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Curiosity leads to sexual freedom… and threesomes… and storytelling

The Red Quest
July 13, 2020

I was reading a good book about storytelling, A Curious Mind: The Secret to a Bigger Life, by Brian Glazer (the hollywood producer) and a journalist named Charles Fishman (red pill dad on storytelling). It’s narrated by Glazer… and he has good advice for players… like, “Most of the best things that have happened in my life are the result of curiosity. And curiosity has occasionally gotten me in trouble. But even when curiosity has gotten me in trouble, it has been interesting trouble.” I should list some ways curiosity has gotten me into interesting trouble, but a look through the archives will yield a cornucopia of material… when “Libido Girl” first proposed a sex party to me, I was curious, and many years later I am still involved. Glazer says he is “not the least bit embarrassed to ask questions.” A guy should be the same, although, with girls, it’s often better to make statements or assumptions. Don’t ask, “Did you get a job making coffee because you like coffee?” Instead, “I bet you got that gig so you can flirt with the sexy customers.” As the conversation evolves some questions are fine & normal, but too many questions to an unresponsive girl feels like an interview. Some girls, however, are bad at flirting and non-responsive… but if she keeps complying despite being boring, you might find her complying all the way into bending over for you.

Itâs good to be curious about girls and girlsâs lives but man some of them are boring… itâs like theyâre just existing, directionless, floating on the ocean of existence. Players figure out that most girls are amazingly passive, by male standards. Without a man, they never go on dates (the man needs to chat her up, ask her out, set up the date, and execute the date) or fulfill many of their sexual fantasies. Talk to a lot of girls and you’ll find many, maybe most, have girl-girl sexual fantasies… that they’ve never acted on. Why? Cause they’re passive. Unless a guy makes those fantasies happen, they remain unfulfilled. Same thing with MFM. Lots of girls have the fantasy, and it remains a fantasy, unless some guy (guys in this example) comes along to make it happen. Even if it’s an amazing experience, the girl won’t repeat it until some other guy(s) do so. Girls’ passivity explains why they don’t start companies, grow companies, or achieve at anything like male rates (though some individual women excel).

Female passivity is also why a lot of guys don’t want their girlfriends hanging out with other dudes. How many times have you heard a girl say that sex “just happened?” A lot of girls will just let some guy f**k her, if she’s in the position to be f**ked. Smart guys don’t want girls spending one on one time with other guys. Girls who are serious about their relationships don’t spend one on one time with other guys. Girls who do, deserve what they get, relationship-wise, IMO. From her perspective, the thing did “just happen.”

A lot of girls are incredibly incurious… or if they are curious, it’s only for gossip, and what the herd things. “Does Madison think high-waisted swimsuits are cool? Then I want one. Does Madison think cheeky bottoms are cool? Then I want one. Does Madison think Derek is cool? Then I want him.” If you try to get any deeper information and idea content out of those girls, you’ll be throwing a bucket down an empty well. In those circumstances, you as the guy have to do most of the conversational work. The girl might answer in monosyllables or short sentences, but if she has eye sparkle and sexual body language, just keep advancing until she’s back at your place and you’re inside her. Even if she’s neutral, if she keeps complying… she might keep complying straight into sex. I’ve f**ked girls like that. I’ve also lost girls like that, when I was younger, and figured that lack of apparent engagement is boredom and uninterest in sex. Sometimes it is… sometimes she’s just a low affect girl… some low affect girls want sex but can’t figure out how to give guys green lights, so they remain unf**ked or minimally f**ked until some guy comes along who accelerates on yellow (to use a metaphor Krauser deploys somewhere…). For a guy, your job is to accelerate until you hit the true red light. A lot of the time, you won’t be able to tell if the girl is boring in general and has nothing to offer apart from her p***y, or if she’s not that into you, until you try to kiss her or bounce her back to your place.

Some young girls are smart and curious but not as developed as a man should be… for those girls, listening is smart… a little guidance goes a long way though. It’s easy to be overbearing.

It’s good to maximize curiosity about girls and to invite them into the conversation as much as possible, while realizing that a fair number of women, particularly younger and hotter women, can’t speak effectively. Today some of them will do storytelling through pictures on their phones.

The player Yoylo says,

It feels good to make things happen for a girl that she wants to happen but canât do it because… girls simply canât make things happen. One girl said that she had an FMF threesome once and it was so hot to satisfy her girl-on-girl fantasy that it lasted for the whole year. But now she canât make it happen. So itâs opportunity for me to use her to seduce a girl and do FMF where we both benefit.

The threesome essay linked above has details… other players are trying them out and experimenting with spacing out the threesome from the meet. Iâd do it same night, usually. When the girl belonged to the other guy, Iâd conspicuously go use the bathroom for a few mins after 45-60 mins, to give them a chance to have a private go/no go decision… if she said no, I’d accept it gracefully. And vice versa of course, so if I brought the girl, the other guy would leave for a couple minutes so the girl can express her go/no go preference.

Overall… to return to Glazer… “For it to be effective, curiosity has to be harnessed to at least two other key traits. First, the ability to pay attention to the answers to your questionsâyou have to actually absorb whatever it is you’re being curious about. We all know people who ask really good questions, but who zone out the moment it’s time for you to answer. The second trait is the willingness to act.” So if you’re curious about a girl’s sexual fantasies… it helps to be willing to act… which most guys won’t… it doesn’t mean you have to go as far as me and some other players have. If she fantasizes about double penetration, use a buttplug on her. Does she want to do it outdoors? Take her on a hike. Etc. Try to be as curious about people as possible, while remembering that some girls are extremely boring and/or take time to open. One of my favorite girls in the last bunch of years, Short Dancer, was extremely boring, but she was also compliant and we had great sexual chemistry. If I want to talk about ideas, science, dreams, etc., I talk about those things with my friends, not with Short Dancer, who was a sensual, inarticulate creature of the body.

Most people are scared of their fantasies, scared of losing what they think they have, scared of saying the wrong thing… to overcome your fear is beautiful.

Many of the guys reading here are curious… curious about lots of things… if you are curious about how to get girls, you get curious about diet (don’t eat sugar), weight lifting, fashion, etc. The cool thing about curiosity is, “it’s democratic. Anyone, anywhere, of any age or education level, can use it.” Glazer has had hundreds, maybe more than a thousand, “curiosity conversations” with interesting people, and he figures out that the top people, “know a huge amount about how the world really works.” They’re learning all the time… like most guys aren’t. Hint: if you are spending many hours a week playing video games or watching sports, you’re not learning. Making video games or playing sports… you’re learning. Obviously no one is active 100% of the time, and plenty of guys play video games or watch sports for recreation or to relax… but a whole lot of guys let those things take over their lives and never develop because of their stimulation addiction. It’s like pr0n… if you make it, it’s different than merely passively consuming it…

I’m a bit of a networker, unlike, it seems, the many lone wolves population pickup and red pill… Glazer has some of that too… “the things I’m curious about create a network of information and contacts and relationships for me.” For him, “Then when the right story comes along, it resonates with me immediately.” For me… when the right chick(s) come along… she resonates with me immediately. He’s also a Hollywood animal so he’s very used to being told “no” and persevering. A “no” is a present from a woman, a gift of your time and attention, which need not be bequeathed on the unwilling… it needs to be directed at women who are potentials or actuals… when a woman has been sorted into the “no,” bin, you can press on.

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Title Curiosity leads to sexual freedom… and threesomes… and storytelling
Author The Red Quest
Date July 13, 2020 6:27 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Blog The Red Quest
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