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35 Signs The Girl You’re Dating Is A Whore

Oscar Zach
August 2, 2014

 “As blushing will sometimes make a whore pass for a virtuous woman, so modesty may make a fool seem a man of sense.”

-Jonathan Swift (1667-1745)

Most men seek to escape the Matrix of the Anglosphere to find a ‘good’ woman. Let’s assume you travel to a foreign country full of beautiful women, and you do happen to find your ‘unicorn’. There is still the danger of being conned by your beautiful foreign girlfriend who could be a social prostitute (part-time prostitute) or have a history of indulging in it. There are certain signs that must be kept in mind to identify such women.

Most social prostitutes are casual about prostitution, but what must be understood is that a woman who can separate sex from love and commitment isn’t really the type you’d be looking for, especially when it comes to seeking loyalty within a relationship. Her loyalties are basically reserved for the highest bidder; and if you fail to bid consistently, you’ll lose her in the end.

Even women who haven’t prostituted themselves can exhibit these traits below. Technically they may not be prostitutes, but they still have a prostitute’s mindset.  Essentially, they prostitute themselves to their husbands, boyfriends or lovers for a period of time, as long as these men can afford them. This has led to the coinage of the term ‘legalized prostitution’ to such relationships where men are essentially indirectly paying for sex.

Most of the time, women indulge in prostitution out of a need for financial resources, but in today’s world, a love of authority and fame, or even the simple need to be maintained by men in return for sex, often propels women into this path voluntarily. So here are the signs you must observe for:

1. She’s obsessed about money and excessively materialistic.

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The classic whore’s mindset: she talks money, thinks money, eats money, sleeps money. This woman can easily be seduced with offers of money, and sometimes even asks for it. She never refuses offers of cash gifts. Money will open her legs and give her gina tingles faster than game.

2. She rates men on their income, social status and influence (disregarding character), and has guy friends who are all above her in status. She often compares her friends’ “successful” boyfriends to you.

The guy ‘friends’ might as well be her customers.  If she idolizes rich and ‘successful’ men of questionable character, it shows where her priorities lie. A little attention from such men is enough for her to pull down her panties for them.

3. She berates and criticizes women who date men below them in social and economic status.

She thinks: Stupid and foolish bitches, who fall in love and date cheap customers. Couldn’t they get snag richer clients?

4. She immediately warms up to you and emits coy sexual vibes, once she learns of your well-to-do background. Sometimes, she downright pursues you.

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Whores are the epitome of female financial hypergamy.

5. She constantly reminds you of the things that she’s done for you.

Especially of the sex she provided for you. What else can she do for you except  provide her ‘special’ orifices for you on demand? You should be grateful for the skilled services she provided for you, she’s saying, since she’s done a better job than what her competitors would’ve given you.

6. Her affection gradually or suddenly changes for you when you’re having financial or social difficulties, or after learning of your humble financial health.

Why would she want to waste time with a ‘financial loser’ who can’t support her?

“Whores don’t live in company of poor men, citizens never support a weak company and birds don’t build nests on a tree that doesn’t bear fruits.”

– Kautilya , 370 BC-283 BC

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7. She has a poor or average income, but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support.

Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan?

8. She has (or had) a debt problem, but she’s paying (or paid) it off remarkably fast.

This applies especially student loans or expensive degrees. Same question: Who pays for it, and how?

9. She feels uncomfortable displaying affection in public, even though she gives out a modern woman vibe.
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Unless she comes from a culture which is religious, sexually conservative, or repressed, most modern woman in relationships usually have no problem with light petting or affection from their men in public.  If she’s already been intimate with you before, she ironically dresses sexily or she comes from a sexualized cultural background, this post-sex public self-consciousness becomes an even greater red flag. If she dislikes your hand on her thigh or a casual brush on her ass when in public, it is a sign of emotional disconnection from you. Or it could be a sign that you’re below her, and just a customer she’d only like to be intimate with in private.

10. You happen to find stuff like condoms, vaginal douche, BDSM gear and sex toys in her handbag which she carries in public. Or if you move in with her, you happen to find stuff like wigs and whore outfits in her wardrobe.

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Who carries or keeps stuff like that? Only experienced professionals. Wigs are to camouflage her identity on her ‘calls’.

11. She is known by multiple names among people. Her guy friends call her with different names, or she asks you to address her by a name which is not her real name. Also: she has multiple cell numbers.

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This is a big red flag. If your Monika is called as Marina by some other guy, it means that’s one of those names is her whore alias. She doesn’t want to be known by her real name to protect her identity. Multiple cell numbers are obvious: one is for personal or casual use, the other one is for official or ‘work’ (prostitution) use.

12. She tends to have jobs working late nights.

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Such jobs are often ‘whore-creating’ jobs. More so if these jobs are in environments when around men who are often willing to spend money at nights to get easy sex. Most women (especially poor girls) find it an easy way to make side money.

13. She’s worked in the bar, stripper, promotions, glamor and entertainment, PR, HR, PA, hospitality, airline and modeling industry. Or she has visited or hails from the sex industry hotspots of the world.

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Though not all women (NAWALT, lol) who work in these industries are like that, the casting couch exists a lot in these industries. Stereotypes are often derived from some reality. Women in these industries and areas have more access to rich and influential men who’d be willing to pay for booty. Don’t exonerate her easily before doing a thorough background check on her work.

14. She usually doesn’t answer your messages or calls if you message or call her at nights even though she is an night owl or has an active nightlife.

She tells you later that she was either ‘working’ or ‘busy’, or she messages you a text reply without answering your call. If she says she was deep asleep at say 10 or 11 pm when she usually hangs out late, you’re probably being bullshitted.

15. She tends to be usually ‘busy’ within the week without explaining what ‘busy’ is.

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‘Busy’ is the code word for booked or reserved, a term commonly used by prostitutes. A normal girl will rather tell you directly what she’s doing to postpone plans, instead of using the ambiguous, business-like ‘busy’.

16. She tends to “schedule” sex once you’ve become intimate.

A typical trait of prostitutes. You’ll get sex at ‘so and so’ time ideally for ‘so and so’ duration with ‘so and so’ service at ‘so and so’ place.

17. She boasts and prides herself of her sexual skills and how men are attracted to her, but she’s thin-skinned at personal criticism and jealous of beautiful women.

The whore’s attention whoring. What else is she good at, except sex and attracting customers? Whores are also thin-skinned at criticism because of low self esteem, not to mention of envy against younger and more beautiful women whom they’d try to demean.

18. She speaks out in favor of prostitution and admires famous prostitutes of lore.

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Her role models and her sympathies often lie with the ideology and lifestyle she’s affiliated with. She doesn’t look down on her prostitutes or women who indulge in it.

19. She has very ‘successful’ friends who are quite old for her age group.

These could be her sponsors (often sexual clients.)

20. She’s had a surprisingly quick promotion and salary hike in a short period, or her new boss is someone she met in her previous workplace.

She’s being (or been) the boss’s bitch.

21. Her social circle includes women who are actual whores.

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Birds of the same feather flock together. And if the alpha girl in her clique is a whore, you can safely deduce that your girl has also dabbled in that as well.

22. She avoids contacting her family, especially the males. The men in her family disrespect her.

This is a sign her parents know and disapprove of her whoring, and have disowned her.

23. She’s traveled to short vacations with some of her guy ‘friends’ even though she couldn’t afford it.

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She was basically an out call escort for the duration of the trips or in more dignified terms, ‘a travel companion’.

24. She frequently uses the word bitch, slut and whore to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like.

What she does in her life relives in her mind. She’s simply projecting onto others what she’s done and been called before by others.

25. She lets you act out all your wildest sexual fantasies with her during your first few sexual encounters with her (screwing her ass and shooting your load in her mouth, golden showers, etc).

She does this to impress and reserve you as a long term customer. The first impressions (sexual experiences) are the lasting impressions. Sex then goes rapidly downhill, unless you ‘give her’ something in return to reenact those first encounters. No matter how lousy the sex will get later, she knows you’ll always reminisce those exhilarating first times with her, and keep going back to her to relive those ‘memorable’ encounters.

26. Sex, frequent at first, gradually becomes a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you after much cajoling from you, or after only you’ve done something for her first (usually something of monetary value).

She rarely initiates sex, and rewards you with great sex (anal and all kinky acts – either voluntarily or by your request) only after you’ve gifted or done something ‘exceptional’ for her.

refusing sex

Pay for pleasure please! The sex is your transaction reward. (in her mind)

27. Her sarcasm includes dick size and ejaculation time, which she uses to pick on men.

It’s typical, uncouth prostitute or slut communication jargon to shame men.

28. She has dated way older “successful” men than her in the past—mostly from social networking sites or workplace.

“Successful” translates into rich here. These men are often her past clients. Social networking sites, being used for prostitution, is an old story.

29. She spends a lot on trying to look younger than her age, and has a morbid fear of growing old.

“Old age is a woman’s hell”

– Ninon de Lenclos (1620-1705)

Their appearance is their greatest (and often only) ‘virtue’, apart from sexual skills.

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30. She has a materialistic, divorced or promiscuous mother who has male issues, to whom she’s very close.  Whores raise whores.

Women always resemble their mothers in the end, especially when it comes to character. And a whore mother or a mother who shares a gold digging mindset will propel and exonerate her daughter’s path into whoredom.  Her exoneration will be enough justification for her daughter to whore herself with impunity. A separated woman who hates men will also use her daughter to financially exploit men to exact revenge on the male gender.

31. She has a problem trusting you, even if you have proven yourself over and over again to her. She has emotional problems while forming attachments.

This usually happens if she’s beginning to have feelings for you, or also could be how her mother has indoctrinated her against men. Her trust issues are a projection of her revulsion for men cheating on their women who’ve paid to fuck her. She fears that you’d do the same to her with another woman. She wants to attach to you, but memories of her customers prevent her. Or her trust issues are simply a projection of her guilt or low self-esteem issues onto you. A cunning experienced prostitute will however pretend to have trust issues so that you do more for her, to simply indulge her attention whoring.

32. She’s a single mother, she comes from a broken family, she’s an orphan, she’s the eldest or only child in her family , or she’s the only one among her siblings working to support her large family and her siblings’ education.

More so if she’s not from the Anglo sphere. Highly likely as she needs money to support herself and her family. Desperate circumstances call for desperate measures (prostitution).

33. She talks highly of a particular country and has a lot of information about it without actually living there.

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This is more accurate if she’s poor. Her knowledge comes from the knowledge imparted to her from her customer who’s been there, or hails from there.

34. She constantly brings up requests for things, so as to prove your ‘love’ for her.

Most of the time, these requests are aptly timed by her: after she’s provided mind-blowing sex for you and you’re lying in bed with her, or you’re feeling horny and in romantic mood wanting to plough her.  At both times, you’re often at your logical weakest.

35. She despises poverty, and more so of men who have low paying jobs.

gold digger

What a loser! He can’t afford me! (in her mind)

Her hatred of poverty reminds her of her own desperate circumstances at one time. Even though women are hypergamous are nature, most women don’t despise poor men as long as he is working to earn something.  Prostitutes however see no ‘customer’ potential in such men.

Conclusion

Your girl may not be a prostitute by deed, but she could still be a prostitute by mind.  If you aren’t married yet, these signs can help you determine if your current squeeze had a prostitute’s history, or has a prostitute’s mind, which could be expensive for you if you choose to commit to her. You can’t turn a whore into a housewife.

Read More: 24 Signs She’s A Slut


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Title 35 Signs The Girl You’re Dating Is A Whore
Author Oscar Zach
Date August 2, 2014 11:00 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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