Somehow I missed reading this post in detail when it was written, but I just did, and really liked it:
Hooking Up Smart: 25 Politically Incorrect But Effective Ways To Make Him Your Boyfriend
I actually disagree with a couple small things in the list, but it paints an excellent overall picture of how a girl should dispose herself towards men if she wants them (or just one) to love her. Especially if you are young, or inexperienced with men (perhaps you didn't have much instruction from your parents about the opposite sex) I highly recommend setting this as the backdrop for the more specific things you learn about how to attract men.