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How to Tease A Girl And Spark Sexual Attraction

Avery
August 15, 2018

How to Tease A Girl And Spark Sexual Attraction

Teasing is one of the most misunderstood concepts in menâs dating advice. Some men avoid teasing women because they donât want to be âmeanâ. Others avoid teasing because itâs ânot naturalâ.

Despite what most people think, teasing is one of the most fundamental skills for attracting women. Teasing can make the difference between a platonic interaction that ends in, âit was nice meeting you,â and a sexually charged interaction that ends in a bedroom.

In this article, youâre going to learn exactly why mastering the art of teasing women will take your game to the next level. Then, youâre going to learn a step-by-step system for teasing the women you meet (in a way that instantly sparks attraction).

How to Tease A Girl Part 1:

Why Teasing Works

We communicate with women on two levels, logical and emotional. When I approached a beautiful woman and said, âYouâre absolutely hideous.â Logically, youâd think I was being an asshole -and that she should slap me.

But thatâs not what happened. After I told this stunning girl she was hideous, she burst out in laughter and said, âWho are you? I like you.â

And, five minutes later, she asked for my number.

Logically, I was being a dick. But emotionally, I was showing this girl that I donât give a fuck. A beautiful woman gets hit on by thirsty guys every day. But she rarely meets a guy whoâs willing to challenge her, whoâs willing to reject her. And when you tease a girl, the underlying emotional communication is that you donât care if she leaves or stays.

Most men try to attract women logically. These guys shower women with positive attention, (I.E. âYouâre so beautiful.â) She already knows she beautiful. She already knows most guys she meets want to fuck her. Thereâs nothing exciting about meeting yet another guy whoâs willing to bend over backwards to get with her.

Teasing shows that you donât care if this girl doesnât like you. As soon as a woman doubts whether or not youâre attracted to her, she has an incentive to start chasing you (of course, you need to be relatively attractive in general to make this work).

How to Tease A Girl Part 2:

Is Teasing Mean?

Teasing a girl is inherently risky. If you tease a girl in the wrong way, you may offend her. However, the reason most men have trouble with women is that they donât take enough risks. If you donât risk offending a girl, then you also donât risk turning her on.

Risk taking is attractive because it shows a high degree of confidence. If everything you say is agreeable, women will feel that you must be a people pleaser who doesnât say what he really thinks.

If you tease a girl well, you will rarely offend her. Instead, your teases will make her laugh â hard. Sheâll e grateful that youâre not yet another nice guy who puts her on a pedestal.

Teasing isnât mean, itâs challenging (and women love a challenge.)

Is Teasing Unnatural?

Many guys donât want to use pickup techniques like teasing or disqualification because itâs not ânatural to their personalityâ.

Thereâs a serious problem with this line of thinking.

First, the desire to âjust be yourself,â is an excuse to stay in your comfort zone. The first time you try teasing a girl, it is going to be uncomfortable, and possibly even awkward. But thatâs not because teasing is inauthentic to you, itâs because youâre inexperienced with it.

Think of the protagonist in your favorite movie. Does Marlon Brando seem inauthentic when heâs portraying Vito Corleone? Does Brad Pitt seem inauthentic portraying Tyler Durden in Fight Club? Of course not.

Actors learn how to completely transform their personality, and they do so without sacrificing authenticity. Expanding your personality to become comfortable with teasing takes practice, but saying itâs âjust not youâ is nothing more than an excuse.

Anything you do that expands your personality is going to make you feel uncomfortable at first. For example, if youâve never approached a woman before, youâre going to experience intense anxiety on your first attempt .

Does that mean approaching women is âunnaturalâ to your personality? Of course not, approaching women is just out of your comfort zone.

If you donât try things that are uncomfortable, youâre not going to grow â thatâs the inescapable nature of change. On your first few attempts, teasing a girl might make her less attracted to you. But if you push through the initial awkwardness, youâll be able to use teasing to effortlessly spark attraction in women.

(PS: Teasing is only one aspect of attracting women. The most important key to sparking interest is something few men think about, watch the above video to learn more about it).

How to Tease A Girl

Weâve established how teasing works, but how do you actually do it? In this section, Iâm going to teach you a simple, yet effective way to tease a girl.

  1. You would beâ¦

The initial moments of conversation with a girl can feel like an interview. You can inject some teasing here to add emotional charge to this phase of an interaction.

Whenever a girl answers a basic question, tease by saying, âYou would beâ¦â

For example:

You: Where are you from?

Her: Texas.

You: You would be from Texasâ¦

If you do this in a playful tone, sheâll either laugh or sheâll ask, âWhat do you mean by that?â (To which you can respond, âItâs not important, anywayâ¦â)

If your delivery is off, she may become a bit confrontational and say something like, âWhatâs wrong with Texas?â.

If this happens, itâs okay. Just respond with something to the effect of, âOh, I didnât mean that as an insult. I think Texas is cool. What part are you from?â

You can use this template for pretty much anything she says. If she says sheâs a nurse, âYou would be a nurse.â If she says she likes to hike, âYou would like hiking.â

This comment doesnât have to make logical sense to have an emotional impact. The power in the statement is that it sounds challenging without being insulting. Deliver it well, and this one line can spark attraction in what would otherwise have been a platonic interaction.

Thereâs a million other ways to tease a girl.

You could tell a beautiful girl, âMaybe you hear this a lot, but you could be a model.â

Sheâll say, âThanks!â

Then you can reply, âYeah, you have such great hands, you should definitely consider becoming a hand model.â

If a girl says sheâs from Ohio, you could respond by saying, âThatâs cool. Youâre the most interesting person Iâve met from Ohio all night.â

You donât need to memorize a long list of lines. Itâs better to practice teasing with a template like, âYou would beâ¦â because once you get comfortable with that line, youâll develop an intuitive understanding for teasing. Then, youâll be able to come up with your own teases automatically while youâre interacting with women.

Conclusion: How to Tease A Girl And Spark Sexual Attraction

Teasing gives an interaction tension. That tension is what excites a girl to start pursuing you.

To be fair, there are other ways to create tension in an interaction:

Use all the above tools to create tension in your interactions. If you currently donât use any of the above techniques, start by learning to hold strong eye contact (because itâs the single most powerful technique for building attraction). Once you get comfortable holding strong eye contact, experiment with teasing. Once teasing become automatic, practice using disqualifiers.

Teasing may feel unnatural. It may seem mean. But if you put a genuine effort into learning how to tease a girl, youâll find that teasing is a fun way to create sexual tension.

Of course, learning how to tease doesnât matter unless youâre meeting new women on a regular basis.

If youâre having trouble taking the first steps towards success with women (I.E. youâre reading articles but not taking action yet), check out Irresistible: How to Attract Women with Ease. This book will teach you everything you need to know about becoming the man women canât resist (and itâs temporarily on sale for 50% of the regular price).

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