Married women, particularly when you know her husband or could ârun intoâ her husband by accident. I think married women who have normal, traditional, monogamous marriages should be avoided altogether if you value your long-term happiness. Regardless, I have to admit that in my past, Iâve delved into this world a few times, so it would be hypocritical for me to advise always staying away from married women.
However! Even when I was playing around with women like this, my rules were very clear and I stuck with them. Namely, that I could not know the husband in any way whatsoever and there had to be no way that I could ever accidentally ârun intoâ the husband. If a married woman didnât match both of those criteria, I would say no (and I have).
Every time Iâve ever seen guys get in big trouble for playing around with a married woman, itâs always because the guys knew the husband or were in the same circles. Worst case, they did a âGavin Newsomâ and carried on affairs with the wife of one of their close friends. (STUPID!)
So avoid married women completely if you can (unless she has an open marriage; those women are great!), but if you must go there, make sure you donât know the husband at all and you know for a fact youâll never bump into him walking the dog in your neighborhood or meeting him at the office Christmas party.
Physically violent women. You should pass on any woman who clearly demonstrates that sheâs had a violent past, particularly if the violence was A) recent and B) instigated by her.
Women in your family (in-laws, step-in-laws, etc) or who are close friends to your family. Iâve seen what happens when older guys have sex with their grown daughter’s friends or classmates, or sisterâs best friends, when guys fuck their brotherâs wives, or even when guys have sex with their own blood cousins (this happens much more often than you think). This kind of thing has even happened in my own extended family. It never ends well. Never. Donât do it. Itâs the same type of thing as having sex with women you work with, in that thereâs literally no happy ending no matter how you play it. There are plenty more attractive women in your city than those already closely related to your family.
Underage women. Iâve talked about this in my younger woman ebook, but it should go without saying that you should clearly know what the age of consent is in your city, and then donât ever go below that age, regardless of how tempted you are, how mature her body looks, or how much she wants you. That means you need to check ID and avoid her if she âcanât find it.â