I was neck deep in the American Dream (which was actually more like a nightmare) only a few short years ago. I owned a lot of things, but I had a lot of monthly payments to make and quite simply, was miserable and powerless to do anything except to to work, come home, and write checks as the bills came in.
Men have been groomed by the Great Marketing Machine to desire more than they actually need, so they can “impress” women and keep up appearances in an economy that thrives on taking people’s lives away so they can buy stuff. Statistics bear out the reality of this empty lifestyle, and paint a picture of a society that tries to buy happiness:
Even though women waste far more money than men, men have the capacity to make up much less of the pie than they already do, and to stop contributing to women’s lifestyles of materialism and consumersm. What if, we as men, focused only on what we need, and what actually makes us happy? According to scientific research conducted on happiness, what we own has very little to do with happiness, even though from a young age we are told that we can’t be happy without owning the latest, greatest gadgets, toys, cars, and other assorted items the persuaders tell us we need.
Researchers studied some of the happiest people to find out what makes them happy. The research is presented in the film Happy. The things we are told that are important from a very early age – income, social status, where you live, and age – make up a scant 10% of overall happiness. The biggest revelation of the research is that once basic needs are taken care of, more money does not equal more happiness. An amazing 40% of the happiness pie is made up of intentional activity. In other words, beyond genetics which make up 50% of happiness, freedom is the most important aspect of living a happy lifestyle. The irony is, the more you own the less freedom you have. A concise and worthwhile book, Debt is Slavery by Michael Mihalik puts it this way: Possessions are a Prison. The things you own are paid for by lost experiences, and result in less intentional activity, and less freedom.
Another important realization from Mihalik is Money Buys Freedom. If you downshift, focusing on intentional activity instead of the great American pastimes of shopping and eating out, you should be able to drastically cut your living expenses. If you cut your monthly living expenses down to 50% of your income, which means you have the freedom to only work half the time, if that’s your bag. It becomes easier to take a leave from your job, or to quit altogether to pursue your dreams. Having your finances under control makes powerful changes to your life.
Personally, after realizing this, I decided to drive a 15-year old but very well-maintained car instead of having a car payment, started commuting to work on a $2,000 motorcycle that used $10 of gas every two weeks, planned my daily menu and was able to eat well on less than $5 a day, stopped eating out, stopped shopping for recreation, stopped watching television since the entire business model is based on the ability to make people buy things they don’t need, lived in the simplest apartment I could find, and planned every month’s expenses with a spreadsheet.
As I cut back on spending money and watching television, I found I had time to do things I should have been doing all along but hadn’t been: exercising, reading, traveling, spending more time with family and friends, and writing. Incidentally, as the MGTOWs have done, I also stopped dating, as every time I dated an American woman I found my expenses rose and I wasn’t getting much in return. But more on that another time. (I more than made up for the deprivation when I relocated to Latin America, where hot, sweet Latinas abound!)
I went from bankruptcy to a modicum of financial freedom in a few short years, even on an average income. Interestingly, I didn’t miss the lifestyle I had before at all! I loved the simplicity and the freedom my new approach to life gave me. I started traveling the world and soon discovered places where people were happier, life was simpler, but they were living on much less than I had ever imagined possible. Your journey may be much different than mine. But, I’ve lived it, and I’m here to spread the gospel that minimalism is a powerful tool that can completely change your outlook on life.
Here are five of the simplest ways to cut back:
These cuts alone can save you hundreds a month. And remember, money buys freedom. And freedom equals happiness.
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Title | Downshifting to a Simpler Life, For Men |
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Author | Relampago Furioso |
Date | January 17, 2016 2:44 PM UTC (8 years ago) |
Blog | The New Modern Man |
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Original Link | https://relampagofurioso.com/2016/01/17/downshifting-to-a-simpler-life/ |
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