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What's up with all the deleted profiles and dumb questions (self.askMRP)

submitted by shumbappan

Ok. so the latest is here -

https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/f7hcvi/had_an_affair_now_the_wife_wants_me/

Why do you guys post this shit and then when someone calls you out, you delete your initial post like a pussy and even delete your id itself?

Shame on you!

For being a pussy.. and also for being a fucking excuse of a human being.. who cannot even take some criticism.. if you cannot take even that fucking internet strangers, how the fuck can you take a minor shit test from your wife? Shame on you... literally fucking shame on you you fucking miserable excuse of a human being!

I mean if you read even a little bit of MRP or askmrp.. you know that you have to be the absolute bottom rung of the cesspool to post a question here.. so you did it.. and then you delete it.. that makes you even worse than the bottom rung..

Terrible.. and shame on you..

Get some frame motherfuckers..

On the good side.. you actually make ME feel good about myself.

And that is saying something..

Do the work..

You know what the problem is?... EGO..

You idiots and retards cannot take it when someone calls you out...

Why?

EGO..

That is why... fucking retards.

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/84tpno/killing_the_ego/

To quote -

Over the years, I've learned the difference between being judgmental and being observant. Sometimes, this is a fine line. One thing I have observed on MRP is new guys often think it's a "race" to become alpha, and a little bit of progress can be easily mistaken as a total transformation. This is the ego

After a lifetime of being lied to by the media, friends, family members, and your own mother, unplugging from the matrix is no easy task. In fact, many of the people that have lied to you are simultaneously lying to their self. So, the line between truth. lies, reality, fantasy, and wishful thinking can become blurred. MRP can often make things more muddy before the clean-up starts It's kind of like cleaning out a garage - it will look more messy than ever before the real progress is revealed.

One of the biggest issues is ego . All too often, we either see a newer guy come on here posting about a situation he needs to fix right now, but in reality, if we provide solutions, they are band-aids, and they generally will not help the new guy's progress.

These type posts start with tell-tale signs of the markings of ego. For example, when I see a guy start off with 'I've always been alpha, but blah blah blah'... or I'm probably a 9 SMV (snd then gives no details about lifts, height, and weight - yes, all three are required for a reasonable analysis)... or 'wife is shit testing me about folding the socks,'... or 'wife gave me a hard no, but I didn't show any butthurt.'... etc... the problem is usually the ego is in the way of the beginning of progress

Progress begins when the new guy has finished all of the sidebar readings and is starting over.

Progress begins when the new guy can honestly post all physical stats Height, weight, and lifts .

Progress starts when the new guy doesn't lace his post with pats on the back or please tell me I'm a pussy pleadings.

Progress begins when the new guy realizes he's been brainwashed and is still brainwashed , and he wants to do the work to deprogram.

Progress begins when the new guy realizes there are guys on this board who have put in a ton of effort, way beyond what he has put in, and he is willing to listen to feedback, no matter how much it stings.

Progress begins when you hit your first lifting plateau after adding 5 pounds a week on all lifts for many months straight.

Progress begins when the new guy has cleaned up his diet, is under 15% BF, and has the stats to back it up.

Progress begins when the new guy realizes he is a pussy with no frame , and he becomes willing to STFU and lift , and then gradually add A&A, AM, fogging and other frame builders.

Progress begins when the new guy has internalized frame and no longer is faking frame, which his LTR will see right through and break easily anyway.

Progress begins with all of these acts , thoughts, and behaviors of humility.

Progress begins when the stay plan becomes the same as the go plan

Progress begins when the new guy can admit he has a long hard road ahead, and he starts to become comfortable with small but valuable strides of progress.

Progress begins when a new guy can come on here, present objective facts, and not lace it with implications of the grand ole alpha days, the great resent victories on who should fold the socks, and not present us with paragraphs of he said/she said dialog. You will not find progress within the mundane details of every day BS conversations between you and your LTR

Progress begins when your LTR isn't giving you hard no's anymore, and you realize that your sexual strategy is a combination of things in this post, and it is working

Progress beings with killing the ego because then the new guy can tear down the sand castle he has built and build a solid rock fortress\**

The enemy is not women

The enemy is not your LTR

The enemy is not the media and the brainwashing you received

The enemy is your ego.

Kill the enemy


[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando30 points31 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

The first time I signed up for MRP, I was sure that this was something I could piss through, easy. I reckoned that most of the posters here were sad fucks who couldn't get laid. So I was not going to listen to bullshit advice if I felt it was irrelevant. I'd just use the forum for a little bit until I turned my dead bedroom around. I gave it 6 months.

I was a fucking snowflake.

I posted my introductory first post, which was soon renamed as a victim puke.

The thread was a car crash for me. I was ripped to fucking shreds. Most of it hurt like shit. Like a fucking kick to the balls. Especially the part where it was all my fault.

I deered like a mother fucker. I said I'd no interest in doing dread or weight lifting. I was in great shape. Yep.. 6'1", 158lbs, visible abs. Posted a pic to prove it. Absolute fucking horror show, that. Pulled apart skinny limb from skinny limb.

Then someone piped in with 'if she gave you the ILYBINILW speech, she is probably fucking someone else'.

I didn't delete the account but I never used it again. I left MRP with my tail between my legs, vowing never to return.

That was 2.5 years ago. I signed up again shortly after that and the rest is in my post history. Some of the early posts, I changed some details in case anyone realised this was the same person posting from a new account. Proper faggot stuff.

So, I get the whole deleting accounts thing. Facing yourself for the first time... Or rather, being forced to face yourself for the first time as an adult - especially by cunts like me - is a shock to the system.

But that's why we're here.. to wake these fuckers up. Some never even try, but you know, some of those deleters might come back, like me, minus some of the bullshit and ego, and then, hopefully they'll get what they need from MRP.

I know I did.

[–]Tyred_Biggums5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Or rather, being forced to face yourself for the first time as an adult

This right here is the kicker. Facing yourself is the only way to progress. That’s why OYS is so vital. You have to be able to actually say here’s where I fucked or. Or here’s where my mental model is fucked. Or here is where my ego got in the way... again.

Fuck I had a dark week, but learned some shit about myself. So it’s a win.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

The main thing I learned from OYS was how much of a fag I was.

[–]Tyred_Biggums0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Every week a bit of that faggotness is shed.

[–]lefty9290 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How did you realize that? Genuinely curious

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

People kept telling me I was a fag.

[–]redwall925 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep.. 6'1", 158lbs, visible abs.

Oooohhh baby baby. Keep going! Tell me more!

[–]part_wolf2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I did the same. I used a new account and shared some stuff that never should have seen the light of day, and I got torn the fuck apart. I deleted it for OpSec reasons, and then went back and decided to use my actual reddit handle and I’ve been here ever since.

[–]OptimusRP2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I appreciate you and others who take the time to read and respond to our bullshit.

[–]Slapeeey0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep.. 6'1", 158lbs, visible abs.

A lot of similarities here. This was me also when I started , so proud of my abs, running all the time and no muscle at all, refused to listen to lifting advice as I was exercising 5-6 days a week already. It took me a long time to come around to lifting. It was a real effort to admit that I should have lifted so many years earlier, a strain on your mental model of yourself.

So pissed the first time someone here called me a faggot also. Then I read some more posts and see how everyone calls everyone a faggot. Then I read the we're all faggots post. Kinda true words there though, you would've never come here if you weren't.

[–]threekindsoflucky23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Feeling cute, might delete later.

[–]floatingsidewalk10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Omg. It's very clear what happened. Thier wife wouldn't give them sex unless they deleted it.

[–]shumbappan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ofcourse. Makes sense.

[–]weakandsensitive7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

AskMRP is the dumpster fire. We're here to watch it burn. Don't take it too seriously. I'm not even a mod here.

[–]Non_Merger3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For reference, many good posts I've seen have deleted posts or comments. Sometimes these are still available: https://www.removeddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/f7hcvi/had_an_affair_now_the_wife_wants_me/

For the window lickers: add "move" to reddit thread.

[–]hack3geRed Beret6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Shut up faggot - stop worrying about others when you clearly have a shit load of work to do yourself.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You haven't been around here long, have you...

[–]shumbappan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No. That is true.

[–]lefty9291 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good link re the Ego post.

‘Tis a good read

[–]fannyfire1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If those lazy faggots couldn’t read the sidebar do you really think they’re going to read this?

[–]shumbappan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably not. But I am hoping they will. I know I will not post a question and delete it 30 mins later.

[–]JoeBuckYourslf0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Honestly, I love MRP.

It’s a forum for men, by men, and everyone calls each other faggots.

[–]FoxShitNasty831 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Faggot

[–]OptimusRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Needed this

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I imagine 99% of them are just looking to stir the pot and 1% are guys who are desperate but dont know how.

[–]SoggyTrainCucked by machines0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Progress begins when your LTR isn't giving you hard no's anymore -

Actually that is judging your progress by what someone else chooses to do. You don't control other people.

MRP can make you a man someone would fuck, but not necessarily your LTR.

[–]markreadsred0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

You pitching Holidays book or something? Because you should all three of his stoicism books are legit as is Conspiracy and Trust Me I'm Lying.

[–]shumbappan[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Who are you talking about?

[–]markreadsred0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ryan Holiday. Author of "Ego is the Enemy." And the other books listed plus more.

[–]shumbappan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My bad. No that is not who I am talking about. I was referring to our own resident u/bobbyperu who wrote this above. I have found his writings helpful to my journey esp in the beginning when I was starting out.

[–]BoiLyon-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You are so far up in these wimps frames.. time for a little STFU

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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