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Emotional connection (self.askMRP)

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Maybe you can remember me as a guy who wanted to make his GF more sexual - so I DID, just talked to her, told her that and voila! Thanks for that

Now, something that never worked for me enough to never start thinking and getting it again from females - deeper emotional connecting. I have no idea what it is, but 'feel' it's some shit that I don't know to speak nor understand, it's weird thing

From 'not feeling like we are together when we're not seeing each other' to giving them sense of security, I guess again emotional something

Speaking that womanese language and talking to their emotions and mind and not logic, that's what I lack!

What do you think of it, what does that mean and how can I implement new knowledge to work on that part?

Any books or posts here from some user or guide? Book Of Pook or Models, anything else?


[–]Red-Curious8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A woman feels emotionally connected to a man when she is attracted to him and he gives her the tingles. It's really that simple. All the other stuff around here is a playbook for giving the tingles. Things from my playbook that make my wife feel "emotionally connected" to me (in no particular order):

  • Teasing her

  • Tickling her

  • Kino

  • Picking her up off the ground

  • Really good sex

  • Rubbing my hands through her hair or scratching her head while sitting next to her

  • 10 second kiss

Should I keep going? You get the idea. Notice that none of these requires talking. Conversation does not generate emotional connectivity unless it's an emotionally charged conversation. You can't create a positive emotional charge from conversation alone because conversation is a medium for emotional exchange, not a generator. It might be able to enhance or shred apart whatever positive momentum might have been there before, but you'll need action to be the initial generator.

Also note: if you're an unattractive guy, all of these things are going to come off as creepy or disgusting. They're things she tolerates, not things she enjoys. You lifting? Wearing cologne? Decent deoderant? Getting regular hair cuts? Trimming your nails? Reasonable fashion sense? You should be figuring all that stuff out independent of her anyway.

[–]man_in_the_worldRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Establishing an emotional connection with a woman

Good sex requires emotion

[–]Stallion--Duck5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Emotional connection is the women's job. "I need an emotional connection." Translation: "I want to feel the dopamine rush I had in the beginning or from sexy men, I am too comfortable with you."

Aka, she's not a woman you give tingles to.

If she feels no emotional connection and she is having sex with you, she probably isn't desiring you as much as you think.

Sidebar/Lift

If women can feel emotional connections for rockstars, murderers and Magic Mike and Christian Grey, it was never about anything the man said to them. It was about who the man was on his own. A total package.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep.

She didn’t “need” emotion connection when she was fucking Chad on spring break.

[–]Tyred_BiggumsRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So you negotiated sex but wonder why she isn’t connected to you? Because she’s not attracted to you and you’re not giving her the feelz she needs.

Acta non verba. Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. Give her the roller coaster of emotions - tease, praise, piss off, be an asshole, be the guy she buries her head into, etc. Don’t be predictable. Be the oak and be authentic.

You don’t need more talking. You need more STFU. And lifting. And sidebar... your answers are all in the sidebar.

[–]DeplorableRay2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yikes.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Now It’s time to learn her love language. /s

Faggot

[–]hack3geRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thankfully that’s easy - every woman’s love language is gagging and anal.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hi Alex.

[–]wtf_ever_man3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

What? What now? What there hell are you even trying to say?

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think he accidentally stumbled upon the E component of the SGM model.

Probably an autistic fuck who doesn’t know how to Game her. But out of nowhere he opened up like a faggot and she got a brief hit of feelz off the conversation because it was the first time she felt some sort of attraction “ie connection” to him.

He basically ran some weak ass Beta comfort game on her and it worked. It was something different for her and artificially created a false sense of tinglestm .

[–]TRT_Maybe_Deca0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Now, something that never worked for me enough to never start thinking and getting it again from females - deeper emotional connecting

It never worked for you... so why are you still seeking it? Because you feel like you should, but who defines what you should do? Obviously not you

I have no idea what it is, but 'feel' it's some shit that I don't know to speak nor understand, it's weird thing

Congratulations you are a man, and this confirms it. You should be proud of this, you don't think like a women because you don't have ovaries. That's the way shit works.

From 'not feeling like we are together when we're not seeing each other' to giving them sense of security, I guess again emotional something

This doesn't even make sense... best I can say is provide comfort when you are present (and she deserves it). Do you have any concept of how dread works? I bet not

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

IDK, but all the women I have been with really love me when I put coke on my dick for them to rail off...

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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