[UPDATE]: "Beta virgin here. I lied about my SMV and now 3 girls want to sleep with me tomorrow morning. I'm confused and need help fast."

prettylatebloomer · 2014-12-29T10:33:30+00:00

Mah nigga.

Throwawayblue1414 · 2014-12-29T10:42:17+00:00

Fucking congrats, man.

I'd honestly follow through with the other two girls just to destigmatise talking to and fucking girls. Even if the sex itself is lackluster, which it probably will be, the fact that you've had it will allow you to approach the subject more naturally. Experience is the best teacher.

There are three possible reasons for why you didn't get off: you were thinking too much about what you were doing, saying and psyched yourself out, you have death-grip, or she was just plain loose. That said, some positions are better for getting off than others; go hog-fucking-wild in doggy style and I can go from semi-boner to ejaculation in less than two minutes, though it's near impossible to get me off through a blowjob.

e: WRT Oral... unless you think that this might be a girl that you want to see again, I wouldn't worry about it. It's a good tool to have in your box for a girl who legitimately cannot orgasm from PiV, and if you're going on a marathon you want to be able to get her off once or twice before plowing her into the dirt, but do not go down on a one night stand, even just for your own safety.

VoyPerdiendo1 · 2014-12-29T11:01:21+00:00

You did anal? And this was your first time ever having sex? Wtf man, doesn't compute. Explain.

Mardoo · 2014-12-29T16:31:06+00:00

Sorry boys, this is a humorous read but complete bullshit. It's like TRP fantasy porn. Kudos OP.

Virgin

face-fucking, gagging, slapping, hair pulling, holding her throat, rough doggystyle (at one point I pushed her face into the motel carpet while doing this), anal doggystyle while pulling her hair back so hard that she was looking at ceiling, even ass-to-mouth...

lol okay.

secret_barber · 2014-12-29T17:23:31+00:00

Again, I am surprised by the general support from the sub. Where are all the regulars?

Am I misunderstanding the mindset of red-pillers.

I feel we all are ultimately seeking balance - just the right amount of vulnerability, control, indulgence, manipulation, strength, confidence, sex, intoxication ...whatever. And this, this entire experience you've presented and executed, was completely out of balance. Your pendulum swung hard, from letting yourself be used to using other people.

In the end, I know it was wrong, morally, but I started thinking of all the cruel things that women had done to me in my life, and I didn't care if it was morally wrong anymore. I wanted to win.

The woman you lied to and fucked isn't guilty of any other women's actions, but her own. And, even if she is guilty of similar transgressions against other men, you are not justified in punishing her in their name. Furthermore, if she had been one to abuse you, the RP action would be to hard next her, not seek vengeance.

enriquex · 2014-12-29T14:34:14+00:00

mirin.

intimacy really felt a lot better with my old girlfriend.

There's a reason the most popular "style" of sex at a whore house is the "girlfriend experience"

Am I misunderstanding the mindset of red-pillers, when I say most don't seem like the type to "fall in love"?

There was a good comment on here. A guy will take a bullet for a women he loves, but a women wont do it for a guy. She'll only do it for her kids. It's a different kind of love, and in the end the guy will probably fall harder for the girl if he lets himself. That's probably why red-pillers don't seem to "fall in love", it's a slippery slope and you're betting a lot on her.

But then wouldn't I want to fall in love again?

Nothing wrong with falling in love. You've just got to understand that women at 100% love will never love you as much as you love them at 100% love. Nothing to be angry over, it's just the way they are.

But yes, the sex is probably better when "in love". Why? Coz you give a shit about the person. Tricky part is not giving too many shits - and its hard because you don't really want to hurt them.

she still did not love me in the way I thought she did?

Pretty much. She loved your attention, and loved your validation. Unfortunately, she didn't love your cock and got bored. I think your issue with her was putting her on a pedestal, and probably being too available. Then all of a sudden your attention and validation was worth nothing.

Regardless, good job. Work on bettering yourself next time so you don't have to lie to get similar lays. Worlds your oyster etc etc lift more etc etc

slater2j · 2014-12-29T10:49:31+00:00

Dick coming out just takes practice

PublicallyViewable · 2014-12-29T11:15:47+00:00

but during sex it would keep slipping out. Why is this? Does it mean something? Does it get better with practice?

Practice. Just both of you not knowing how far out to go, and going too far.

What's the deal with anal sex? They make it look like heaven in porn, but I actually didn't like it that much.

I'm not sure myself. It's something different I guess. But to each their own. At least you know

Gratz man, good to hear from ya.

1NV0K3R · 2014-12-29T15:46:36+00:00

This is fucking amazing. You are doing god's work son.

Ever think about going into acting? You literally pulled some fucking James Bond shit here.

Also, who cares if you lied/manipulated? The fact the girls are willing to do this should be 100% enough indicator. If they did it with you they'd do it with someone else.

Throwawayblue1414 · 2014-12-29T13:46:53+00:00

i dont believe a girl you just met did ass to mouth, i call fake!

KilluaKanmuru · 2015-01-05T09:27:08+00:00

You're a legend.

Nitrobroom · 2014-12-29T14:38:58+00:00

Mirin

ZorbaTHut · 2014-12-29T16:49:31+00:00

Is it normal for men not to be able to cum from penetration?

Same thing happened to me the first few times. Don't sweat it. Sex is pretty dang stressful until you get used to it, and stress is the orgasm-killer.

[deleted] · 2014-12-29T17:17:52+00:00

Some questions for you guys (yes, this is embarrassing). So I have a pretty average sized dick I think (5.5 inches), but during sex it would keep slipping out. Why is this? Does it mean something? Does it get better with practice?

order her to grab your dick and dry it off with her hand. she's too fucking wet. punish her for getting too wet if you like. it's like a two-fold insta-fix

Is it normal for men not to be able to cum from penetration? This went on for more than an hour*, and I was getting exhausted. At the end, I told her I would facefuck her until I came but after 15 minutes of that I still wasn't coming, so she just gave me a hand job. Is this due to my frequent masturbation? *Edit: that means from when she started blowing me, to when I came, with various positions of penetrative sex and oral in the middle.

happens to me consistently. my fastest record time since swallowing the pill has been 15 min. it's a side effect of taking the pussy off the pedestal. you lost some desire

I didn't give her an orgasm...was she expecting me to? I think I was pretty good at giving her oral sex, based on how she responded, but I only did that for like 5 minutes before getting tired. Honestly, the whole "treat her like a slut" thing just made me not care. I probably have to fix that right? Edit2(clarification): I'm referring to whether I need to fix the fact that I don't care about whether a hook-up orgasms or not.

correct. you can't worry about this shit. if it was a LTR, then you can spend time thinking about her pleasure. otherwise, be selfish. it's the most arousing thing you can do for her

fnordsnord · 2014-12-29T18:00:26+00:00

You said: Some questions for you guys (yes, this is embarrassing). So I have a pretty average sized dick I think (5.5 inches), but during sex it would keep slipping out. Why is this? Does it mean something? Does it get better with practice?

My Response: Yes, it does. You need to shorten your thrust length. The problem will probably recur with each new partner until you get to know each other. Part of this issue is on her as well, and it just takes practice.

You asked: Is it normal for men not to be able to cum from penetration? This went on for more than an hour*, and I was getting exhausted. At the end, I told her I would facefuck her until I came but after 15 minutes of that I still wasn't coming, so she just gave me a hand job. Is this due to my frequent masturbation? *Edit: that means from when she started blowing me, to when I came, with various positions of penetrative sex and oral in the middle.

My Response: This is so common there's a name for it: delay ejaculation syndrome. Chronic masturbators often have it pretty bad. The theory is that your hand can get both a tighter grip and a faster pace than her vulva and your torso can piston. So your dick has been trained to expect more than penetrative sex can deliver. Quit fapping so much and this will go away.

You said: What's the deal with anal sex? They make it look like heaven in porn, but I actually didn't like it that much.

My Response: For most people it's better left on screen. It's erotic because it's transgressive. That is: it's naughty. Also: most women find it uncomfortable, and therefore avoid it, making it rare. People value rare experiences just because they're rare.

You said: Edit2(clarification): I'm referring to whether I need to fix the fact that I don't care about whether a hook-up orgasms or not.

My Response: You should care, if for only selfish reasons: the better sex she's getting, the more effort she will put into give you good sex. The better sex she gets, the more likely she will come back and give you more sex. And finally, the better sex she has, the more good things she will gossip to her slutty friends about, and the more potential you will have for bangs within her social circle.

[deleted] · 2014-12-29T20:40:49+00:00

You've learned more in one day than a lot of people do in years.

I can help with a few of your questions... for number 2, welcome to the dissonance between what women tell you and what they actually want. All women love being ravaged by a high status male. For number 6, don't worry about it, often the sensation of getting fucked is enough, and some girls orgasm pretty subtly so if she's as wet as you said she is she probably came buckets.

For 4. Yeah it is from frequent masturbation. It's both a blessing and a curse as I find that I enjoy a good long fuck more than I enjoy coming inside a condom, so imo it's a good thing to be mildly desensitized. Condoms also pretty much prevent penetrative orgasms for me unless she's stupidly tight.

For 5... anal isn't really anything special unless your girl is crazy into it. Some girls like the butt things more than the vag things and those it can be pretty hot.

For 3 your dick is fine. I'm the same size and it's just a matter of getting your rhythm down. Don't worry about ever being small cause I've had girls who experienced pain on penetration due to it (they were petite but its still a thing).

1 is a great move and I still make chicks put condoms on me. They love it. Get her to do it with her mouth.

Guess I hit most of them. Have fun with your next two lays, and remember that they are in fact just sluts so go fucking nuts.

GC0W30 · 2014-12-30T01:13:14+00:00

What's the deal with anal sex? They make it look like heaven in porn, but I actually didn't like it that much.

Anal needs to be a planned activity. In porn, those chicks haven't eaten for most of a day, and have probably had an enema recently.

If a chick wasn't expecting anal or doesn't know what she's doing, maybe you get crap on the sheets, or the room winds up smelling like fart, whatever. Also, if you're not wearing a condom and she isn't prepped, you are running a very good chance of getting a UTI. As a young man, fucking someone in the ass without a condom is basically the only way you're going to ever get a UTI.

You're not alone in disliking anal. Some chicks love it, some guys love it, some girls hate it, some guys hate it. I don't HATE it, but the only reason I could imagine bothering with it again is if I'm fucking a dude or something. I had a wife for most of a decade who was down for it every night, and my current LTR basically asks for it at least once a month, and I've only fucked girls in the ass like 6 times. [I actually DO date guys and STILL don't find it worthwhile.]

There's an art to doing it right. You have to get the amount of lube right, and you have to figure out how to properly dilate her anus. If you (or she) over-dilate, it's actually going to feel like you're fucking a stretched-out whore. Under-dilate, and you're either going to hurt your dick trying to get it in or waste so much time stabbing and failing that you get bored and lose your fucking wood.

stickfiguresk · 2014-12-29T12:59:08+00:00

All this talk about why you can't cum from pen is horse shit. There's only two reasons: she's loose and you're self conscious. Tight pussy feels great the first 3-5 times and then she adjusts to your size and condoms are death after that.

Finishing the other two girls is up to you, man. I'd say keep going just because you started this and WON SO FUCKING HARD.

GRRMkills · 2014-12-30T02:09:37+00:00

Damn, you've got a bright future ahead of you if you're doing this well for your first time

Did you post this to the main /r/theredpill?

Smekiz · 2014-12-29T12:29:36+00:00

This is pretty awesome actually, hope you didn't give your real name lol

Sesa_Refum · 2014-12-29T21:23:52+00:00

Yeah, we're gonna need those videos home.

[deleted] · 2014-12-30T03:13:28+00:00

Op post video, plz

johnnight · 2014-12-30T16:21:29+00:00

The sheer amount of manipulation that I did made me feel a little sick.

There are three states of mind:

Ignorance
Realization and anger
Acceptance and calm

Phase three is when your brain unplugs the connections between some memory networks and the pain center. This neurological process is what allows us to accept. There is no mystical 'acceptance'. It's just that the neurochemical response to a stimulant went down.

So, whatever shitty feelings you might have, they go away once the brain desensitizes itself. (as per wikipedia: desensitization is defined as the diminished emotional responsiveness to a negative or aversive stimulus after repeated exposure to it)

Then you will be OK with how the world works.

thelotusknyte · 2015-03-17T07:02:23+00:00

You might not be checking this any more, but out of curiosity, what part of this was immoral in your mind? This is not a loaded question to imply that it was or was not moral, I just want to know what was going on in your head.

AZTRP · 2015-04-27T20:48:28+00:00

Amazing first time. You went full monty. Fucking great.

Your dick will slip out less with practice, this combined with your sensitivity not existing is probably because of excessive masturbation. Knock that shit off as much as you can

Now that you've had noir film sex you're going to want to rub it out for the memories. Don't...hold off. Go fuck those other girls.

Have some fucking fun.

QuikZilver · 2014-12-29T11:49:24+00:00

Why feel guilty? She had good sex and you had sex. Winners all around.

MrRIP · 2014-12-29T18:41:08+00:00

This is honestly one of the most pathetic things I've ever read online. And that's saying a lot. If TRP is about being the man you wanna be and handling things like men do. You did the complete opposite.

Good job on losing your virginity though. I guess. It's not hard to have sex with a woman without making up a life. This is the same shit PUAs do by making up fairy tales about their lives to make themselves seem cool. Good thing you met some fucking idiots who believed u.

If you keep slipping out you're just going too hard too fast. You don't know you're own dick yet. That's all. The more fucking you do the less it happens. It also happens more in certain positions. You just have to find your groove

MensaNominee · 2014-12-29T20:57:18+00:00

TL;DR - Beta virgin trolls TRP with grandiose stories of depraved sex.

AnarchyBurger101 · 2014-12-29T14:59:54+00:00

Didn't come after an hour of screwing. At that point I'd usually reply, "Nigga you is gay!". But you said you didn't dig anal either, so, you're really screwed. Although......

If you were one of those dudes into pegging, as in the girl is wearing a strap-on, then you could achieve your ultimate beta status, as a sex toy and ATM for some dom chick. :D

Probably just anxiety, have an irish coffee next time, if you're under 21, smoke a joint. ;)

The whole love thing, that's more for when you're too older to be a player and don't have the time or energy to run around. At a younger age, your head is too full of bullshit to know what to look for, and most 20s babes don't know either.