A professional hooker is a woman who has sex with four, five, seven, perhaps even eight or nine men in one day. Itâs her job. She churns them out like an assembly line. She is on-call pretty much 24/7, and is accustomed to suddenly canceling appointments in her personal life at all times, even late in the evening, to go fuck one of her customers.
When she has sex, she puts on a show. She doesnât enjoy it at all. Itâs just a job to her. She either canât enjoy sex at all, with anyone, or she has to go find ânormalâ guys to have sex with so that she can enjoy sex. (I had a brief FBÂ like this; I was her ânormalâ guy she could have sex with so she could ânot feel like a whore.â)
Itâs a hard life. Dangerous too. Rape and physical abuse is common. Drug abuse is also common.
On the plus side, these women make thousands upon thousands of dollars a month, tax free. In places like Vegas, hookers making $25,000 a month or more are not uncommon. Even in the Portland area where I live, they can easily make $15,000+ a month, again, all tax free.
A sugar baby is absolutely nothing like this. Iâve had sex with many sugar babies for several years now so I know a lot about this as well. A sugar baby is a normal cute girl who needs some extra money for either clothing/fun, college, or her kid if sheâs a single mom.
Sheâs normal, in that if sheâs fucking you, you are usually (though not always) the only sugar daddy sheâs fucking. Sheâs only fucking you and her boyfriend, and sugar babies almost always have boyfriends. Thatâs pretty much it. (Yes, there are exceptions to this, as Iâll discuss in a minute.) She is also normal in that if sheâs fucking you, she is attracted to you on some level. Otherwise, she would never fuck you regardless of how much money you paid her. This is the core difference between a sugar baby and a hooker (who will fuck any man no matter how disgusting).
At least 60% of sugar babies are also Type 2 VYW who are genuinely attracted to older men. These women actually like having sex with you to some degree. You can tell. The other 40% are more like hookers and are just fucking you for the money, so during sex, theyâre pretty much waiting for you to finish. Feel free to hard next these women if you donât like having sex like that (I typically donât either) and stick with the 60% who actually enjoy having sex with you at least to some degree.
One could argue that all of these 60% of women are just really good actors and are faking it during sex; that they actually hate having sex with you but they are so amazingly talented at sexual deception that they can convince you that they like it when they really donât. In some cases, this is true, but the majority of the time, no. Again, these women are not hookers. These are normal, everyday girls. If you have sex with them over and over again, they donât have the ablity to fake it 100% of the time, every time. Youâd eventually notice.
Moving on, you can carry on long relationships with these women that last many years. My longest relationship with a FB sugar baby is going into its fifth year. The dynamic feels just like a normal FB; there is literally no difference except a little money is involved. And again, if you âfeelâ a difference, like sheâs just there for the money and hates having sex with you, you can drop her. Iâve certainly done this once or twice myself.