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Aging is Inevitable, Fat is a Choice

Blackdragon
May 28, 2015

I am overweight.

This is 100% my fault.

Itâs not my parentsâ fault, my geneticsâ fault, McDonaldâs fault, or Monsantoâs fault. Itâs also not because Iâm over 40.

Itâs because I occasionally choose to eat more calories than I burn. Thatâs why. Itâs my fault. Everything in my life is my fault.

Most American women gain weight over time. Itâs just what American women do. Not all of them, but most of them.

While I donât believe it objectively, I follow a concept called Natural Law. This means, among other things, you own your own body 100%. That means if you choose to get fat, thatâs fine. Thatâs your choice. Itâs your body, not mine, not societyâs, and not the governmentâs. If you want to eat noodles and burritos and ice-cream and gain 40 pounds, thatâs completely your choice and I support your right to do it. Itâs your body. Cool with me.

(And before you say it, no,  I’m not going to get into the public healthcare debate today. “I have to control what you eat and care about your weight because I might have to pay for your healthcare!!!” Well, you shouldn’t have to pay for people’s healthcare. Under that system, healthcare becomes more expensive for no reason. But as I said, that’s a debate for another time, so please to don’t make any comments about the politics of this. That’s what my other blog is for.)

Hereâs something else. Despite what Iâve said about women over 33 making men wait too long for sex in a dating environment (which is empirically correct by the way), I love women over 30 and over 40. Some of these women arenât super skinny. Perfectly fine with me. I think older women can be, and often are, very beautiful and sexually attractive. I am not one of those manosphere guys who say as soon as a woman turns 30 sheâs suddenly gross and no one wants her. I donât agree with that at all, and never have.

However Darling, you need to be honest about WHY youâre getting fatter.

Whenever men correctly complain that American women are getting too fat, women get very upset, and respond with comments like these:

âFuck you! Iâve had two children! Some of that weight doesnât come off once you have babies! Iâd like to see YOU have a bunch of babies come out of YOUR body and then stay skinny!!!â

âExcuse me Mr. Asshole, but hello, people gain weight as they get older. You canât expect women to stay skinny in their late 40s and 50s!â

Letâs examine these two irrational, almost psychotic attempts made by women avoiding self-responsibility.

Babies Fault?

Just because you have a few babies does not mean you are forever forced to be overweight the rest of your life. I grant you that it does sometimes mean that you may have a little more flab on your lower stomach. It does sometimes mean that you have some stretch marks there too.

But it does not mean that now youâre suddenly 30 pounds heavier and are stuck with that extra 30 pounds forever just because you had a few babies.

If you are indeed 30 pounds heavier since youâve had some babies, and are using that to explain your weight gain, then Iâm sorry Darling, but youâre full of shit. Youâre 30 pounds heavier because youâre eating more and exercising less. Blame your pregnancies all you want, but we all know youâre lying.

Iâll say it again just to be really clear: If you blame your stretch marks or slight increase in flab on your lower stomach from your pregnancies, then I agree with you and Iâm not going to hold that against you. I canât speak for other men, but I have never rejected a woman who was hot and trim because she had a little extra flab or stretch marks on her lower stomach. As long as she’s hot, and she’s more or less as skinny as she was before the babies, Iâm very accepting of a few flaws.

I donât expect women to be perfect. Plus, I never get monogamous, so even if you become my girlfriend (an OLTR) Iâll still be able to get some perfect-bodied women on the side when I need to. So unlike those men seeking monogamy, I donât require you to be perfect. Isn’t that nice? (And yes Darling, you can get some perfect-bodied men on the side if you need to also; I’m not threatened by other men and fair is fair.)

But if you have a baby or two and gain 20, 30 pounds or more, and donât lose it, then Iâm sorry, but youâve CHOSEN to do this. Youâre just stuffing your face with more food, and using your pregnancies as a convenient scapegoat. And we all know youâre doing this. Youâre not fooling anyone.

So any time you hear a woman blaming her noticeable weight gain on the fact she had babies a few years ago, remind her that sheâs lying. Because she is.

Aging’s Fault?

Now letâs deal with the getting older thing. Women will often scream that you canât blame them for getting fatter as they get older. âEveryoneâ gets fatter as they get older, these women say (or imply).

Many other women will imply that by complaining women get fatter, you are blaming âolder womenâ in general. They will imply or say that you âhateâ older women. Because again, to these women, old = fat.

This goes to the statement Iâve said many times:

Aging is inevitable, but fat is a choice.

I have had sex with women over 40 and even over 50(!). These women were pretty, but had plenty of signs of age, like a few wrinkles and whatnot. I have never, ever, turned down a woman because she had some signs of age…as long as she was still decently pretty and wasnât fat.

Aging is one of those few things in life which is out of your direct control. Sure, you can age well or age badly, and thatâs up to you, but your numerical age isnât something you can control, and as you age you will have some signs of aging no matter how well you do. As a 43 year-old man, I relate to this personally.

So I will never blame a non-fat âolderâ woman for being older. Thatâs perfectly fine.

But if sheâs older and clearly overweight? Well, thatâs a different story. Aging is outside of her control, but her weight is directly within her control. If sheâs fat, thatâs her choice. And I can choose to avoid having sex with her for that reason. (Not her age!)

If youâre a woman who was skinny in her 20s and is now overweight in your 30s or 40s, you made that choice. You choose to gain that weight and not lose it. If you wanted to lose it, you could, just like this woman here.

I know TONS of American women who were skinny when they were 20, but turned fat by the time they were 26, with no kids. Can a 26-year-old woman be categorized as an âolder woman?â Really? Or did these women simply make a choice?

I know TONS of women, not just one or two, but TONS, who are well over 30 and over 40, whoâve had kids, and who are still skinny. How do you explain this if babies = fat and older = fat?

If you fly to certain countries in South America, you will notice that most of the over-30 and over-40 women are still skinny. This is even accounting for the fact that Hispanic women have more body fat than white women (!). How do you explain this if older = fat?

Yet I know TONS of American women who were skinny when they were in their 20s, and are now over 30 or over 40 and are clearly overweight. Because theyâre choosing to eat more crap.

And again, thatâs fine. It’s your body. Eat that pizza and get as fat as you like. But donât lie to me about how itâs because âyouâve had kidsâ or because âyouâre older.â Those arenât the reasons, Darling. And you know it.

Aging is inevitable, but fat is a choice.

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Title Aging is Inevitable, Fat is a Choice
Author Blackdragon
Date May 28, 2015 12:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Blog Caleb Jones
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/blog/Caleb-Jones/aging-is-inevitable-fat-is-a-choice.23193
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