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[–]0dineye18 points19 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Yeah except it usually happens when we are young children, just like for girls. Sexual assault is a CHILDREN'S ISSUE, not a women's issue.

[–]BeingHorne4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Wow. I never thought of it like that

[–]0dineye8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yea, it doesn't a lot of attention. I think it's because women are pretty common perpetrators. Sexual assault in adults is largely male on victim violence. Sexual assault on children is more prevalent that sexual assault on adults and has a lot more female perpetrators. Mind you this doesn't account for sexual violence FROM children, which is destroying the American Foster System nor does it cover sexual shaming. Sexual shaming may have more to do with sexual assault in adults than any other issue, so it's probably something to keep an eye on.

[–]BeingHorne0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, but those people don't sell well in the news cycle so.. fuck 'em who needs 'em

[–]0dineye0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

so.. fuck 'em

no don't

[–]BeingHorne0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bad phrasing. I retract

[–]0dineye0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, let it be funny.

[–]BlatantNapping1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If this is coming from a personal place, I'm sorry you were assaulted, it's not your fault and it's a terrible thing to happen to anyone. There's nothing inherently masculine or feminine about responding to trauma.

[–]GiveMeTheBroccoli0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Is this Britain?

[–]DepravedWalnut0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No it's the western world.

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[–]idk-oke-1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

10-year old boy gets raped by adult woman People like you: hE cOulD’vE fOuGhT bAcK

[–]maexx80-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

obviously, my comment pertained to grown, adult men, not a child. keep twisting words, you are in good company with leftist media

[–]idk-oke-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Lol you’re litteraly saying that men getting raped or sexually aussulted is a normal thing that isn’t bad. Please leave this Earth.

[–]maexx800 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

i said nothing like that. i said that if a grown man is "sexually assaulted" by a woman its time for them to grow some balls

[–]idk-oke0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

That means the exact same thing!

[–]maexx800 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

it neither states that its normal nor that it isn't bad. it just says that any dude who let's that happen to them is a whiny bitch

[–]vervemoll0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

How is this to do with feminism?

[–]Do0ozy-3 points-2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Who says this when men get sexually assaulted? Can I get some links? Because I’m pretty sure when men are sexually assaulted it’s by other men. And it gets taken seriously enough. Where are these woman assaulters? Sure there are grabby women, and they should face consequences, but where does this idea that they don’t come from? I highly doubt the people in this sub are being groped by women.

And try this out for size, a woman sexually assaulting a man is different than vice versa, because of the strength and size differences. Is this the type of fact that the problem is with?

[–]TheLichKing-Zeyd1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's common for children to be sexually assaulted by women

[–]Do0ozy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

From what I’ve seen, when the happens the complaints are about the media coverage and language used, not about the women actually getting away with the assault.

[–]pms17120 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Recently, an Angelina Jolie lookalike raped a guy in Romania and stabbed him, it's all over the news, check out the internet

[–]Do0ozy0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I don't know what kind of point you're trying to make, but I looked it up and that's a wild story. She stabbed after he couldn't 'perform anymore' after she raped him twice. Crazy that he could get hard in the first place if you think about it. Definitely a sad but wild story.

That shit was from 2014 though, I don't really know what point you're trying to make lol. I've definitely never felt worried about getting raped by a woman at knife point lol. It just doesn't happen almost ever, you need the perfect circumstance. If that girl was ugly as shit, I doubt he would have been able to 'perform' period.

[–]pms17120 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Sry, "recently" was a typo.

Crazy that he could get hard in the first place if you think about it. Definitely a sad but wild story.

Lol, you're right, but indeed, it's the same as involuntarily rubbing yourself against the sheets and getting hard.

I've definitely never felt worried about getting raped by a woman at knife point lol

Well, no one perpetually worries about being raped, I don't think even women do XD. However, I think the point is that rape doesn't depend on gender. Dr Siobhan Weare of Lancaster uni law school recently conducted a research, (in July if I remember it right) in which she interviewed about 30 men who were evidently raped by woman between May 2018-19. Interestingly, in most cases, the police officers accused most of them that they'd "enjoyed" it since they'd got erections. First, it's none of the police officers business if they enjoyed it or not, and second,they should know that if someone forcefully jerks you off, you will still ejaculate. Also, this is a global problem as the Center for Civil Society, Delhi has found out that about 18% of Indian adult men have reported rape, and 12% of them claimed a female perpetrator.

So I won't be "worried" about being raped at all times, but I will indeed feel insecurity to wander down dark alleys unarmed at night.

It just doesn't happen almost ever, you need the perfect circumstance. If that girl was ugly as shit, I doubt he would have been able to 'perform' period

If you've read the previous point, I think that you should understand that it does happen more often than we know, and that the police and judicial systems of most countries don't even file reports, while in the rest, active victim shaming takes place. There are many such statistics available at a quick Google search

[–]Do0ozy0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I get what you're saying, and men raping other men is definitely something that exists, but I don't see the point of this whataboutism. Obviously both male and female rape and male on male rape should be problems that are discussed, but I think it's pretty obvious which one is more widespread.

I mean many if not most male to female rapes involve alcohol and some chick getting too drunk. Not just some random violent rape. There are obviously discussions to be had about that too, and what constitutes rape in that situation, but I also think that it's pretty obvious that men raping women the overwhelmingly primary rape problem in our society. In fact I think it's pretty damn obvious and pretty damn pathetic to try to whatabout about it for fuck knows reasons. Not saying you do this, but this sub is notorious for it.

[–]pms17120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I get what you're saying, and men raping other men is definitely something that exists, but I don't see the point of this whataboutism. Obviously both male and female rape and male on male rape should be problems that are discussed, but I think it's pretty obvious which one is more widespread.

I agree. However, the problem is that in a country like mine, if you're walking on a road, and a woman screams bloody rape at you, then you'll first be assaulted by a mob and then dragged to a police station, whether you're guilty or not (and you'll have to pay your hospital bills yourself). Then even if you were found innocent (a slim chance) you'll be a social outcast, and if you don't have any outstanding qualifications, you'll never be employed.

On the other hand, if a man reports rape to the police, it'll be laughed off, the man will apparently be at fault because he "enjoyed it" as he managed to get an erection. If the news leaks out, the man shall be shamed in every walk of his life, and it wi end with him blowing his brains out.

The problem is in most of the world's judicial systems, many of which don't even consider woman on man rape as rape. If this is not injustice to men, I don't know what it is.

I mean many if not most male to female rapes involve alcohol and some chick getting too drunk. Not just some random violent rape. There are obviously discussions to be had about that too, and what constitutes rape in that situation,

If both the "perpetrator" and the "victim" are drunk, I don't think it should be counted as rape, as none of them can consent, not just the victim. In this case, there's no way of knowing who the perpetrator actually is, so it's not correct to steriotype and hold men responsible for it. For all we know, the guy could be relatively more drunk than her, and she could have initiated the sex. Currently, it's like "you've got the penis, so you started it". Apparently, the judges who say shit like this are 60 year old virgins, because they've never heard of the woman on top position.

but I also think that it's pretty obvious that men raping women the overwhelmingly primary rape problem in our society. In fact I think it's pretty damn obvious and pretty damn pathetic to try to whatabout about it for fuck knows reasons. Not saying you do this, but this sub is notorious for it

I agree that men raping women are the primary problem in our society, and the men who do this should be castrated or imprisoned for life. I'm not whatabouting about it, if you call "trying to shed some light on" whabouting. If this is the case, a few decades later the gay rights activists were apparently "whatabouting" as they were one of the many persecuted groups. My point is that trying to get some attention towards the issues that seriously lack attention doesn't mean that attention is being stolen from the issues that have a lot of attention already, and it is not "whatabouting".

All I'm saying is that are our constitutions and our police forces fair towards woman on man rape as they are the other way around? Statistically, not.

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