Summary: Girl refuses sex. I tell her to leave. She comes back, regretting her decision. We fuck.
I've been reading RP theory on and off for some years now. This episode happened when I hadn't been reading or thinking about TRP for about a year and a half. When I started getting back to TRP, I remembered this as an example in my own life where I stuck to my principles, RP or not.
I'm using the old post format because everyone should.
Around a year ago I met a girl on tinder and asked if she wanted to come over, which she wanted. For fucking, or so I thought. As we make out in the sofa, I kiss her tits. Now she's clearly very horny, but doesn't want to go all the way, "not too fast". We go back and forth with me backing off when she resists and escalating again a few times, after which I go "what's the time actually?" and she leaves.
At this time I wrote her off and didn't pay her any attention, but she contacts me again and she comes over, again. This time she tries to pull the same thing, now it's clear she's using sex as a weapon. That's the biggest red flag in my book and any woman doing this is barely plate material. I'm getting tired of her and don't want to waste any more time and flat out say "I don't think we are a good match for each other, I'd like you to leave", not half an hour after she arrived. I can see she's a little shocked, but leaves my apartment.
Three minutes later she knocks on my door, "having reconsidered", and I fuck her brains out.
- Be ready to reject pussy and the pussy will come to you.
- Value your time and energy, don't waste time on time wasters.