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Dominant Bitchy Women Are Good to Date? Uh…No

Blackdragon
May 19, 2016

Get ready to puke up your lunch. Weâve got a Dominant writing a cute little article about how great it is to date a woman like her. Sheâs going to teach us the important selling points of dating an Alpha Bitch.

Some men like their women submissive, sweet, feminine, and nurturing – and hey, thereâs nothing wrong with that. But that woman is certainly not an Alpha Female.

Now, for my Alpha Females out there, you badass bitches know who you are, it takes a very particular man to be able to handle you. Yes, you might as well admit it now: you are a handful.

This is the sort of black-and-white thinking embraced by Americans in particular (because of our insane two party political system).

Look at what the implication is. As a man, you have only two options: a submissive wimp woman or a high drama badass bitch.

How about a woman with a high self-esteem and very low drama?

Or how about a more submissive woman who is also very smart and successful in her career?

Or a truly Independent woman who is very easy to be with because she doesnât care about your opinions of her opinions?

But, no. According to this gal, we have only two radical options. This is a common tactic: strawman one other option than the one you are proposing, then define it as something horrible and extreme.

1. She will challenge you.

Not only will she challenge you, but she probably wonât forfeit too easily; she will be persistent and insistent. She will debate with you over anything from de Blasioâs new policy, to the actual color of a tennis ball (green? or yellow?), and she expects to win.

Woman translation to English: Iâm a high drama bitch. Iâm loud and argumentative.

Some advice: challenge her back.

Woman translation to English: As a woman, I love drama. GIVE IT TO ME! Later, Iâll lie to my girlfriends about how much I âhate drama,â but Iâll be full of shit. I drink that shit up!

2. She donât need a man to make it happen.

Thatâs right! I donât need a man. I just need child support, alimony, food stamps, welfare, subsidized housing, goverment healthcare, affirmative action laws, sugar daddy arrangements, men to pay for dates, and live-in boyfriend or husband to pay most of my bills.

All of these things are mostly paid for by men, but I donât need a man!

If youâre the kind of guy who loves to feel needed all the time, this gal just isnât for you. She is fiercely independent and prides herself on being self-reliant and self-sufficient: Miss Outta My Way.

Iâve already explained what women mean when they use the word âindependent.â Read it right here, and be sure to read the comments made by women there as well.

The great thing about being with an Alpha is that you wonât feel tied down

Yes, you will, because sheâs a Dominant who will run your life.

 because she doesnât need you, she wants you.

…to help pay her bills.

3. She will be straight-up with you.

If your Alpha has a problem, you will most likely know about it.

This is fine. If a woman has a legitimate problem and sheâs an MLTR or OLTR, I would like to hear about it so that it doesnât fester and become a drama explosion later.

If all she said was this and then moved on, I would have no problem with it and agree 100%. But she does go on, to demonstrate exactly the one thing I dislike most about women:

You canât expect her to be too gentle with her words, so hopefully youâll understand that she isnât trying to be mean – this is just the way she is.

I have had women complain to me about the technique of soft nexting. These women say things like, âOh, so a woman isnât allowed to bring any problems in the relationship to your attention? Nice, BD!â or âYouâre going to temporarily kick a woman out of your life just for expressing her emotions?!?â

No.

As Iâve explained many times before, any woman in a relationship with me is more than welcome to bring a problem to me, provided sheâs being a calm, rational adult using a normal tone of voice and not throwing around insults (including veiled ones). Iâve never had a problem with that and never will. Moreover, since my goal is always long-term relationships, I want her to want her to bring such a problem to my attention so we can resolve it together.

The challenge comes when a woman comes to me with a problem while, as this woman says it, ânot being too gentle with her words.â If a woman comes to me with a problem while being a hysterical, insulting bitch, then thatâs unacceptable Sweetheart, and youâre goddamn right youâre going to get soft nexted (if not hard nexted). And you fuckinâ deserve it.

At no point in the last ten years or so have I ever, ever raised my voice to a woman in anger or insulted her personally, including when Iâm bringing a problem in the relationship to her attention. I expect the same consideration.

Calming down and thinking before you speak is not that difficult. If you canât do that, get the fuck away from me and come back when youâve taken a few anger management classes and have learned to behave like the adult you want to be treated as. Justify your childish behavior all you like; Iâll be busy having sex with some younger and/or hotter women until you shape up.

4. Sheâs a do-er, not a talk-er.

Alphaâs take action, so if she says sheâs gonna do something – you bet your ass, sheâs gonna do it. She probably expects the same in return: if you say youâre gonna do something, you sure as hell better follow through. And if ya donât, she will…so donât miss the boat, Mister. Hop on!

Thatâs good. I always do what I promise. This is why Iâm extremely careful about what I promise, both in my personal life and in my business life. I learned a very long time ago that long-term happiness comes to the man who doesnât promise very much.

However, I view that as common decency, not as something you should be bragging about. Being a person of your word should apply equally to everyone, of both sexes, not just an Alpha Bitch.

5. She doesnât wear her Alpha on her sleeve.

Then what is this entire fucking article?

Chocolates? Flowers? One of those Hallmark cards that have a cute pun about how much you love her? Yeah, these things will probably make her vom a little in her mouth before it makes her heart melt.

I wonât be getting you that crap anyway, so no problem.

Not that sheâs a total cynic, but sheâs used to the doting – the lovey dovey crap that every girl wants – and in order to get her attention, youâll need to come up with something a little more original.

As long as it doesnât cost me any money, sure.

Wait, what? You donât like that, Sweetie?

But I thought you âdonât need a man?â

6. She’s not easy.

If you think loving an Alpha Female is easy, you’re wrong.

Sounds GREAT. A difficult woman? Yay! Sign me up!

Sheâs difficult, competitive, and probably complicated.

OMG this sounds wonderful! The perfect woman to be with! Iâm cumming in my pants!

She gets off from being free, being in power, and will step on any man who gets in her way. She is, in fact, ab. So. Lute. Ly. Impossible.

Wow! She wants to be in power? She steps on men? Sheâs impossible?

Woman. Of. My. Dreams.

You should put that shit on your online dating profile, Kitten. You will be mobbed by the highest-quality men youâve ever seen. Seriously, do it.

7. But sheâs definitely worth it.

Oh yeah!

Her my-way-or-the-highway attitude and complete self-competence will, at times, make you feel small.

Iâm falling in love! Iâve always wanted a woman to make me feel small! Doesnât that sound great, guys?

Instead, let it empower you.

Yes! Let a dominant, high drama bitch from hell empower you, guys!

Why the hell would you want a nice girl? Fuck no! Give me one of these Alpha Bitches! Iâm still trying to talk down my raging boner!

Let it strengthen your weaknesses, and let it feed your drive to success. She will help you learn about yourself; she will push you; she will change you; she will impact you. Overall, she will make you a better man.

Yes! Yes! A woman who is difficult, competitive, loves drama, who is yelling at me, complaining often and stepping on me will make me a better man! Iâll look better, feel better about myself, be a happier man, and make more money in my career!

This chick has totally turned me around! What the fuck have I been doing all these years dating happy, low-drama women? What a fool Iâve been! I need one of these Alpha Bitches to step on me and make me feel small!

Future dream woman, here I come!

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Title Dominant Bitchy Women Are Good to Date? Uh…No
Author Blackdragon
Date May 19, 2016 12:00 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Blog Caleb Jones
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/blog/Caleb-Jones/dominant-bitchy-women-are-good-to-date-uhno.23099
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Original Link https://blackdragonblog.com/2016/05/19/dominant-bitchy-women-are-good-to-date-uh-no/
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