This realization helped my game a lot, although I admit it was also very dissapointing to realize this. Girls are fucking losers. Pretty girls even more.
Granted, most guys are losers as well. But that's not the main subject now.
What do I actually mean with girls being losers and why is it important to internalize this thought? If you take a look at the daily life of an average pretty girl (8+, 20-29 y/o) any selfrespecting man would be repulsed by the amount of time they waste on mindless bullshit. Bingewatching Netflix series, spending hours on social media, reading Vogue, .... Activities that are in no way improving themselves or anything around them.
Most men actually also lead a similar lifestyle, which IMHO is even worse.
Inherently there is nothing with this lifestyle IF (and only IF) you are where you want to be. You have no things to work on, no more passions to pursue, no more money to make, no gym you need to attend, no mental issues you should work on, etc.
Which honestly rarely is the case.
Most pretty girls (8+) have nothing going for them, except their looks.
They never learned to think for themselves, they have no problem solving skills, they have no ambition, they have no personality, no originality, etc.
Then the few girls that actually do have something going for them often are one-trick ponies. I have dated some girls that were publicly highly regarded in what they were doing (singing, modeling, cooking). Still I was utterly surprised when I discovered that again it was all they had next to their beauty.
Is this a bad thing?
Absolutely not. I adore beautiful girls. I like their feminine energy, their naivety, their carelessness. I'm not looking to discuss Quantum Mechanics or the Jungian interpretation of religion with girls. Hell, if a girl could intellectually challenge me I'm pretty sure there would be close to no attraction from my side.
So why then this important to realize?
From a pragmatic point of view, this realization will increase your success with women, while also increasing your pleasure while interacting with them.
Pretty women are attracted to men with options. To men that don't make them or any other girl their priority. That are selective with spending time. That have a goal and live with a purpose.
So. Realizing that pretty girls are nothing more then pretty girls, will:
a) take them of the pedestal, which increases your chances of fucking them
b) make you realize that one pretty girl you fucked is not that special,
there are a lot of girls that can offer you the same
c) prevent you from spending too much time on a girl
d) it will make you less possessive. If you enjoy a waterslide, and then some other dude goes of the slide after you, do you cry? Does him going of the slide decrease your experience? Same with pretty girls, fucking them is a nice experience. Nothing more, nothing less. They're not your possessions.
Again apart from giving you more peace of mind, this mindset will actually ease up attracting them in the first place.