The 12 Months and How They Relate To Dating and Relationships

Relationships: 7/10. The boyfriending-up women do in November generally âstickâ in January for some couples, though not long afterwards. A few women dump guys right after New Years, but this isnât super common. FB, MLTR, and OLTR relationships are more or less unaffected.

February

Dating 9/10. Not quite as fantastic as January, but still amazing⦠you can pick up a hell of a lot of women in February, all month long. Women are definitely down to meet new men this month. The days right before or right after Valentine’s Day can be particularly effective for non-online game (night game, daygame, and social circle game).

Relationships: 4/10. February holds two problems for relationships. The first is that this is the month women start dumping the temporary boyfriends they got back in November. The second is that February contains Kiss A Womanâs Ass For No Reason Day, otherwise known as Valentineâs Day, which requires special handling to avoid betaization. Drama from women in relationships often increases in February for a number of reasons, making it not a great month for relationship management.

March

Dating: 8/10. Still fantastic, almost as good as February. The one challenge here is that in the USA, âspring breakâ is usually at the end of the month, so many women will be unavailable for this entire week. If your country has no holidays or breaks like this in March, consider this month a 9/10.

Relationships: 3/10. March is a big breakup month, perhaps one of the worst ones in the year. In the month of March, donât be surprised to experience breakups (if youâre monogamous) or LSNFTEâs if youâre not. Women you just met since January are usually exempted though, since youâre likely still going through NRE with her at this time. (The NRE phase is when women are the most loyal.)

April

Dating: 8/10. Still great, just as good as March, though this is the last month of the year it will be this good. As always, January through April are the best times to meet and score with new women. You should always put most of your dating/seduction/sarging efforts in these months, if you can.

Relationships: 6/10. A ânormalâ month as far as relationships go. Nothing unusually good or bad in April.

May

Dating: 7/10. Good, but not great. The wonderful time of January through April is now over, but May is still a viable month for meeting women until the summer months make logistics more difficult.

Relationships: 8/10. A very good month for relationships. I donât think Iâve ever seen a woman leave a man, for any reason, in May. Iâm not sure why⦠perhaps it has something to do with everyoneâs good mood at the improving weather. Regardless of the reason, women seem to be very pleasant in May.

June

Dating: 6/10. Summer is now here, which means dating and seduction are now more difficult. Itâs not that women arenât sexually interested in the summer⦠they are. The problem is logistics. During the summer all these women youâre working on are leaving town, spending time with family, stuck with their kids more often (if they have any) since theyâre out of school, going camping, hiking, boating, and other outdoor shit, and hosting visiting family members. Scheduling first and second dates and ensuring they actually occur goes from moderately easy to an absolute nightmare. June isnât as bad as July and August, but itâs noticeably harder than the earlier months in the year.

Relationships: 7/10. A good month, not quite as good as May, but still good. Womenâs moods are still improved in the summer due to the good weather. Cheating tends to increase in the summer, but thatâs not a problem if youâre nonmonogamous.

July

Dating: 5/10. Now in the middle of summer, logistics are really hard. Theyâre doable⦠Iâve met and had sex with many new women during the summertime, but it just takes more work, effort, and patience.

Relationships: 7/10. Pretty much the same as June.

August

Dating: 5/10. More or less the same as July

Relationships: 5/10. Breakups and drama tend to increase a little in August. Iâm not sure why this is; Iâm just reporting what Iâve observed.

September

Dating: 7/10. After the troublesome summertime, September is a nice time to date new women again. Everyoneâs schedules pretty much return to normal, particularly after the first week, making this a pretty good month.

Relationships: 9/10. A fantastic month for relationships, one of the best of the year. Women seem to like to âsettle inâ after the craziness of the summer.

October

Dating: 7/10. Another good month for dating, the last one of the year before November hits. Good month to get those last few online or daygame blitzes in.

Relationships: 7/10. A good month, not a great one, but a decent one. Nothing unusual here, other than there seems to be an uptick in cheating and LSNFTE‘s in October.

November

Dating: 4/10. The first week itâs fair, but around the second week, it drops off into a dead zone where women are pretty much sexually unavailable (unless you’re already seeing them) until January 2^nd. Theyâre either too busy with family and holiday stuff, or theyâve just boyfriend-ed up the nearest beta male so they can enjoy the holidays âwithâ someone. That means theyâre not fucking you.

Relationships: 10/10. November and December are the best months of the year for relationships and relationships management. As Iâve analyzed before, around early November, many women suddenly become terrified of being single during holidays, so they grab the nearest beta male and girlfriend-him up. She usually dumps him around February or March, but for all the Christmas related holidays, sheâs got a man and feels more normal. Women who are already in a relationship with a man snuggle up to him, and drama tends to drop (though betaization often tends to rise a little).

December

Dating: 2/10. The worst dead zone for dating and pick-up during the entire year. Itâs so bad that after December 15^th, you literally shouldnât even bother, and should instead just wait until January 2^nd when play time begins. I never look for new women during the months of November and December (unless something very unusual is going on) and you shouldnât either.

Relationships: 10/10. Just as good as November, though sometimes some men get a little âChristmas dramaâ from the women theyâre in relationships with due to drama within her own family or yours. Never a big deal though; December is a great month for family and relationships.

Overall Strategy

Feel free to use this data however you wish, but below is what I usually do when planning out the year, based on an Alpha 2.0 dating structure. (You are planning out each year at the end of every year, arenât you? If youâre not, youâre not serious about hitting your goals and need to check your motivation levels.)

• Plan dating / seduction / sarging time for January, February, and if needed, March and April. Plan a second dating burst, if needed, during September and October. If youâre new at dating and need the practice, or if you love pick-up and seduction, or if youâre a Thrill of the Hunt guy, feel free to add in other months, but avoid November and December. Remember that you can get laid in any month; it’s just a matter of how much time and effort it takes.

• Assuming youâre not a Thrill of the Hunt guy, Jan-Apr is the best time frame to rack up enough FBâs and MLTRâs and place them into rotation so that youâre good to go for the rest of the year without doing any more pick-up or dating. Once I mastered this, I was a very happy man.

• Donât prioritize your woman life during the summer months. It is during the summer that both dating and relationships are both somewhat problematic at the same time. Use the summer to either relax from your hard work during Go Time, or to re-focus on your Mission. If you get LSFNTEâs and other such issues during the summer, donât worry about it.

• If you donât have an OLTR or high-end MLTR at the end of October, be very careful… one or more of your women will attempt to push for a more serious relationship around this time. As always, be nice while keeping a very strong frame. Soft next if any drama or hard betaization occurs. If she LSFNTE’s you, let her go. Don’t worry, she’ll be back.

• If you have an OLTR or high-end MLTR, use November and December to deepen the relationship and bond, if thatâs something you want. Properly investing your time into a relationship during these months usually brings greater rewards down the road; at least thatâs been my experience. Donât go beta though! Donât get de facto monogamous! Donât start compromising!