Indeed, when I got an agreement that she was interested in meeting me, I offered her both my phone number and my Snapchat ID. No other guy had ever done that. She even laughed when she said one guy told her she should âemail him.â
3. I had a similar scenario on a different dating site/app (I donât remember which) when the girl, who had just moved here from South America, said she met up with me because I was the only American guy she had talked to (so far) who actually used Whatsapp.
So, based on all the above (and many other examples I could tell you from guys who email me), you could and perhaps should modify the statement I used above to something like this:
âCool! You can text me if thatâs easier. Or I can text you. xxx.xxx.xxxx. Iâm also on Snapchat if you prefer that. My ID is xxxxxxx.â
Often, sheâll respond with, âMy snap is xxxxx.â Boom, hit her up on Snapchat and youâre off to the races.
Obviously, this means you need to be on these apps and somewhat familiar with them. Some of you older bastards in my age group have a problem with this. I keep running into guys over age 35 who want to date younger women but barely know what Snapchat is, much less actually have the app on their phones and know how to use the damn thing.
You should consider Snapchat and Whatsapp as bare minimums, plus perhaps two or three others that are popular in your area. Get these apps, set up accounts, and learn how to use them, regardless of how dumb, immature, redundant, or frivolous you think these apps are (which, to a great degree, they are). As always, I donât care what you think; you need to do what needs to be done in order to be effective. Or go home and jerk off to porn.