Strong Independent WomanChina Doesn't Like That I'm a Single LEFTOVER Woman, Here's Why (youtube.com)
submitted by askmrcia
[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz 74 points75 points76 points (11 children) | Copy Link
[–]reinaldo866 49 points50 points51 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz 37 points38 points39 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]DevilComeKnockin 12 points13 points14 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ColdStatistician1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
I can’t help but feel a little sad for her honestly. She lived her whole life listening to her parents, studying hard to have a great job one day, only to be called “dumb” for following orders. Don’t be too hard on the girl. She is nowhere near the degenerate whores from r/IncelTears or r/FemaleDatingStrategy. She comes from a poor background, and just wanted a husband who worked as hard as her and knew what it was like to achieve the same goals. Let her be, mates. This girl has earned her respects.
[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla[M] 4 points5 points6 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 3 points4 points5 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Zodiamaster 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]The_mightiest_puntHe's Been There 51 points52 points53 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 45 points46 points47 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]askmrciaJr. Hamster Analyst[S] 24 points25 points26 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[+]RRFdev2 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
She has to marry for money after all, not for love and companionship. She doesn't want a partner to grow old with, to be weak, sad, sick, dying together.
She has NO intention to experience love in a relationship, because to experience that she will end up submitting to a man, which she refuses to. You can tell by the expression on her face whenever the men mentioned it.
She is looking for that fabled Tiger Mom marriage where she either sits at home and bosses the husband around, or still continues her career and keeps her money to herself while still bossing the husband around, and depriving him of sex and companionship while her world would consist of only herself and her children, who she would in turn treat harshly, humiliate and shame endlessly to make them pursue ridiculous heights of materialism at the expense of their own happiness.
This desire is especially prominent among the urban Chinese as opposed to the rural, traditional ones like this woman's parents. They knew that love is THE most important criteria in a relationship, over status, over wealth, over material gains, over everything else.
[–][deleted] 47 points48 points49 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Thinguy123[🍰] 26 points27 points28 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]RRFdev1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
In clown world dating, hookups are for love. Marriage is for money, or in China's case, to get your busybody puppet-master parents to shut the hell up and leave you alone.
[+]RRFdev1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Also to further add, you just can't ask a woman to submit to you, just because. It doesn't work that way.
Women will submit to you, automatically, if they genuinely, and I mean GENUINELY are attracted to you, and this is regardless of whether or not they are high-powered career women. You have to earn that submission by displaying attraction and power.
In this case, this women in this video never really was attracted to any of the men she went out with. Not a single comment about her expressing physical attraction with the men. Zero physical contact. No holding hands. Conversations went on simply on a platonic, friendly level.
Like how that one guy said he is past the age of falling in love, yeah, this woman specifically had a goal of NOT seeking love in relationships, and the men can sense it.
[–]CoolGuySauron 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]goodmansaysfuckyouBig 🍆 energy misogynist 32 points33 points34 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]thainarv22 6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]GenericCancerCell 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]souldrone 25 points26 points27 points (11 children) | Copy Link
[+]WATASHI_NO_CRESTA 34 points35 points36 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]CoolGuySauron 15 points16 points17 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[+]RRFdev1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Also her lack of femininity, and inability to charm, flirt with men.
The only thing worse than a hover-handing soyboy, is a contact-phobic shy soygirl.
You just want to chat, sit a whole table across from me, and talk about strictly unromantic topics the whole day while dressing in the same clothes you go to the grocery store with? GTFO.
[–]minitntman1 7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]RRFdev 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Cristoff13Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]souldrone 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Bane-o-foolishness 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]Rottinghere 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]The_Man11 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.” 19 points20 points21 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[+]lurkerhasarisen1 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
She climbed the ladder, alright. Her problem is that she climbed the wrong ladder. Specifically, she climbed the education ladder to become a lawyer rather the femininity ladder to become a wife. Instead of pursuing love she pursued respect and ended up with neither.
As much as her parents are complaining about her current situation, though, they didn't do her any favors by pressuring her to go to law school. I imagine they thought that they were setting her up for success by putting her in contention for a high-status man (especially considering China's skewed male/female ratio), but they didn't teach her the most basic fact of all: it's not enough to rub elbows with those men in a professional/academic sense. That just gets her proximity and cachet: she has to offer what those men want in a wife to seal the deal. What do those men want? Women who are younger, prettier, and more submissive than she is, so she has three problems if she wants to be married. 1) Her age. She can't do anything about her age, and she needs to understand that time is of the essence. 2) Her looks. She keeps herself in shape, but the matchmaker was right: she's not a beauty. She ought to grow out her hair for starters. 3) Her attitude. She needs to lose the feminist attitude: that's not what men want.
There are those who say that she shouldn't change "who she is" to get a man. Fair enough: but everyone needs to understand that she may never get married because of that, with all that implies in her life and her culture. Life is a series of trade-offs, and if being a "strong, independent woman" is more important to her than being a wife and mother, so be it. She ought to own it, and nobody should be blaming men for not wanting to buy what she's selling.
This woman is a classic inspin: an involuntary spinster who's bitter that she cannot get commitment from the high-status men she feels entitled to. She should not be placed in the same category as a woman whose spinsterhood is caused by something outside of her control: those women deserve pity, just like incel men whose celibacy is beyond their control deserve pity. In a sense, her spinsterhood isn't really involuntary at all (as is the case with most of the inspins we see in this sub). It's not that they can't get commitment from any man, but rather that they cannot get commitment from any of the men they want. The involuntary part of inspins like her can be summed up as, "can't bring herself to lower her standards to match her own wife-worthiness." Once again we see the same pattern that we see in western THOTs: the gap that exists between, "The best man she can get" and "The worst man she will accept."
And every year the gap gets bigger. I hope her law degree keeps her warm at night.
[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.” 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]NetherIndy 5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]rvail136 15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]animistspark 11 points12 points13 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Unusual_Chair 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]darthwhopperx 12 points13 points14 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]RRFdev 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]rp_whybother 9 points10 points11 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Thinguy123[🍰] 14 points15 points16 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Thinguy123[🍰] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MuscleT 7 points8 points9 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]RRFdev 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RedditisCANCER999 5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MuscleT 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]NetherIndy 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]NetherIndy 5 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[+]ColdStatistician1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Jesus christ, are you serious? No way is only 5% of the population college educated! Chinese people are the most education-driven people on the planet, afaik. I always thought at worst like 50% must have have degrees. Man, I gotta look more into this. If things keep going the way they are now here in the states, China may be a glimpse into the inevitable future. Women as a whole are going to find themselves in the same boat. And it’s going to be at their own hands...
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]z31fanatic 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LTDlimited 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ButMessiDeservedIt2 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
An update from her Twitter:
Just an update of me, I have finished my studies in France and have moved to Germany. The movie was made from 2015 to 2017. I am happy that this movie touched people. Thank you very much for your warm messages!!
I'd: Huameiq
[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla[M] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]ButMessiDeservedIt 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]jrpark05Swears the liquid on the carpet is just beer 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]Rottinghere 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Zodiamaster 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]Colorado-expat2 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
That was brutal. Absolutely brutal.
Her family are absolute straight up assholes. Damn if I’d ever go back home to visit again.
I’ve never married and I’m old af. My parents never ever busted my balls about it. Different culture and gender I know but I kinda felt for her. Her sister is a mean spirited bitch.
Her Dad. I worked my ass off for you. Yea, that’s what you’re supposed to do for your kids you self righteous bastard.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[+]Schmerbcicle 6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]kyledontcareChristian Comeback Kid 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DrJamming 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]drewc99Jr. Hamster Analyst 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]reinaldo866 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]maruadventurer 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]Running_nipples 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RadioFreeColorado 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]jarvion000 -9 points-8 points-7 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[+]jarvion000 -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]jarvion000 -3 points-2 points-1 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Yagyubagna 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]GrandYam_HomeRun 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AngryDragon_910Naughty list - Expires April 1 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
© TheRedArchive 2024. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]Borsao66 84 points85 points86 points (31 children) | Copy Link
[–]askmrciaJr. Hamster Analyst[S] 57 points58 points59 points (16 children) | Copy Link
[–]Borsao66 55 points56 points57 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz 40 points41 points42 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]Thinguy123[🍰] 38 points39 points40 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz 34 points35 points36 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]limbojunkie 16 points17 points18 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]limbojunkie 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 12 points13 points14 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Yagyubagna 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]rp_whybother 13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RedditisCANCER999 26 points27 points28 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]PeterCornswalled 21 points22 points23 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+]drewc99Jr. Hamster Analyst 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]PeterCornswalled 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[+]drewc99Jr. Hamster Analyst 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 13 points14 points15 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[+]Ishabaka 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Borsao66 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]kyledontcareChristian Comeback Kid 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PeterCornswalled 4 points5 points6 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Borsao66 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOWManofMystery 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link