Therefore, if it canât be done by the typical guy, and itâs not long-term sustainable, I donât teach it.
Thatâs why I will never talk about how to have multiple full-on girlfriends or wives to a Western audience. Not all men can do it, and even if you could do it, itâs not long-term sustainable. One or more of your Western girlfriends/wives are going to get fed up with it and leave pretty damn quick.
How do I know this? Simple; Iâve seen numerous examples of MLTR, OLTR or OLTR-like relationships work for 10+ years. Through my email, I know of hundreds of these examples. Yet, I have never seen even one guy pull off the multiple girlfriend/wife thing for a prolonged period, unless he was one of the exceptions to the rule Iâll cover in a minute.
So if having multiple girlfriends/wives actually âworkedâ in the Western world, Iâd see a hell of a lot more evidence of this. Yet, I see none. So there you go. It doesnât work and/or itâs not long-term sustainable.
Now before some of you guys freak out, Iâll be clear about the three exceptions to the rule where it can work.
Exception 1: In some parts of the Muslim or African worlds. Yes, in some Muslim and African cultures, this kind of thing can work. As Iâve said many times, if thatâs something you really want, feel free to move to the Middle East or Africa, convert to Islam, and go for it. But, if youâre a Western guy who wants to stay in the Western world, itâs not going to work long-term. Sorry.
Exception 2: Isolated Mormon cults. Yes, in some places like rural Utah, there are some weird cases of extreme Mormon dudes having multiple wives. Iâve done a lot of reading and research on this, and damn near 100% of the time, these marriages involve really ugly women and shitloads of regular drama. Does converting to old-school Mormonism and having non-stop drama from a bunch of ugly wives sound fun to you? The man also tends to be wealthy, which leads me to the next exception.
Exception 3: Celebrities (or near-celebrities, or extremely wealthy men). Sometimes guys will point out celebrities or near-celebrities who have pulled something like this off, at least for the moment. Okay, but heâs a celebrity. Are you a celebrity? Iâve said many times the celebrities live in a very different world than you or I do. They can pull things off we canât. Because, you know, theyâre celebrities. Even minor celebrities like Adam Lyons, who is now two years into his marriage to two women, both of whom heâs gotten pregnant. But heâs a celebrity (though an internet one), he has two wives who clearly like the attention theyâre getting, only one of them is even mildly attractive, heâs only been doing this for two years, heâs already been divorced already (as usual when PUA guys get monogamously married), and Iâm just waiting until one of these women dump his ass, which is guaranteed to happen. Heâs playing with fire (again), and heâs a celebrity.
The same goes for money. If youâre worth $10 million plus, live a mansions-yachts-private jets lifestyle, and shower women with money, of course you could perhaps convince two or three of them to become your girlfriends/wives. Thatâs how Hugh Hefner pulled it off, but be honest⦠do you seriously think Hugh Hefner would have been able to do that if he had been a plumber?
Iâm sure someone like Dan Bilzerian could pull this off with the $100 million he inherited from his daddy, but do you have $100 million to drop on some women to convince them to be your girlfriends/wives? I certainly don’t, and I doubt you do either.
Thatâs the bottom line here. If you live in the Western world and arenât a celebrity or super rich, you cannot have multiple full-on girlfriends or wives unless you donât mind the relationships / marriages not lasting very long. If you want something more long-term and sustainable, in the Western world, in your non-wealthy, non-celebrity state, youâre going to have to use my system instead. (Or go monogamous, but that won’t make you long-term happy unless you’re a very low sex drive beta.)
Sorry to burst your bubble, but Disney is bullshit, including guy-Disney.