Getting Horny – The Difference Between Men and Women

Men are horny. Women are horny when theyâre horny.

I realize that statement may sound overly simplistic, even perhaps stupid, but that really does sum it all up.

Barring the unusual exception to the rule, men are horny pretty much all the time. This isnât our fault of course; our hard-wired biology compels us to spread our seed and have sex with as many women as possible. Because of this, youâre probably horny all the time, more or less. Even if youâre not thinking about sex during a particular moment, like when youâre focused on some project, if a hot babe walks into the room and asks you to fuck her, youâll probably say yes (assuming your lifestyle allows this), or at least your answer will be âGive me two minutes.â

Men are down for sex all the time. Itâs normal.

What about women? Are women horny all the time like we are? Are women down for sex at any given moment of the day?

Of course theyâre not. While men are horny, women are only horny when theyâre horny. In other words, under normal conditions, a typical woman is not walking around thinking about sex all the time. If sheâs engrossed in a project, and a hot stud walks into the room and asks for sex, not only will she say no, but sheâll probably be at least mildly irritated at the request. If sheâs over age 33 and/or has higher levels of ASD, she may actually be insulted and even angered that heâs bothering her with such an âimmature,â âoffensive,â or âinappropriateâ suggestion.

Moreover, women have been trained by society their entire lives to hide their horniness. Men, at least in most cultures, lack this training. That means that when a man is really horny, everyone around him knows it. He shows it in some form or fashion and usually doesn’t attempt to hide it. Whereas when a woman is really horny, you might know, or you may have no idea. Often she’ll go out of her way to hide it; something she’s had a lot of practice doing her entire adult life. I’m sure you’ve had the experience of when a women tells you of some past time you had with her, when she said was “really horny,” and you had no idea at the time.

Some would argue (including me) that when women are horny, theyâre even hornier than men. I have personally experienced women doing the most insane, crazy shit in order to get sex when theyâre horny in the moment. Iâve seen women who canât pull their own clothes off of themselves fast enough to get laid. Iâve seen women get visibly upset when I canât come over to their homes to fuck them. Iâve seen women naked, laying in my bed (or on the carpet, or on my couch) literally screaming at me to âhurry upâ and âget over hereâ because they needed me inside them. Iâve seen women drive an hour across town just to have sex with one of their FBâs; note that this was not a man they were dating or even liked; they just needed the sex. Many women have told me stories about how they get so horny at work sometimes, they sneak into the womanâs bathroom just to diddle themselves to orgasm in one of the stalls.

And so on.

Notice however, that all of those examples were in the moment of horniness. When not horny, women donât do any of these things. Their minds arenât even remotely in that zone. Compare that to men, who will constantly do stupid, insane things for women because of their oneitis, at any and all times⦠because men are horny all the damn time.

Some men argue that often, women experience these extreme bouts of horniness because of purely biological factors, such as ovulation, pregnancy, PMS, and certain aspects of menopause. This is true. Itâs also true that many women can get crazy horny for reasons that have nothing whatsoever to do with these factors, such as slow sex drive women who are very relaxed and get turned on by a man who knows what heâs doing. NRE also creates extreme horniness in women, as does watching a particularly sexual scene in a movie. Even talking about sex, particularly in a very rich, emotional way can make a woman very horny, which is one of the reasons why I recommend doing this on first and second dates, and why guys like Ross Jeffries built an entire seduction system around that concept.

Exceptions to the rules aside, all women under the age of 60 get super horny like this, at least occasionally. (It is true that after age 60, many women start to remove sex from their lives, but even many of these women still get horny; they just donât use sex to satisfy it.)

Youâre horny all the time. Sheâs not normally horny at all, but when she gets horny, and she will, sheâs just as horny as you are, if not more so.

Thatâs the difference.