3. Is there ever a time you should not go for sex on the second date?
Only if the date doesnât occur at your home. If your second date is at another bar (or similar location), which is allowed under this system, then you donât need to push for sex on this date (although you can and I often do).
If the second date occurs at your home, then no, you should always push for sex as best you can 100% of the time while sheâs there. If you donât, and just sit there and talk without sexually escalating while youâre both alone on your bed or couch, youâll actually send conflicting signals and likely turn her off.
4. What if she orders food on the first date?
You should not order food on a first date, but if she does, let her. This is rare, since women donât want to âlook like a pigâ on a first date with a new guy, but some more confident women will do this if theyâre really hungry. Let her order a cheese plate or some other bar item (remember, youâre at a bar or coffee shop on a first date, not a restaurant!) but donât order anything yourself and eat a little of her food. Often this can actually boost results since she feels more âcomfortableâ with you.
5. Is there ever a time you should agree to an âevent dateâ pre-sex?
No! No, no, no, NO! All first dates must be you and her in a quiet location sitting and talking to each together (bar, Starbucks, fancy deli, etc). No playing pool, no karaoke, no rock climbing, no hiking, no movies, none of that friend zone / boyfriend bullshit. Wait until youâve had sex with her twice before you do that crap. Read this for more details if you want to know why.
6. Is there ever a time you should go past three dates with zero sexual activity?
No. Regardless of what women or beta males may say about this, the fact is that the world is full of too many hot, high-quality, low-ASD women who wonât make you wait that long for something as basic as sex. If something as normal and mundane as sex is this big of a deal to her, it is very unlikely sheâll make for a great FB, MLTR, or OLTR. (The only way you could come up with some kind of exception to this is if youâre talking about some kind of A-list celebrity you want to have sex with just for the bragging rights; thatâs how crazy itâd have to get for me to turn this no into a yes.) Just donât do it.
Some guys will justify putting up with zero sex past the third date if the woman does something like give them blowjobs. Again, this is stupid. There are hundreds of thousands of other women in your city⦠why the fuck are you putting up with Just Blowjob Girl? Do you think I would ever do this? No. Youâre needy and you probably have oneitis. Move the fuck on.