Sexual NewnessÂ
The need for sexual newness is very different than the need for sexual variety.  Â
Sexual variety means you need multiple women over a period of time.Â
Sexual newness means you constantly need new women.Â
Thereâs a huge difference between those two things.Â
I need sexual variety. I donât need sexual newness at all. I could, in all seriousness, (and Iâve said this before), be married to one woman and have one FB on the side, neither of whom ever left or got fat (they can get older, they can gain a little weight, but they canât get fat) and stick with having sex with just those two women for the rest of my life and Iâd be completely sexually satisfied.
In real life this will never happen since A) women leave and B) most women are âdoneâ having sex at around age 65 or so. Iâm just saying that I would be perfectly okay with having sex with just two women for the rest of my life within those parameters.Â
It wouldnât be monogamy, but the two women would never be new, and that would be cool with me (again, if it was possible in the real world and it likely isnât.)Â
If you need sexual newness, that means that you not only need to have sex with multiple women, but you need these women to be new all the time. Â
That means that if you start having sex with two super hot babes, within a few weeks youâll start getting bored with having sex with those two because they arenât new anymore. If you go out and have sex with a new girl, even if sheâs less hot than your current two women, youâll be âhappyâ again because sheâs new.Â
See the difference?Â
Itâs not sexual variety thatâs tripping you up, itâs your need for sexual newness, something I really donât have.Â
Itâs really important you understand that difference. Just understanding that difference should help you a lot.Â
If thereâs demand for it, I will write a follow-up article about how to alleviate the problem of the need for sexual newness. (Though Iâve already hinted at one way to help it; get out there and live your sexual fantasies!)