this experience was an eye opener.

[–]tompanz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They will just say some shit like "rape victims are often confused and blar blar blar". It's impossible to use logic to try to disprove a rape claim. Sometimes even when they take it back themselves the machine won't stop.

[–]Redpillc0re101 points102 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's not even about her delusion, it's because the entire world has bent over and pulled down its pants to empower her. The university itself is not only unable to stop her but is even rallying behind her despite the fact that he has repeatedly been cleared and has even sued the university over the breach of confidentiality.

She's just a crazy girl getting high on her own drama, probably no good at nothing else. makes you pity her

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I'm not surprised that people are backing her delusions, even after the kid has been proven non-guilty of the charges. People love to hop on the band wagon without being shown the facts. I feel for this kid, I'm glad he is speaking up and suing this shitty place and this dumb cunt. He will have a backing as well and it will overcome whatever the feminists and leftists throw at him.

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He has to win. The fact that this PROVEN FALSE rape accuser is allowed to carry a mattress like that, fuck outta here.

[–]whatyearisthisagain47 points48 points  (3 children) | Copy

That fucking face of hers. I swear I can tell how psycho they are by their face.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't use this word often, but that's one crazy cunt.

How does anyone justify lying about something then pulling a stunt like this? It's ridiculous.

[–]Sootraggins2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can see the perfect storm of crazy forming in her gaze.

[–]rectifryer11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Columbia-The land of dr oz and this bullshit.

[–]ECoast_Man10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

This reminds me of a recent conversation I had with an aggrieved friend of mine who was sorta fucked over by his squeeze.

I told him, there is no fucking point to having the anger that you want to sit her down and tell her all that fucked up shit she did and get her to admit she was wrong. Us men understand when we are right and wrong. Women will hamster anything, hence there is no point in trying to get the satisfaction of having her admit she done wrong.

This girl might literally go to the grave, mattress in hand.

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She's gone way past normal female nonsense into "something is seriously fucked up in my head" territory.

[–]1aguy013 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Any woman that asks for anal on the first date is like that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Had a plate asking for anal. It threw me off how bad she wanted it. I was weirded out. Needless to say that girl was CRAZY.

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[–]Elkmont11 points12 points  (8 children) | Copy

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (4 children) | Copy

So fucked up. Welcome to 1984. Yes means no. "Please fuck me harder, I love it!" means "Stop, you're raping me!"

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You have no idea how fucking crazy this has gotten.

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When emotion trumps logic, "Yes Can Mean No." But in reality, words have meaning. Definitions matter. "Yes fuck me," != "No leave me alone."

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That should be on a plaque somewhere!

[–]nogtobaggan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The police don't care either.

Sex is now literally the only form of contract where written proof doesn't fucking matter. You can force all women to sign a contract consenting to sex, and they can later claim that they revoked consent.

Try do that when you're selling a car.

[–]JumpXVI1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

She stated that another reason she decided to report this incident was because, based on what Jane Doe was told by Professor Dirks, John fit the profile of other rapists on campus in that he had a high GPA in high school, was his class valedictorian, was on [a sports] team, and was 'from a good family.'


  • valedictorian
  • well-raised
  • athlete

are predictors of being a rapist at Occidental? Nice college you have there.

If it isn't obvious, this is actually worse than if they had found that a certain racial group was more likely to have committed (be accused of) rape. At least racism you can understand. Their agenda against whatever profile these John Does fit is necessarily at odds with accepting smart, upstanding, well-rounded students to their university, and that's simply mind-boggling.

[–]redpillfeynman13 points14 points  (7 children) | Copy

Personal suggestion to you and anyone else, use GO SMS Pro if on android, as it does not delete texts. I've got tens of thousands of texts saved, but a 32gb sd card is more than worth the peace of mind, considering I had an informal false rape accusation against me back in high school. Thanks to it, I was able to show everyone every text from the first conversation we had. It wasn't enough for everyone, but everyone with any logical sense (all the men except for some white knights and some women) told her she was full of shit and believed me. Her knowing about it might have saved me from a formal police witch trial.

[–]ThrowingMyslfOutther5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Personal suggestion to you and anyone else, use GO SMS Pro if on android

I'll raise you

Google Voice and use that for texting. MMS gets saved as emails as well. Plus you can text all day if you want, from web interface.

[–]redpillfeynman2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Very nice. I'll check that out. I think this might deserve a post for proper documentation, as obsessive as it might be, I know I was grateful for my paranoia when push came to shove.

[–]ThrowingMyslfOutther2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was grateful for my paranoia when push came to shove.

I want to get a tattoo that says:

"I regret everything I didn't get in writing."

<joke> Extra long tattoo "...and recorded with audio and video" </joke>

Very nice. I'll check that out

You unfortunately missed the heyday when you could spell, long things out. I have two company names spelled fully out, and a couple catchy phrases as well. ~5 voice numbers.

[–]2CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Cheers mate. I just checked it out and I didnt realise I needed this until now; just downloaded it.

[–]redpillfeynman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No clue why you got downvoted. Pay it forward and spread the word about it, documentation and facts save male lives when it is your word against their tears.

[–]user_none0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Google Hangouts. Boom, in the cloud and it's free.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

SMS-backup. Saves it to your google account. No sd card needed.

[–]1aguy010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I though all texts saved by the provider, and the police can get them with a warrant for the case.

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Getting a booty call first would be nice.

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She got invited to be with politicians for important events, etc....

Women will support other women apparently, regardless of the facts. Not just that, this is even AFTER the evidence is out there refuting her claims.

I just wish women like her would be jailed. She trivializes what rape means to actual women who are rape victims with her false allegation antics.

[–]ghee992 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

so true

look at the praise given to anita hill

and she's known to be a total liar, and the man she smeared has an immaculate record

but he's the "bad" one, and she's the "saint" in today's upsidedown world.

[–]2niczar7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sulkowicz is a NPD, reality does not matter to her, that much is clear. But it doesn't have much to do with her being a woman, I know of NPD men who behave in similar ways.

What has to do with her being a woman is all the whiteknighting going on supporting this insanity, and the fact that the university let that shit happen despite being hit with a lawsuit about it.

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She has dead eyes. Her soul left.

[–]1Claude_Reborn7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

She has dead eyes. Her soul left.

She is likely a Borderline Personality Disorder /Narcissistic Personality Case, and they are enabling the fuck out of her.

It's like she is hooked up to an IV of the purest top grade "attention heroin" and she is getting her fill.

Once the tap is turned off though, she is going to go completely off the deep end to feed her pathological need for attention.

For her, it's like a drug.

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It's basically Gone Girl but in real life.

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Pussy is a hell of a drug too. Wish I could lower my urges sometimes.

[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also of note: she's ugly as fuck too.

[–]1aguy011 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

That's the Thousand Cock Stare

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Funny how the TCS is everywhere on Tinder

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Look at porn stars they all have the Thousand Cock Stare.

[–]waitfor_ittt19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy

That hamster is working over-time. Fuck her. Her life right now is revolved around denying that she cried rape when she got fucked in the ass consensually. Whoopdy doo she's getting attention by carrying a mattress around. When I see this shit I'm glad I'm on my own journey in modest in my ways. She'll never live that down.

[–]Redpillc0re12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

dont be surprised if she ends up a talk-show host or sth. the world out there is crazier than this bitch

[–]waitfor_ittt6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

What's even more sad is the cuntus nationalus looking up to this chick.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil34 points35 points  (13 children) | Copy

She has ego invested in that mattress in tge same way I refuse to lose my muscle mass she will never drop her dirty fucking mattress.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock40 points41 points  (11 children) | Copy

If she brings her mattress with her, someone should shine a black light on it as she accepts her certificate, revealing all the spunk of her former lovers.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil20 points21 points  (10 children) | Copy

The subpoenaed facebook messages show her crazy

“i’ve officially had sex with all of John Doe’ best friends,” she said in the exchange, according to the complaint. “did lotsa drugs – jk just got very drunk – well anyways – now i have an std i actually hate John Doe like if a girl is about to puke – don’t put your unprotected dick into her. . . I realy don’t want to be known as the girl who contracted an std because she was drunk you know? it is more his fault for fucking me unconscious – i mean i was conscious but clearly not in my right mind. . . i was literally blackout. . . like i puked all over the place.”

The complaint also argues that Sulkowicz showed an intense romantic interest in Nungesser during the summer of 2012, which Nungesser spent in Germany. She sent him more than a dozen messages along the lines of “PAUL I MISS YOU PAUL I MISS YOU PAUL I MISS YOU PAULLL” and “I would LOVE to have you here – omg – we could snuggle.”

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock20 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy

https://kcjohnson.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/nungesser-complaint.pdf [source]

29) "I'm so despearte with out you, i even try to speak spanish"

Emma's Efforts For Affection From Paul Go Unreciprocated

30) Emma's yearning for Paul had become very intense. Emma repeatedly messaged Paul throughout that summer she loved and missed him. She was quick to inquire whether he was in love with the woman he was seeing abroad.

Women's fear is not so much sexual infidelity, it is the fear of losing time, energy, protection, and resources AKA commitment, from the male. Paul was the only guy who showed he cared about her while she was whining about her alleged sexual abuse history and relationship problems, so he was her betabux target. This probably why she had sex with him to begin with.

31) Thereafter, she continued pursuing him, reiterating that she loved him. However, when Paul did not reciprocate these feelings, and instead showed interest in dating other women, Emma became viciously angry.

Despite his previous white knighting earlier, Paul had other options, abundance mentality. As said above, she knew other female competition have taken away her commitment.

Emma Files a False Complaint With The University

More than 7 months after [...] she alleged that during the [consensual] Sophomore Sexual Encounter with Paul [as evidenced by the before and after texts], [he raped her].

She retroactively withdrew consent from the interaction 7 months after the event.

Warlock's Law: Corollary 3:

Any consent provided by the female before and during the act is null and void as soon as the female decides to withdraw consent after the fact for any reason or no reason at all.

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She retroactively withdrew consent from the interaction 7 months after the event.

When it happens to you, its really fucked up.

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i actually hate John Doe like if a girl is about to puke – don’t put your unprotected dick into her. . . I realy don’t want to be known as the girl who contracted an std because she was drunk you know? it is more his fault for fucking me unconscious – i mean i was conscious but clearly not in my right mind. . . i was literally blackout. . . like i puked all over the place.”

Actually here's a interesting question for folks:

Why is Paul targeted, and not John Doe? Why the fuck is he protected?

[–]Zahoo8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why is Paul targeted, and not John Doe? Why the fuck is he protected?

John Doe was Chad

She wanted Paul's emotional attention. When she only got his sexual attention, she claimed rape on only Paul.

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This is a fucking horror story really.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Reading her comment made me dizzy. She speaks poorly, almost childlike.

The way she speaks, "it is more his fault for fucking me unconscious", doesn't sound like a rape victum to me.

[–]Sebsebzen5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

The way they text is really embarrassing for an Ivy league student.

[–]through_a_ways5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Most people are stupid.

Same goes for the kids at any ivy league university. Only difference is instead of plain old average stupid, you'll just find ~115 IQ work maniacs/trust fund kiddos/athletes.

Getting into an ivy league university isn't that hard if you actually work toward that goal from the get-go. Only catch is you have to actually let your entire life revolve around that goal--move to a less competitive school/area, not be too financially "well off", change your name to try to take advantage of URM admittance, etc.

[–]Sebsebzen2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Anyway, the thing I learned out of that episode is that it's safer to stay away from (alleged) rape victims. Sad truth, Paul tried to be her best friend and emotional tampon, but ended up getting accused of rape.

[–]Rock-swarm4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Could be a good thing. Imagine if the extremely crazy ones all had physical manifestations of their psychotic hamster.

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[–]ghee992 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

she made some allegations, but proof-free allegations that were most certainly lies

and she wanted attention even though it was clear that her greedy needs were going to ruin a good man's life (or at least his college experience).

good for this guy (there on a scholarship based on actual merit) for not backing down to her abusive bullying.

[–]scarletspider35 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

This chick has truly lost her mind. If she had just kept her mouth shut, only some people would've called her a whore and then soon forgotten about her. Now everybody is gonna remember her as a crazy whore. Nobody is gonna want to date or hire her now.

[–]slerpaderp0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

She's got a betabux. Saw her holding his hand walking around campus

[–]scarletspider30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

God that dude is beyond BB he has some serious mental problems to be fucking that slut that tries to make false rape claims. I wonder what he's gonna say when she makes false rape charges against him?

[–]Rougepellet3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

The rappers were right this whole time. Bitches be crazy.

[–]vanderleun3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is a wretched and mentally ill woman but she's got a lot of other wretched and mentally ill women helping her carry her shit.

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Seriously shit like this is fucking dangerous. You have someone throwing innocent people in prison for 20 years? But better go after the pot-smokers! So dangerous!!

[–]rpscrote11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep on racking up those defamation damages hun

[–]larrythetomato2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

When they say you can't win an argument against a woman, it's because you're arguing on completely different playing fields. Your argument may be driven by logic but hers will 9/10 times be driven by her emotional state. For that reason one should never argue and be reactive, but make statements and be proactive.

/u/Whisper has got this down. Both in his solipsism posts and ppd/ why purple pill debate is useless (search yourself). He explains how women are naturally unable to understand other people's viewpoints and how because of differing beliefs about objectivity, arguments are structured. In the women's world, which we have lived in for decades, the person who is the most confident in the assertions, not the person who is evidently right, is the objectively truthful one.

In short, when arguing with women, I would suggest a slightly different approach. You act confident and you nicely assume you are correct "obviously you would understand...[thing that she doesn't agree with]" or "naturally ...".

In general, when discussing in the general female space (read: public). Reputation >> evidence: "Sorry your highly backed theory with years of evidence is wrong because this random girl says your raped her". So you should spend your time winning over people, rather than convincing them.

[–]Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am dumbfounded. Columbia University just basically lost the lawsuit and threw an extra million on the pot.

Each and every university has strict guidelines on what is allowed at graduation ceremonies officially sponsored by the school AND on school grounds.

Matres-s-slut's classes are over. The mattress ended up being part of her art statement/thesis for a class. The class is over, this is graduation. There is zero reason for this to be allowed at the ceremony.

I read that the real victim, the falsely accused, attended this graduation as well. I am glad he did, I bet his lawyer made him physically go and handed him a stack of hundreds every step she took with that mattress at the ceremony.

Columbia failed to enforce their own charter, too treat students both equally and to keep the campus free of intimidation and harassment.

I wish he would have printed out the texts she sent him on extra large sized Moses Tablets and walked up around with those. "Put it in my butt, lol", "Tell my boyfriend to wear a condom, I got an STI". You know, for his art thesis.

[–]1edwardhwhite8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is no need to give this confused person any more of the 15 minutes of fame she's allotted.

[–]TheRedThrowAwayPill8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

No one believes her.

Not Columbia nor the other students. And not herself.

They're all just too embarrassed (and afraid of the fall out) by the mess to sit her down and tell her to quit this nonsense. So they are just waiting for this shit fest to pass.

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She's got more support then you think man. :(

[–]juliusstreicher1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. Columbia can't take ba k their commitment to her. They can't admit that they ruined a life, and then go and ask for more educational money from the government and alumni. They will stick with her for 1000 years.

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On the bright side, it looks like her arms have benefited from lugging that thing around all the time.

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Her BF carried it. Wish I was joking.

[–]Booksarefun6667 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy


Not even a shred of self-respect.

[–]havelbrandybuck2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Her university puts up with this because she's paying to be there. Any company will not put up with this because they pay her to be there and act professional. Temporary gimmick and inconvenience to herself that no one had cared about.

[–]Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Universities view graduation ceremonies as a privilege, not a right.

A graduate has to purchase the authorized cap and gown, show up at a certain place at an appointed time and adhere to the policies the University has instituted.

The rules and regulations are sent to students in advance, and documents must be signed.

Once again, just like the non-disclosure agreement with the University - that she violated during the "investigation, she ignored the legal agreements in place.

[–]ghee992 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

it doesn't seem like she's really thought this out. assuming she really was raped (something i seriously doubt).... but lets say she was, then walking around with a mattress on your back would seem like it'd make it even easier for the next rapist. a depressed chick who carries her own mattress, that's gotta be a rapist's wet dream!

[–]the99percent12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look at those guns of hers! Jesus Christ.. if any of you want your girl to be fit. Get her to carry her mattress around campus in the name of feminilolol!

Far out.. What a way to get a decent work out!

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Isn't it just too good to be true that this girl's name is "Sulkowicz"?

[–]Sootraggins3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's the daughter of 2 psychiatrists and she's Asian/Jewish. She's really good enough to be her own meme.

[–]1gerwig5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't think this should be related to women as a whole. This woman built her identity around one singular event and seems to want to get as much attention as possible from it. And if her allegations weren't true, that just means she's an asshole.

[–]zephyrprime1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"For that reason one should never argue and be reactive, but make statements and be proactive. " Sort of but whoever coined this phrase doesn't really quite understand the heart of the matter. What you should be is happier than her and in control of your own emotional state. That is how you win a battler of emotions. If you can actually do the two things I say, all the words out of your mouth be effective at combating her nonsense arguments. You will see past the lies in her words and see the truth of her emotions. You will naturally be making statements and being proactive because you will realize that all her debating words are pure bs and the truth is simple cavegirl psychology.

In the case of this mattress nonsense, the way for the guy to win would be to own up to pumping and dumping her. Pity her for her inability to let go of a guy as hot as himself. Reprimand her for thinking she had a chance when obviously she never did. Call her a crazy chick. Boast about making a fortune out of your pending defamation lawsuit. Be HAPPIER and more CONTENTED than her. Do this all in public (but not in the press). Doing this would absolutely destroy the chick psychologically though so I advise against such extreme measures.

[–]RPthrowaway1234 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wow...she has already been proven to be a liar. She should be barred from the ceremony if she tries to pull this shit. I know that if I had done something like that I would have been escorted from the auditorium in shame, while she is apparently getting nothing but "you go girl!".

On the bright side, this could hurt her case. The guy can possibly argue harassment, but I doubt the courts will see the life and reputation of a man as worth much, much less his feelings about being harassed in front of the entire graduation ceremony attendees.

[–]ktchong0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

She has also ruined her own reputation. When prospective employers google her name, the entire history of her crazy antics - and the guy's defamation lawsuit - will show up. Everyone will know she is troubles and lawsuits waiting to happen. What companies in their right minds would want to hire her?

[–]ghee992 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

she'd probably be hired by N.O.W. ,planned parenthood, or any university's feminist studies dept. in a heartbeat

[–]Tarnsman4Life2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Exactly; she is some kind of feminist folk hero even though she is nothing more than a liar who sent sexy text messages back and forth with this guy after the incident. NOW, PP, etc don't care about a little thing called "facts" nor do most universities. She will find a job somewhere an academia or with "community activists"

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funny...but sad at the same time.

then again, in the usa of today, where we have an actual community activist as our president, i guess such things are to be expected.

of course, with all their nonsense, women are making themselves miserable in the process too (along with us men, of course).

its no wonder that a recent polls show that most women today would rather return to a 1960s mad men-esque era when men were actually men, and women were free to be women as well.

[–]Black-Pill4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Emotion and attention drive women to extremes of behavior... as I read in the basic report, she got upset because while they were having consensual vaginal intercourse he slipped in into the backdoor and slapped her around when she initially protested. My honest evaluation... she liked it, but (yes,I said but) he was not interested in a repeat performance so she sought attention and emotional stimulation in the public sphere. Now she is just being fueled emotionally by the media attention.

td;rl: This is Alpha Widow Revenge and Attention Whoring driven by the attention of social media

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Putin was right when he said its not good to argue with women.

[–]AndreaDworkinsDildo3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

What a dumb cunt. I hope she gets raped by a dog.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

if you lie about rape you deserved to be raped. you're sending an innocent person to jail to possibly be raped numerous times on your whim, yeah i'd say you deserve it at least once.

[–]bat_mayn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"She" looks like a man, to be honest.

[–]SuperbCrawdad21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My girlfriend has admitted to this, and makes no moves to cover it up. She really is in a different world based on how she's feeling.

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[–]ioncehadsexinapool2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am truly embarrassed to be a part of this american society

[–]puppet220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We do get SJW's petitioning ministers and having people Like Julian Blanc banned fromt he country.

[–]energyinmotion0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

That's a future, lonely crazy cat lady in the making.

[–]juliusstreicher1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sorry...probably be a full professor ship and lifelong chair at a major university. Think:Anita Hill.

[–]ghee990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yup, anita took one big lie against a good man and made millions (and feminist fame) from it.

this chick has a stack of lies, and years of dishonest behavior, and look at how she's be rewarded already with fame, admiration and praise from millions of hate-filled feminists (and those too timid to speak up against them).

she'll ride that mattress all the way to the bank.

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[–]ghee990 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy


seems like she's become an expert at blaming anyone but herself for her own life.

she's "smart" in victimology, but real life smarts? i think not.

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[–]ghee990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

she realized that falsely accusing a guy of rape, and then walking around with a mattress would have an impact?

thats what you call "smart"?

i call it a spoiled feminist throwing a 4 year long tantrum while living in denial after a guy dumped her despicable ass.

[–]SgtBrutalisk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Instead of trying to convince a woman to change her emotional state, you simply do it for her.

[–]Mister_JR0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My Dad told me many years ago, "Men think logically, women think emotionally." He was a master at distilling big ass thoughts into nuggets of truth.

[–]Praecipuus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Am I the only one who thought "carries her mattress to graduation" could only be an idiomatic expression I wasn't yet familiar with, until reading the article?

This shit redefines "crazy bitchiness"...

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OF COURSE she won't let up!

  • She's too ugly to become famous for her looks.
  • She's too fat/awkward to become famous for athletics.
  • Judging from her public statements, she's too stupid/lazy to become famous for her achievements.

This is her way of becoming famous. She would be a fool to let go of it now!

[–]sirmadam0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I hadn't seen this posted yet and thought it pertinent to the story. Here is a video of her and some friends carrying the mattress. I take considerable note of her bright blue hair, which further points out her SJW-like personality.

I bet we'll all see here in Walmart stacking the shelves in a months time. Unless she starts a blog.

She'll probably start a blog.

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A girl posted this photo on my friends wall.

My reply was what /u/balalasaurus stated,

"When they say you can't win an argument against a woman, it's because you're arguing on completely different playing fields. Your argument may be driven by logic but hers will 9/10 times be driven by her emotional state. For that reason one should never argue and be reactive, but make statements and be proactive. Because women define their reality by their emotional state."

A few people laughed, including a few girls but then I received this reply from a guy.....

"dont know u but i bet ur young, the answer is allways im sorry babe. ur right i was wrong....f,,,kin is better than fighten..."

I agree that fucking is better then fighting. I guess I am young, I'm 27 but this answer, "the answer is allways im sorry babe. ur right i was wrong." Really pisses me off and ultimately brings down any logical sense a person brings forth to a conversation. I want to reply but I cannot hold back my anger. Does anyone have anything clever to say, something that will shut this guy down hard?

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy


There's no reason to argue with people who hold this view. To each their own. If he wants to live his life in a way that makes him submissive so be it.

You on the other hand, have the choice to shape your own reality. Just because someone is obtuse enough to believe that doesn't mean you are.

In that way anger is unnecessary. Further your own ends, not those of others, unless they coincide with yours.

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i saw this on my fb feed as well, the saddest is how most people are hamstering her obvious con by calling her "brave" and "heroic" for showing up to a public event after getting "raped", and the guy is the "villainous leech" for suing the university that tarred and feathered his reputation for the rest of his life.

[–]n8dawwg-4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy

A bitch who claims that she was raped, when it 100% clear that she was not raped................. deserves to be raped.