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How often is too often? (self.askMRP)

submitted by TheBrownSlaya

I posted this in marriedredpill, but it was remove and I was told to post it here, and I wanted to get some more perspectives. I would love to hear what you guys think.

My partner and I have been discussing our mismatched drives (im too high and shes low), and I wanted to know how much is too much to you? Yes it depends on the couple, but I wanted some real opinions if you don't mind sharing them. It may seem reasonable, but I'm asking for your personal opinion on this matter. I thought a good/reasonable norm was that couples (atleast in their early 20s) had sex 5 to 6 times on average per week, maybe 4 if life is tough that week. When she explained why, she told me that having sex more than thrice a week would be like asking a normal person to bang 7 times a day.

I just find it odd that as a couple very much in love, we react very differently to initiating sex on days where we don't necessarily want it. For instance I said if I'm not in the mood that day, her approaching me would make me get in the mood...whereas she said the reason that she doesn't feel that way or want it is because I'm always wanting it. It makes me feel undesired.

My partner says she can only really want sex 2 to 3 times a week, and thats assuming she's not stressed or tired. My partner and I are 21, and this is my first relationship (yes im a late bloomer), so I was just trying to get some thoughts on whether this is normal and reasonable for a couple in their early 20s. I don't have anything to really compare this to, and wanted some fresh perspectives. Most people on the internet say "sexual frequency is whatever a couple is comfortable with". Am I in the wrong for thinking 2-3 times is a bit too low?

Just to be clear I don't pressure her, there's always consent, and I make sure she enjoys the sex too. I prioritize her pleasure. Her love language is quality time and my love language is physical touch.

By the way, I do lift weights and focus on compound movements. COVID is messing with that, but here are my stats:

21M - 148 lbs - 5'3''

Benchpress - 155 // Squat - 225 // Deadlift - 275 lbs

TL:DR would you date a person that only wanted sex 2 or 3 times a week

EDIT: we have been together for 2 years and starting having sex ""regularly"" these past 4-6 months


[–]InChargeManRed Beret34 points35 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Interesting, this is a very uncommon and unique situation. We should look into having some sort of bar of information about this, maybe we can put it on the side.

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When she explained why, she told me that having sex ...

Well, isn't it lucky that she cleared that up for you. Did she sit you down on her knee for that talk?

My partner says she can only really want sex 2 to 3 times a week

Again, why are you listening to what she says?

When she says something like that, remember to add the rest of the sentence that women tend to forget to say. "with you"

Lets try it:

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My partner says she can only really want sex 2 to 3 times a week with me

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When she explained why, she told me that "having sex with you more than thrice a week would be like asking a normal person to bang 7 times a day."

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My partner and I have been discussing our mismatched drives (im too high and shes low for me),

See how that works? Now you can play at home.

Fix you to fix her, if it doesn't fix her, get a better working model, you're only 21 for god's sake.

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill13 points14 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

with me

Dammit, you beat me to it.

OP, the world makes a new 21-year-old every single day. If you are a high-value man, she will make sure that your needs are met.

[–]hack3geRed Beret3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

It’s funny how options change things. I went from 2-3 times a month to 2-3 times a day - I’m very thankful for cialis.

It’s pretty funny my wife told me the other day that sex is better now since we are on quarantine and I can’t fuck my girlfriends. I think she was joking, maybe not - first time in a while I have literally been speechless because she was so matter of fact about it.

[–]PillUpAss3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

She wanted to test your reaction. Probably has some idea subconsciously.

[–]part_wolf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This. Women aren’t stupid.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Likely - I didn’t say anything just smirked and slapped her ass and walked away.

I was impressed about how she caught me off guard - realistically I probably should have just acknowledged it but I froze. It’s been a long time she has even insinuated at me cheating and gets very upset when I joke about it.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

sex is better now since we are on quarantine and I can’t fuck my girlfriends

whoah, curious - what's the chance you give she was serious and not joking?

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly - I’ve always thought she’s known since I fucked my sons teacher. There was some inappropriate stuff the teacher did and said when my wife was around.

There’s no way she knows about the gym chick - it happens while she’s at work and I have very strict rules for communication with her. We don’t text or call - she doesn’t even have my phone number and we take two cars to her place from the gym.

She hasn’t mentioned anything like this in a while and she gets upset if I even hint or joke about it so it was pretty surprising.

Nothing has changed since then so who knows.

[–]Massive-Plate0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hahahaha, damn I can picture this.

Deer in the headlights as you sip some coffee...

Cialis helped you? Did she ever try it? Does it help women at all?

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No idea if it works with woman - it helped me for sure since it reduced my refractory time so I could fuck my wife in the morning and then fuck the gym chick mid afternoon and then fuck the wife at night. I usually would have issues at night - never had any issues mid day because gym chick is freaky as fuck.

[–]redwall9243 points44 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Continue discussing your unfed sex drive with your partner and watch the frequency/quality of sex with your partner go down with high correlation given to the number of words you use when discussing said topic. Assume an exponential factor associated to the number of times you bring up said topic in a week.

If you stick around much, you will hear this phrase:

You cannot negotiate desire.

Think about that phrase. Spend some time chewing on it. Figure out if you want a woman to have sex with you just because you talked her into it. Negotiated with her to have sex more than 2-3 times a week. Gotta get that chart up. Hell man ... bring some graph paper to the bedroom and point her to it every time she says 'no'. Don't half-ass this. If you're going to logic your woman into having sex with you, then damn ... just go all the way. Show her the graphs; show her the charts; 5x/week vs 2x/week. It's all in the numbers! Do you want a woman to have sex with you because you spreadsheet her into it?

You cannot negotiate desire.

You cannot negotiate desire.

You cannot negotiate desire.

[–]Tyred_BiggumsRed Beret8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Do you want a woman to have sex with you because you spreadsheet her into it?

Excel is sexy. You've never gotten "mmm vlookup and pivot tables. Give me more." from her?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but dynamic tables are a big turn off.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando21 points22 points  (27 children) | Copy Link

148 lbs - 5'3''

Hey, MRP - I'm a Skinny Manlet...

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Benchpress - 155 // Squat - 225 // Deadlift - 275 lbs

Who lifts a bit ..

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I've been taking Zoloft for a bit

Self medicates...

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Just curious, every day I do research on ADHD and medication I feel as though I could greatly benefit from Adderall.

Thinks he has ADHD..

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Hey guys, I want to get the know the meta is for LMGs in BF1. Also a general class/weapon discussion thread would be fun.

Plays video games ..

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I am a medium sized Youtuber (17,000) in another game. I have been playing and loving ROS for the last two months

A LOT..

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Her love language is quality time and my love language is physical touch.

And reads the Love Languages.

I'm wondering - considering all the above - why the only person who has ever shown any interest in fucking until I was 21, doesn't find me attractive?

I just can't fugure it out.

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Yours sincerely,

Clueless in Seatlle

[–]TheBrownSlaya-21 points-20 points  (26 children) | Copy Link

You probably have been blessed with desirable height genes. You probably have little to no issue putting on muscle. You probably did not have to deal with physically and emotionally abusive parents growing up, which lead to eating disorders, porn and gaming addictions. You probably have no issues standing up for yourself because it wasn't immediately met and conditioned with abuse and aggression. You probably don't have to deal with the biological consequences of abuse - including deficiencies in prefrontal cortex development. You probably have a fulfilling social support system and a close group of friends who actually acknowledge you. You probably always felt like you belonged. You probably don't have to constantly ignore and battle suicidal idealization. I for one, have not been that lucky. Who knows, you may even have it much worse than what I have to deal with. Don't be so quick to judge.

I came here looking for constructive advice and comments with actual substance, not your bullshit.

[–]johnmic0716 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You're only going to get honest advice on this sub. Not validation for a bunch of excuses. Putting on muscle is hard. Quitting porn is hard. Being a man is hard. So get comfortable with doing hard things, make yourself better, and stop complaining.

[–]TheBrownSlaya6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

alright

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret12 points13 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

You are 100% not ready for this place if all you can do is complain about how much everything is someone else's fault.

I came here looking for constructive advice and comments with actual substance,

No, you didn't. You came here looking for shortcuts and validation that meh life is hard.

Fuck you, you whiny bitch.

You want to know what is hard? Picking yourself up from all that self loathing bullshit and getting on with being a fucking man by doing the hard work. So either get to work, or fuck off. If you want to work, we might help.

[–]TheBrownSlaya-14 points-13 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Who the hell are you to tell me what I came here for? You can't just assume I came here for validation, idiot. Stop complicating things and keep it simple. I came here for some fresh perspectives. And this seems like news to you, but I DO blame myself for the shit I listed above. I just said that because he said I self-medicated which was somehow wrong.

Why don't you fuck off if you have nothing to add faggot

[–]PillUpAss10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just don’t get why she doesn’t want to fuck you more.

[–]Turbotec1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you DEER to your woman this much too??

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret[M] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Stop complicating things and keep it simple.

Good point. It's not that complicated.

You don't belong here.

[–]part_wolf0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Damn, I was really hoping to watch this guy choke on his own words in the OYS thread.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

/r/marriedredpill is still open to him if he wants to enter the locker room for OYS.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

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You probably have been blessed with desirable height genes. You probably have little to no issue putting on muscle. You probably did not have to deal with physically and emotionally abusive parents growing up, which lead to eating disorders, porn and gaming addictions. You probably have no issues standing up for yourself because it wasn't immediately met and conditioned with abuse and aggression. You probably don't have to deal with the biological consequences of abuse - including deficiencies in prefrontal cortex development. You probably have a fulfilling social support system and a close group of friends who actually acknowledge you. You probably always felt like you belonged. You probably don't have to constantly ignore and battle suicidal idealization. I for one, have not been that lucky. Who knows, you may even have it much worse than what I have to deal with.

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I grew up in poverty with a father who was an alcoholic and lived with all the issues that came with that. I've dealt with hunger, depression, emotional abuse and physical abuse.

When I came here just over two years ago, I was 158lbs - a skinny, frail motherfucker who couldn't lift a bar. I had porn addictions, alcohol problems and drug problems. I was in debt, I was unemployed and my wife was on the verge of leaving me.

I was - like you - unnatractive.

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Don't be so quick to judge.

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Touche.

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I came here looking for constructive advice and comments with actual substance, not your bullshit.

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Today, I am 198lbs, 12% BF and can deadlift more than twice my bodyweight. I am debt free, run a successful business and I have a wife who does everything she can to add value to my life.

Other women want to fuck me and other men want to be like me.

I am attractive. You are not.

You can be if you do what I - and many other guys here have done - and that's lift, sidebar, shut the fuck up and learn both what it is and how to become a man if high value.

You think you're a snowflake - you're not. You're the same as every other sad sack of shit that walks through the doors of MRP.

What you do now is what will define you for the rest of your life.

Will you delete your account and run away with your tail between your legs, then go back to your life of whacking your dick off to Porhhub, numbing your mind with video games and crying coz no-one will suck your little pee pee?

Or will you stick around and do the hard work?

[–]TheBrownSlaya1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

no ive conquered the porn addiction thing

the hard work is the only way - I agree

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Now all you have to do is quit gaming, kill the ego, stop blaming others for your problems, quit looking for ways to medicate self diagnosed bullshit syndromes, quit trying to negotiate desire and find your way to becoming someone who is vaguely attractive.

[–]TheBrownSlaya1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

alright

[–]Redrover85717 points18 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Jesus. Every problem you have is someone else’s fault but your own. The best part is that most of the shit you listed here a lot of the guys on this thread have experienced otherwise they wouldn’t fucking be here in the first place.

[–]redwall928 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You should tell your woman all this shit. She'll def want to bang. Maybe you can chart how many words you spread across all these different topics from your past.

Keep it short on your lack of height genes.

But putting on muscle? Yeah ... tell her you have an issue with that one.

Eating disorders, porn, gaming addictions??? Yeah ... tell her you have issues because your parents.

Standing up for yourself?? Yeah ... tell her you're conditioned to not stand up for yourself.

No fulfilling social support system? Yeah ... tell her that's why she should join you. B/c you NEED a support system; and you've got no support system with her.

Holy fucking cow man. Everything in your life is somebody else's fault. How'd you find a girl to fuck 2-3x a week? You've been hiding all these things from her haven't you!

[–]TheBrownSlaya0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She knows about all my shortcomings. She's been there for me when things were really tough. I make a conscious effort to not make her feel like shes my therapist. And also, I DO blame myself, it just wasn't obvious in my previous comment.

[–]Smuggler-Tuek4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

blaming the world around you for shit that’s your responsibility

Jesus dude I wouldn’t want to fuck you either. Do you want to throw a pity party or do you want to get laid? Okay life sucks now fix it. You only get once victim puke and hopefully this was your first one. I don’t care how hard your life is or what sob story you think anyone is going to care about it’s not their responsibility to fix your life, it’s yours. I can tell you from experience at the lowest points in life when you are the most broken and fucked up no one will actually give a shit. Learn to live with that fact and fix your life.

I too used to hear it all. Low sex drive, can’t have sex that often, “I’m too sore still”, it’s all bs. Fix your shit and make your way through the sidebar and you will see what I mean.

[–]TheBrownSlaya0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I get that. I know nobody gives a shit. I wasn't trying to throw a pity part. It was only a response to the guy who thought I was a cuck for taking antidepressants. Yes I agree, gotta fix myself and continue to put work in.

[–]RStonePT3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

People treat you like shit because you treat you like shit.

Don't be mad, your wife does the same thing

[–]rocknrollchuck1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro, I'm 50 years old and didn't find MRP until I was 47. I was 70 lbs overweight and had never lifted in my life. I did the work. Stop making excuses. I would have KILLED to find this place at 21.

[–]SubjectiveCompass5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Keep learning how to be a better you and act like you don't know or care how many times you have sex because it's always there when you want it... until you don't have to pretend anymore. How excited are you to do something that she keeps nagging you about?

The only numbers you should track are gains and goals you have control over.

[–]TheBrownSlaya0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're right. Thanks

[–]Tyred_BiggumsRed Beret5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

im too high and shes low

"I'm too needy and she doesn't find me attractive".

FTFY

[–]TheBrownSlaya1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

rip

[–]DeplorableRay6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I used to think my wife had a low sex drive, turns out she just wasn’t into a weak piece of shit that needed validation. I got my shit in order and smashed it at the gym, now I get sex when I want, enthusiastically. She can’t submit to a chump. If all else fails, dread dread dread.

[–]part_wolf2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s crazy how consistently this works, eh?

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sometimes we have coke fulled sex for 24 hours non stop.

Sometimes we dont have sex for a week.

We fuck when we want to fuck.

[–]RStonePT3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Are you satisfied?

That much.

[–]SepeanRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good one

[–]part_wolf4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Let's see what the hamsterbator says...

I posted this in marriedredpill, but it was removed and I was told to post it here, and I wanted to get some more perspectives. I would love to hear what you guys think.

I didn't bother to read the sidebar and I want to be spoonfed a quick and painless solution to my problems.

My partner and I have been discussing our mismatched drives (im too high and shes low)

My girl isn't attracted to me.

I wanted to know how much is too much to you? I'm asking for your personal opinion on this matter.

I'm too weak to decide for myself what I want.

I thought a good/reasonable norm was that couples (atleast in their early 20s) had sex 5 to 6 times on average per week, maybe 4 if life is tough that week.

I'm obsessed with the fact that I'm not getting the sex I want.

When she explained why, she told me that having sex more than thrice a week would be like asking a normal person to bang 7 times a day.

Her desire is so low that she's resorted to overtly telling me how unattracted she is.

For instance, I said if I'm not in the mood that day, her approaching me would make me get in the mood...whereas she said the reason that she doesn't feel that way or want it is because I'm always wanting it.

I'm so desperate and needy that it's turning her off.

It makes me feel undesired.

I need sex for validation.

My partner and I are 21, and this is my first relationship (yes im a late bloomer)

I am clueless about how to attract women.

I was just trying to get some thoughts on whether this is normal and reasonable for couple in their early 20s.

I have no mission and this relationship is the only thing I have going for me.

I don't have anything to really compare this to.

I have zero game.

Most people on the internet say "sexual frequency is whatever a couple is comfortable with". Am I in the wrong for thinking 2-3 times is a bit too low?

The internet has given me permission to want sex, but I'm too weak and scared to act on my desires.

Just to be clear I don't pressure her, there's always consent, and I make sure she enjoys the sex too. I prioritize her pleasure.

During sex, I surpress my own desires and desperately hope that she likes it so I can feel validated.

Her love language is quality time and my love language is physical touch.

I'm a huge pussy and I can't accept anything but what society tells me is okay.

By the way, I do lift weights and focus on compound movements. COVID is messing with that, but here are my stats:

I can barely squat my bodyweight.

TL:DR would you date a person that only wanted sex 2 or 3 times a week

I'm too retarded to formulate a meaningful question, use the available resources to understand the problem, and ask for help on what I actually need.

[–]TheBrownSlaya-5 points-4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

>spoonfed

so having a discussion is wrong? what if you've already briefly reviewed "the sidebar" and wanted some real opinions?

>too weak to decide for myself

where is this assumption even coming from? I know exactly what I want which is why theres a mismatch, brainlet.

>obsessed

only a retard would immediately assume that after reading one post by someone its reasonable to assume that someone is absolutely hell bent and obsessed/desperate/needy with having sex for validation

>clueless and zero game

again, you cant just assume that. you know nothing about me.

>no mission

the fuck? who the hell are you to say I have no mission? You know nothing about me.

>barely squat my bodyweight

read the post again idiot.

[–]dandar46006 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You can't briefly review the sidebar. Unless you've read the books you shouldn't even really post here because you're wasting everyone's most of all YOUR time. Just read the books, then read Rollo's Rational Male, Year one. If you still have questions, then ask.

[–]TheBrownSlaya0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Gotchya

[–]part_wolf4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

what if you've already briefly reviewed "the sidebar" and wanted some real opinions?

I'm giving you my real opinion. You're a desperate faggot.

again, you cant just assume that.

Well, I just did.

read the post again idiot.

I did, and it was bench press. Good for you. You're still a faggot.

[–]TheBrownSlaya-4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, you're wrong.

You're a dumb cunt that adds nothing of substance to this discussion.

[–]part_wolf3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You could be right, but I’m not the one asking for advice.

[–]Cl_ARK4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

How much data do you have on this?

Many times women just don't realize how infrequently they are having sex. Start charting sexual frequency in a spreadsheet or something. If you have some concrete evidence to approach her with, it could help quantify to her how much she is neglecting your sexual needs.

[–]UltimateCrypto3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Charts and spreadsheets are going to get her so wet.

[–]SkimTheDross2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Pivot tables will bring out the lingerie

[–]Cl_ARK0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bar Chart of frequency vs. ovulatory cycle was what ultimately convinced my wife.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Histogram or gtfo. Have some damn class.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You need to get better at artfully slipping in some real sarcasm here so OP responds with a more retarded question.

[–]EasyDaysHardNights1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You know you really have them on the line when there's at least three nested replies.

[–]fannyfire3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I have a high sex drive too. Two weeks ago I had sex every day for a consecutive seven days. I didn’t realize it until my wife had told me. Her sex drive isn’t always that high but it’s good enough to keep me from considering divorce. If you’re having this discussion with your LTR you need to seriously and I mean seriously think about your future. You’re fortunate that your LTR is being blunt by telling you that she isn’t that attracted to you. This gives you an opportunity to ask yourself if you can settle and get less than what you want out of life or to decide that the current situation isn’t good enough and you need to move on.

The key think to remember here...

She is satisfied and you are not. She has ZERO incentive to meet your needs. You could dread her, increase your SMV and other various covert contracts but at the end of the day you’re just a monkey banging on drums. If it were me I’d be so glad that she told me this because I’d be out the door. Daddy has to eat and he doesn’t beg for scraps at the dinner table.

[–]part_wolf4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

The solution isn't finding a new woman with a higher sex drive. He is objectively unattractive. The solution is fixing his life and becoming attractive and of higher value.

[–]fannyfire2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I agree but you can’t make a second first impression. Both his age and the age of his relationship are young. There’s no kids, no house or half his shit at risk. I see no reason for him to covert contract his relationship to a slow death. Better to just quit and kill the puppy. Go monk mode, fix his shit and find a new girl that doesn’t know the old him. Let him and his imposter syndrome battle it out haha.

[–]part_wolf1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree that if this guy actually put a bunch of hard work in, he could be on his way to the life he wants in a few years.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You can't make a second first impression, but everyone loves a good redemption story.

His wife will always know he was a little beta bitch when they married, but she probably won't care if he fixes his shit. Women care about how you make them feel in the present moment above all. That's why having been a chest thumping alpha male ten years ago does a guy no favors if he has slipped.

No need to walk away until there is infidelity, or until after his shit is sorted and he can make the decision of whether or not she is worth keeping around.

[–]TheBrownSlaya0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ha, well said. Guess I gotta sit down and really think about this.

[–]tightsleeves1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your challenge is that you found the red pill (congrats btw) but instead of starting from scratch and learning it you jumped into questions and now are getting very defensive over the facts.

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The truth is, this is all you fault and so far all your attempts to correct it have been wrong. Talking about it with her wont fix it.

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Most importantly, if you became a sexy fuck then your women wouldnt be hoping to fill her sex quota for the week before she gets a break.

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How do I know? - Because I was there. Read the books, internalize them and practice it all. It works, but only if you realize that only you can change

[–]iwillruletheworldkjh0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn so much bullshit and negativity here. Different girls can have different sex drive. Being you the same person, if the girl is a nympho she will want to fuck a lot, if her hormones aren't that favorable she'll want to fuck less. Now, this is gonna be a problem. Mismatched sex drive makes one angry and the other feel over desired and inflates their value.

My 2 cents: get more ripped, fuck her rough af, and if she still has low sex drive then it's up to you to keep her or to next her. If you always feel nervous and angry, it's probably because of her, take care

Just to clarify: I count having sex in hours, not how much times. I hope your weekly sex is more than 6 hours

Edit: I read you medicate somewhere in this post. Did you start taking it during/after the start of you two being together? In case big big redflag

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

21M - 148 lbs - 5'3''

I think I found the problem you short, weak faggot. Sex on demand is reserved for men with muscles. Lift and sidebar, report back in 6 months.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m going to make this really simple:

She’s just not that into you

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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