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Women You Should NOT Have Sex With

BlackDragon
August 14, 2017

I am notorious in manosphere / PUA circles for saying that, when youâre meeting new women and looking to have sex or build up a roster of nonmonogamous relationships, you shouldnât âscreenâ women at all, for any reason. You should simply have sex with every woman you find attractive. I described why in both my book and this older article here. Iâve said many times that I only have two requirements for a woman to be in a relationship with me (FB or MLTR anyway): she has to be hot and low-drama. Thatâs it! Nothing else matters. There are literally no other requirements. I couldnât care less about her intelligence, education, personality, age (obviously she has to be legal), race, background, religion, family status, single motherhood status, whether or not her parents are still together, or any of the other crap many right-wing Alpha 1.0âs screen their women on (usually in a vain effort to make long-term monogamy work, which of course it does not).

Nope! If sheâs hot and low-drama, sheâs in, at least as a FB, possibly as a MLTR as well. (OLTR is a different story, but through most of your dating lifespan you wonât have one of those, at least if youâre doing this correctly.)

This then begs the question of who I think you shouldnât have sex with, even if sheâs hot and low-drama. Despite the fact I have a very low bar to entry in terms of my relationship life, there have indeed been women Iâve said no to in the past, despite the fact they were quite attractive and reasonably chill, nice people (at least to me).

Hereâs a list of the types of women I think you should avoid sexually, regardless of how little you screen. They are listed in no particular order.

Women you work with. Iâve discussed this already here. Having ongoing sexual relationships with women you work with is one of the dumbest things men do. Men think that itâs easier to just go after women at work, and often it is, but when you have drama with her (not if, but when) and when the relationship ends (not if, but when), you still have to work with her at the office every day. This is going to be hugely awkward at best, drama in the workplace at worst.

As a business consultant with 25 years of experience, working in literally hundreds of companies, Iâve seen this scenario play out over and over again. During the relationship everything is fine, but when the two idiots break up, it disrupts the entire office and creates a living hell for everyone. Moreover, as a man, you are much more liable for sexual harassment and other HR issues than a woman is. Not smart, dude.

I have always had a policy of never dating women I worked with, even back as a young beta male. Iâm proud to say Iâve never broken that policy even when I was very temped (and I have indeed been very tempted on more than one occasion). If you really want to go there, get her personal contact info, keep your distance, and when you or her leave the job, then hit her up. This was the exact method I used to get laid in my pre-Blackdragon days as young guy, and it works just fine.

Russian women, at least those living in the West. I explained why here, so read that article. I donât care how hot she is, sheâs not worth it.

Married women, particularly when you know her husband or could ârun intoâ her husband by accident. I think married women who have normal, traditional, monogamous marriages should be avoided altogether if you value your long-term happiness. Regardless, I have to admit that in my past, Iâve delved into this world a few times, so it would be hypocritical for me to advise always staying away from married women.

However! Even when I was playing around with women like this, my rules were very clear and I stuck with them. Namely, that I could not know the husband in any way whatsoever and there had to be no way that I could ever accidentally ârun intoâ the husband. If a married woman didnât match both of those criteria, I would say no (and I have).

Every time Iâve ever seen guys get in big trouble for playing around with a married woman, itâs always because the guys knew the husband or were in the same circles. Worst case, they did a âGavin Newsomâ and carried on affairs with the wife of one of their close friends. (STUPID!)

So avoid married women completely if you can (unless she has an open marriage; those women are great!), but if you must go there, make sure you donât know the husband at all and you know for a fact youâll never bump into him walking the dog in your neighborhood or meeting him at the office Christmas party.

Physically violent women. You should pass on any woman who clearly demonstrates that sheâs had a violent past, particularly if the violence was A) recent and B) instigated by her.

Women in your family (in-laws, step-in-laws, etc) or who are close friends to your family. Iâve seen what happens when older guys have sex with their grown daughter’s friends or classmates, or sisterâs best friends, when guys fuck their brotherâs wives, or even when guys have sex with their own blood cousins (this happens much more often than you think). This kind of thing has even happened in my own extended family. It never ends well. Never. Donât do it. Itâs the same type of thing as having sex with women you work with, in that thereâs literally no happy ending no matter how you play it. There are plenty more attractive women in your city than those already closely related to your family.

Underage women. Iâve talked about this in my younger woman ebook, but it should go without saying that you should clearly know what the age of consent is in your city, and then donât ever go below that age, regardless of how tempted you are, how mature her body looks, or how much she wants you. That means you need to check ID and avoid her if she âcanât find it.â

This is more important than you think, since as you get good at dating younger women, the odds are near 100% that youâre going to eventually be sexually approached by other younger women in the same social circle, and some of these girls will be underage. In addition, sugar daddy dating sites have been absolutely invaded by underage women looking for cash for sex.

I semi-regularly get email from you guys saying that youâve got your eye on a woman you know is legally underage, and that you want to âgo for it anyway.â If you live in Asia or Suicidal Europe, the culture is such that you’ll probably get away with it, but if you live in Cuckoo Canada or the Collapsing USA, holy shit, donât do it! These cultures seek the blood of men who sleep with women Societal Programming considers “too young.” Living the rest of your life as a registered sex offender isnât going to make you very happy.

Baby-making monsters. These women are rare, but Iâve encountered them a few times. These are women who are dying to get pregnant right now, right this minute, with any man who isnât too creepy, particularly if the guy looks like he has a good income. These are usually women in their late 30âs or early 40âs whoâve never had kids and are scrambling to beat their biological clocks, but Iâve run into women like this as young as 21. Stay far, far away.

Women who live too close to you. This is the same concept as women you work with or women closely associated with your family, though in some ways itâs even worse. Having a one night stand with a woman who lives across the street or in the same apartment complex as you is probably fine (though I donât do one night stands at all because theyâre a poor return on effort), but carrying on an actual FB or MLTR relationship with one is almost guaranteed to blow up in your face. How the hell are you going to enforce the once-a-week rule? What happens when she starts coming over to your place whenever the hell she wants? What happens when she sees you at your home with other women walking in? Or hears about it from the neighbors? Iâve coached with numerous guys who did this and it always ends up being a nightmare.

I realize that women who live really close to you may seem like easy, low-hanging fruit. Instead, theyâre poison apples almost guaranteed to give you drama and screw up your nonmonogamous relationship life. The ideal distance for a woman in a FB or MLTR relationship with you is 10 minutes driving distance from your home. That way, sheâs close and convenient, but not close enough where she feels the ârightâ to come over whenever she wants, see you more than once a week, or spy on you.

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Title Women You Should NOT Have Sex With
Author BlackDragon
Date August 14, 2017 12:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Blog Caleb Jones
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